I think I figured out that he just wants me as a friend. That's okay, but it took a while. But do all Polish men treat women this way? I want to know more, in case I decided to date a Polish guy close to my age. Thanks.
There is nothing wrong with your situation. I get the impression that you would like to seduce this young man. It's ok to get other peoples oppinions when doing something unusual - especialy if for the first time. It's ok - go for it.
Polish men are more mature and maybe old fashioned/romantic/passionate when it comes to ladies. They are more forward because they understand that there is nothing wrong with approaching a woman for intimate reasons or just to show respect or gain companionship. They see themselves as gentlemen - the older generation still kiss the back of the hand. Also, women in Poland are more receptive to the mans advance and make him feel better even if it's a rejection. In the west women seem jaded and just tell you to fak orf - usually becuase of the wanka she has just delt with.
If a man offers chocolates and complements you - it does not automatically mean he wants to have sex with you - becuase women should not have to automatically think that's what the man wants. A woman should be able to receive gifts and complements and see them for what they are. The sex will come or not come in time.
This western pc crap has not taken over yet in Poland so men and women behave differently. Men can be men and women can be women.
as soon as an opposit situation was mentioned all I see is ppl saying "well I dont know"
It's always the woman that brings up the age gap between men and women, whichever way round it is. Men don't really care because it's not important - to a mature person anyway.
It's ok for a woman to see a younger man becuase it's a great complement to the woman. It also gives her power over the male.
It's digraceful if a older man sees a younger girl becuase the older woman is jealous.
However - one thing will always be true.
The woman always chooses the man to choose her.
I am 23 and i liked a man who was 20 years older than me recently.It was complicated though
I am single though
You have one - short life - so if something inspires you and makes you feel good - do it - but not care free. Make sure your your eyes are wide open.