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How do u know if a polish man likes u?


new2this 1 | 5  
15 Oct 2009 /  #1
Hi i am Irish, i really like a polish friend and i think he likes me to. I worked with him a few times and we have also been at the same parties, we txt each other when we'r out and sometimes during the week just normal chat ya know. Sometimes i think maybe he is quiet or maybe its the alcohol or he is just friendly i duno.....

I am going crazy.............

Men are so hard to understand, it would be better if people just say what they want..........Help me please!
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Oct 2009 /  #2
If you were American, he would LOVE you for a green card. But otherwise don't have a clue.
beckski 12 | 1,617  
15 Oct 2009 /  #3
How do u know if a polish man likes u?

Take a quick look around the forum. There's already billions of similar threads.

Btw, one hint that may show you that he likes you: He's got a bulge between his legs, when you're standing close to him.
OP new2this 1 | 5  
15 Oct 2009 /  #4
hmmm its a tough one alrite....

I didnt see any threads like the one i started, thats why i asked...
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Oct 2009 /  #5
How do u know if a polish man likes u?

He will have a pistole in his pocket.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
15 Oct 2009 /  #6
Enjoy being a race traitor. Why mix your glorious Irish genes with a Pole? Ah...whatever rocks your boat. Your country is currently occupied and you wish to mate with the current invader? The women of Ireland are not what they used to be.

Would you prefer she was on an African forum asking the same question?

Men are so hard to understand, it would be better if people just say what they want..........Help me please!

Women are exactly the same..maybe he is thinking along the same lines..Just do what you'd do if it was an Irish fella..

You could either win a boyfriend or lose a friend...choice is yours.
southern 75 | 7,096  
15 Oct 2009 /  #7
being a race traitor.

It is not race mix.Poles are white.

hy mix your glorious Irish genes with a Pole?

Polish genes are also glorious.

wish to mate with the current invader?

New invaders are always strong.
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
15 Oct 2009 /  #8
What did you see?

In the bus I saw this dropdead gorgeous Polish (I knew she was Polish as she said TAK a few times) hugging and kissing some guy who looked like he was only a generation or two away from the apes. He was really, truly and utterly hideous.

You dont know the couple personally, so you can't judge based on appearances.

Hm, I don't know them and I probably will never know them. But yeah, I'm grumpy and that tends indeed to cloud my judgement a bit.

>^..^<

M-G (grumpy)
Dice 15 | 452  
15 Oct 2009 /  #9
If it looks like he is carrying a cucumber in his pocket, then he likes you.
Wulkan - | 3,251  
16 Oct 2009 /  #10
He was really, truly and utterly hideous.

he must have been Irish...
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
16 Oct 2009 /  #11
Wulkan

Hm, he did not speak Gaelic (I'm pretty sure of that) and I couldn't understand what he was saying, so it wasn't English. Add to that that he repeatedly said the word "Tak" and there you have it. :)

>^..^<

M-G (Krakatoa? Does Poland actually have -sleeping or extinct- volcanoes?)
Arien 3 | 721  
16 Oct 2009 /  #12
In the bus I saw this dropdead gorgeous Polish (I knew she was Polish as she said TAK a few times) hugging and kissing some guy who looked like he was only a generation or two away from the apes. He was really, truly and utterly hideous.

Hey, try to look at the bright side? It means there's hope for you!

;)
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
16 Oct 2009 /  #13
How do u know if a polish man likes u?

when you wake up next to him in the morning after a hot and steamy sesh!!!
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Oct 2009 /  #14
Hey, try to look at the bright side? It means there's hope for you!

Or his wife will find out and there will be no hope for him
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
16 Oct 2009 /  #15
Arien

You can indicate now just exactly how cruel and painful your dying process will be.

:)

>^..^<

M-G (thinks it's time he starts correcting his sons - they get too rebellious)
tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
16 Oct 2009 /  #16
Or his wife will find out and that will be the end of him..

what happens to cheating Polish husbands?? how do the Polish ladies deal with them?? can't be as bad as the Serbs or Afghans!!! Those ladies cut you from chest to pelvis and let you bleed out, nice :)

I'm guessing Polish girls guiltify you to death, you get so fed up of them moaning that you decide to throw yourself off a bridge into a on coming train.
Arien 3 | 721  
16 Oct 2009 /  #17
You can indicate now just exactly how cruel and painful your dying process will be.

Well, I'd like to burn for an eternity, get mauled by an army of flesh-eating rats, and I'd like to get mangled, twisted and torn apart over and over and over again.. So if you truly wish to torture me, just force me to marry to some steaming hot, slutty broad?

;)

A-J (Trying reversed psychology!)
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
16 Oct 2009 /  #18
Well, I'd like to burn for an eternity, get mauled by an army of flesh-eating rats, and I'd like to get mangled, twisted and torn apart over and over and over again..

This part can be arranged. After that, your second suggestion will be taken into consideration. Deal?

:)

>^..^<

M-G (thought it was time for a little more friendly avatar)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
16 Oct 2009 /  #19
he must have been Irish...

Errrm I dont think so...Ratio of good looking Irish men to Polish men (sorry no offence to Polish men) is in favour of Irish men! The Colin Farrell look is quite common amongst the Irish...whilst he's cute he's not exactly a one of a kind...(thanks be to god!)
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
16 Oct 2009 /  #20
ShelleyS

You're such a sexist creature. Bah!

