Why me? (made an idiot of myself at the club - the tall Polish man was married:)

Just made a right idiot of myself at the club. Found out the tall polish man was married. Why me thats all i want to know. I'm destined to be on my own i think. :)

Sorry, I really had to go - my wife watches me carefully when we're in a club... :(

Ha ha bloody ha!!!!!! not funny.

Was he wearing a ring? Or incognito? :(

No ring and we had kiss all new years eve. So feel so used. Good job never slept with him.

sh!t happens, its just the way of life

yer but razz it always seems to happen to me. thought life would be better divorced but maybe i should have stay married to the twit.

but why does it always happen to you lisa...?

It really is Just life Lisa.. everyone here can describe incidents in their lives where they have felt the same, me included.. It's just how as an individual you accept it..

Good luck..

dunno D... yeas... of course we all have incidents as described but if i keep finding myself in the same situation over and over then i start to think that there is some part of me that is bring this about... attracting it... and if i decide thats a problem then i know one place where i can start looking for solutions... myself...

yer but its been 2 years i'v been on my own and all my friends go from one man to another me i get the 60 year olds chattin me up. God i don't think i'm that desperate thank you lol

maybe youre sending out the wrong messages in someway...

Everyone think that his/her problems are more complicated then others, and always say the same thing that you say, “why me?” sure there are more downs then up in life but that the way it is. We always try to think what others might think of us and try to do what others want us to do. Hence we totally forget about our self. If you follow others you aren’t going to succeed. Believe in yourself and you’ll see the out come.


life is beautiful with a partner buts then its better without a partner who is a twat.

bubba i know its me i don't think i'm that bad looking its my height all my friends are shorter then me men don't like a tall woman so all i can do is amputate my legs lol

You can sell them on e-bay

i wouldnt suggest that... :)

lol dec think i mite get quite alot for them. their not a bad looking pair if i say so myself :)

no they are my best asset long tanned and look good in heels so gonna keep them. lol

well,the positive thing is that you know he is married, so you can move ON

Its your own experience Lisa....lots of people play the field, ...both sexes...for a variety of reasons.......and needs.

Just put it behind you.

PS Just what height are you?

I am sure theres a "specialist" message/dating board somewhere for tall people!!

Look for a good human....not just a Polish human... you will start having better luck

5'8 and a bit frank but i like to wear shoes with high heels so more like 5'11

tall girl :)

Fab......tall girls put the E into elegance.........as you say appearing desperate doesnt help( not saying you are!!)............be your natural self........make eye contact more subtley........relax.......go to places which maybe are less pickup/competitive as regards guys......

Wander into male domains............be the only girl around........:)

Well, Im just under 5'8 but I love my height never found it a problem, okay it narrows the field down as there are quite a lot of short men out there, but in general I think men like tall slim women

LS is right in the fact you shouldn't limit yourself...probably best not to "look" for someone....just be aware and open when meeting new people....you'd be surprised at who may cross your path.....also, don't base your search on looks....get to know someone first....as for your Polish guy kissing on you on New Years and being married, would you truly want to be with someone who cheats on his partner? You deserve better than that, Lisa, you just need to believe that. As for your height...I would kill to have long legs....Im only 5'4" and I know plenty of men who love taller women....like I said, stop looking and he will show up one day.:) (BTW, my roommate in college was 5'11" in flat feet....she hardly ever wore heels unless she was dating someone 6'6 or more....so be happy with your height....)

Why me Sarge?

Because we're here, lad. No one else. Just us. - Colour Sergeant Bourne.

The point is. They were surrounded by an impi, which is a lot sharper than watermelon, that's for sure.

They didn't feel down, just got on with the job at hand.

If you're looking over your shoulder, you miss what's going on in front of you.

Taken from: Advice for Paranoid Bus Drivers.
Huegel I'll get you Butler gast.

cheers everyone for the advice i'll try and not look. Topped my day by my football team i run, losing 18-0.

But don't you think it is good to know "what you want" so you are more likely to find it?

Anybody here seen the movie "The Sceret"? It is about applying the "law of attraction in your own life?

Its ok its happened to me too. Its hard to get over but you will.
Im still struggling too so your not alone and if you want to moan im here to listen and more than likely agree:)

there is no such law... trust me.