Do Polish men like aggressive women?

Ya know, Witek brought this topic up on another thread. He said that two women stripped naked in front of him....on the second date.

He hasn't gone into futher details, so perhaps I doubt his veracity...but in any case....

Do Polish men like to be asked out? Pursued? And what would happen if a woman stripped naked on the second date?

I think this thread has the potential to be interesting....

Why not on the first date?
I think the guy would get very uncomfortable and turn beet red. But I ain't nowhere near to being a Polish guy so I'm just speculting..

Polish men HATE IT when this happens!

(Actually, I'm only joking, Lucynda. ALL men LOVE this mode of greeting. It crosses all cultural and linguistic boundaries. It's a universal language, really. But that DOESN'T mean YOU should do it! Take the high ground and behave yourself--you'll attract much better material that way.)

it just seems unatural when a women is aggressive (unless they are drunk) but a gentleman would never take advantage;)

There is an old saying which I have heard amongst the older generation -
any woman that pursues a man is worth nothing.

If you register, you may find another busy topic (The sex room) interesting too - but I think it's only accesible by members.

Ogorek said on the other thread

"A woman always chooses a man to choose her."

Excuse me for being naive, but what does this mean? Does it mean you send out vibes to the man you want? Or do you send out vibes and deal with whatever fish you catch in your net?

if you confuse them - you lose them

O, that didn't help.

haha.. to your first questions: yes, yes and yes! but not every guy.. :) i can see some getting emberrassed, uncomfortable, etc..


look at both meanings, it goes both ways. you choose the one 4 u.

as i didn't see his original comment.. i'm just speculating.. he could also be after something else.. you'll know when you exprience life a little more.


i think you may be loosing her brah.

It's always nice to get entertainment like you're saying.


but I must agree with this. If a woman is too easy than I'd realy think if something is wrong with her or maybe she is like this to every guy she met.

A woman sends out the vibes to the man she wants. She doesnt cast a net for all men as you would attract the ones you don't want. I cast my net by using my eyes. Just looking at my present boyfriend and smiling to him was enough. I caught him in my net, but tried to talk to him, but we were in a very loud club and I couldnt really hear properly. All I knew he was Eastern European from his accent. When I managed to establish that he was single, I gave up trying to talk and kissed him. We did so for 1 hour non-stop and I am still with him today.

He didnt mind being persued and he wants to marry me. It depends on the person and the style in which you persue someone. Lots of girls have done the extreme thing with him and tried to get into his bed totally drunk on the 1st night etc.. and he wasn't impressed.

I got to know him first and didnt think of sleeping with him the first time, alhtough I was seriously turned on. I wanted to know about him as a person.

No, I think it is always the woman who does all the pursuing and man, being naive simply obeys. It is how biology plays tricks on you. If a Polish woman pursued me, I would always be very wary indeed as you never know where you will end up. There must be some really happy people out there and I wish them all the best, but women can destroy men too. If it is a marriage made in heaven then that must be great but how often does that ever happen? I think on the whole, women are more devious than you would take them for.

Michal, you seem to have serious issues with women.

Have you ever considered counseling?

Heav'n has no rage like love to hatred turn'd
Nor Hell a furry, like a woman scorned.

Michal, Did you pour scorn on CaringCarla ?
CaringCarla, Did you feel scorned ?

I don't know... Michal does have a point. There are just as many hurt and/or bitter men out there as there are women!

Unfortunately I only know three happy couples and loads of single men and women who have been burnt by the opposite sex, myself included!

As for up front women, I reckon Ronek has a point. If a women comes on really strong to start with, generally, it might be assumed that she does this with every man she dates. We haven't really moved into the age of equality where women can get away with behaving like men in this sense!

No...I realise that I am only a receptacle for Michal's transference

Beautifully put.

My take is you should be who you are and if someone is interested in that then they will return the interest. If they are not, then well you don't really have a lot in common anyway.

If you are person that is out going. Then be out going. If you are a shy person that likes to be approached, be that person. But trying to put all men or all women into once category would be very wrong. Everyone is individual, relationships are based on two people not on thier nationality.

Just be happy, if you want to start something start it. If you don't don't. In the mean time have a blast doing it. :-P

lol are you drunk all men like stripping women hehe ...

What are you talking about?

Thanks, Murynka. Very helpful


A "furry"? The word is "fury", my darling Polski. Unless you are referring to your "furry" gerbil self, as portrayed in your profile.

Michal, they are just teasing you. But I think it's a bit much to say That women do all the pursuing. It has to be a mutual thing.

It makes me wonder what the first date must have been like - any kind of preparation?
Was there a third? (Date, I mean. Or third lady...)

The comment about my spelling.... fair cop. But to call me a gerbil when I am plainly a mouse ......... outrageous !!!!

Hell hath no furry?

Some of us here are safe then!

Sorry didn't mean that.
Just my opinion - You mentioned that you like the men to make the first move - well that goes with that saying - any woman that pursues a man is worth nothing - a woman feels better when approached. The woman has more intelligence than the male (in this situation) and is able to attract the attention of that male very indirectly - or just with a look - as someone said. This may sound obvious but that's the meaning "A woman always chooses a man to choose her." Of course a man can approach a woman with no prior vibes but the man is less likely to succeed - and he knows that - which is why he usually waits for (the sign) the woman to choose him to choose her (although they will never admit to that)


When a woman dumps a men it's usually more messy because it takes longer (emotions and indecision) and prolongs the trauma - hence women do destroy men in that sense - and the saying "there's only one thing that can do that to a man..."

not really.. modesty is a gift