Help me please!
From a Polish man:
No clue. No one can help you in this.
There is a possibility he considers you as an interesting friend. Another possibility is that he is just having some fun abroad with a foreign girl (as is the case with many Polish men who go abroad, as I am well aware of).
Or he might even be interested in you. If he is interesting, you should be able to know gradually if you allow him to come forward more. But allowing him in bed (as with many British ladies I keep hearing...) is an option which if you take, maybe that will not give results which you might like. But its your life, and its so early.
You said you go to the same parties. I have a friend who used to say negative aspects of his many English girlfriends while doing work in England, most of whome he met in parties. Now he is married to a Polish woman. I am not saying he is a good man, but he is my friend non-the-less. Everyone with their own attitudes towards life. But it seems this is the case for a good amount of men.
If you were American, he would LOVE you for a green card.
I seriously want to refute your statement. I this its a disgusting thing to marry or love someone for a green=card. Marriage is so holy and pure. Love is so precious and matchless. Specially with someone innocent its a great crime.
But alas, just recently, I know there are possibilities of this statement being a fact. My friend who is in USA is an expert in these things, and he managed to get some of my other friends in USA through somehow having them fallen in somekind of temprorary love! Its a long and pathetic story.
Ofcourse, please be sure that not all Poles are like that.
But, yes, some are. And its so planned :), sometimes I am sure the girl/boy never will understand (added the fever of love). If the love happens to be strong, some I heard stay with the partner. Others, they are more practical and ambitious, and know what was their purpose for this relationship. The advice they are given from friends is that 'Remember your purpose, dont be a fool. Wait for the right time...etc'.
And I scaring ppl? But why are ppl going to be scared. There are good and bad everywhere. Every nation, every culture.
But dont let the pessimism stop you from being in true love. True love is blind from all the material aspects. Remember this blindness, look for it (in yourself and him/her). Color, culture, language, tradition, money, ambition, career...when everything stops to matter for both of you...and both of you are ready to live in TIMBUKTOO :) if you have to, just to be with each other....then its love! Sex after marriage is a good signal to (might seem to conservative, but its not). Children, respect for each others parents... commitment...etc. So important.
I sincerely belief that such couples dont meet in bars or parties (the alcohol, drug, sex ones)... anyways...
is in favour of Irish men!
I forgot to comment on this:
Then why so many english women are head-on-heels after us? We have become so weary to choose and dismiss!...etc... the number just doesnt end. huh! :)