Excuse me for being naive, but what does this mean? Does it mean you send out vibes to the man you want? Or do you send out vibes and deal with whatever fish you catch in your net?
A woman sends out the vibes to the man she wants. She doesnt cast a net for all men as you would attract the ones you don't want. I cast my net by using my eyes. Just looking at my present boyfriend and smiling to him was enough. I caught him in my net, but tried to talk to him, but we were in a very loud club and I couldnt really hear properly. All I knew he was Eastern European from his accent. When I managed to establish that he was single, I gave up trying to talk and kissed him. We did so for 1 hour non-stop and I am still with him today.
He didnt mind being persued and he wants to marry me. It depends on the person and the style in which you persue someone. Lots of girls have done the extreme thing with him and tried to get into his bed totally drunk on the 1st night etc.. and he wasn't impressed.
I got to know him first and didnt think of sleeping with him the first time, alhtough I was seriously turned on. I wanted to know about him as a person.