:))))))))

Edit: just joking. But you're right. Irish men are generally handsome. There is this "Irish Rough" that they have. Lots of females seem to like that.

>^..^<

M-G (hehehehe - Good Night)
Wulkan - | 3,251  
16 Oct 2009 /  #21
shame those Irish prats were not "Rough" enough when fighting a Polish guy... HaHa :-D
I think it's commonly happening cause I was in Ireland once and they seemed scared when heard my polish accent when being in one "rough" pub :-)

youtube.com/watch?v=6L1EEvvxyp4
Arien 3 | 721  
16 Oct 2009 /  #22
M-G (thought it was time for a little more friendly avatar)

Aww..

:)
OP new2this 1 | 5  
16 Oct 2009 /  #23
Well i have started thinking maybe he is just being friendly so im giving up......I thought the same about a guy in college and told him i liked him, made a fool of myself even though everybody thought we would end up together....Now this is the 2nd time:( If this was an irish fella after a few drinks he would go in for the kill or just say something...We are going to a party again soon, polish & irish group of friends, i think i will just kiss him whats the worst thing that could happen, he will say no...
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
16 Oct 2009 /  #24
Sometimes i think maybe he is quiet or maybe its the alcohol or he is just friendly i duno.....

If this was an irish fella after a few drinks he would go in for the kill or just say something.

maybe he is gay.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
16 Oct 2009 /  #25
Help me please!

From a Polish man:

No clue. No one can help you in this.

There is a possibility he considers you as an interesting friend. Another possibility is that he is just having some fun abroad with a foreign girl (as is the case with many Polish men who go abroad, as I am well aware of).

Or he might even be interested in you. If he is interesting, you should be able to know gradually if you allow him to come forward more. But allowing him in bed (as with many British ladies I keep hearing...) is an option which if you take, maybe that will not give results which you might like. But its your life, and its so early.

You said you go to the same parties. I have a friend who used to say negative aspects of his many English girlfriends while doing work in England, most of whome he met in parties. Now he is married to a Polish woman. I am not saying he is a good man, but he is my friend non-the-less. Everyone with their own attitudes towards life. But it seems this is the case for a good amount of men.

If you were American, he would LOVE you for a green card.

I seriously want to refute your statement. I this its a disgusting thing to marry or love someone for a green=card. Marriage is so holy and pure. Love is so precious and matchless. Specially with someone innocent its a great crime.

But alas, just recently, I know there are possibilities of this statement being a fact. My friend who is in USA is an expert in these things, and he managed to get some of my other friends in USA through somehow having them fallen in somekind of temprorary love! Its a long and pathetic story.

Ofcourse, please be sure that not all Poles are like that.

But, yes, some are. And its so planned :), sometimes I am sure the girl/boy never will understand (added the fever of love). If the love happens to be strong, some I heard stay with the partner. Others, they are more practical and ambitious, and know what was their purpose for this relationship. The advice they are given from friends is that 'Remember your purpose, dont be a fool. Wait for the right time...etc'.

And I scaring ppl? But why are ppl going to be scared. There are good and bad everywhere. Every nation, every culture.

But dont let the pessimism stop you from being in true love. True love is blind from all the material aspects. Remember this blindness, look for it (in yourself and him/her). Color, culture, language, tradition, money, ambition, career...when everything stops to matter for both of you...and both of you are ready to live in TIMBUKTOO :) if you have to, just to be with each other....then its love! Sex after marriage is a good signal to (might seem to conservative, but its not). Children, respect for each others parents... commitment...etc. So important.

I sincerely belief that such couples dont meet in bars or parties (the alcohol, drug, sex ones)... anyways...

Good luck.

is in favour of Irish men!

I forgot to comment on this:

Rediculous!

Then why so many english women are head-on-heels after us? We have become so weary to choose and dismiss!...etc... the number just doesnt end. huh! :)
rich55 3 | 49  
16 Oct 2009 /  #26
shame those Irish prats were not "Rough" enough when fighting a Polish guy... HaHa :-D
I think it's commonly happening cause I was in Ireland once and they seemed scared when heard my polish accent when being in one "rough" pub :-)

Looks like a big chubby guy beating a smaller chubby guy and then beating a smaller skinny guy. Don't think the nationalities are really relevant, do you? Most people would bet on the bigger guy to win. But all rather childish and silly, don't you think?

And yes I do understand that people can be frightened of a Polish accent. As well as being one of the world's three most difficult languages to learn it is also the fourth most frightening accent in the world behind German, Welsh and Vietnamese, although the latter is probably down to people watching too many re-runs of 'The Deer Hunter'.

Don't know what any of this has to do with knowing whether a Polish man likes you. Still, it's a quiet Friday at work......
time means 5 | 1,310  
16 Oct 2009 /  #27
fourth most frightening accent in the world behind German, Welsh and Vietnamese,

Wtf, who comes up with this stuff the ministry of silly statistics or something?

White socks and black trousers they sure have style in the emerald isle.
OP new2this 1 | 5  
20 Oct 2009 /  #28
Yes i think you are right........the parties are full of drink and drugs (i dont do drugs by the way) how can you see love at such parties. He probably thinks i am a good friend or good craic. Also i was thinking maybe he has never been with an irish girl or is only ever with polish girls. we have another party this weekend i dont know what to i am fooling myself:(
Johnny RI - | 9  
22 Oct 2009 /  #29
what if he would just like to talk to you?
OP new2this 1 | 5  
23 Oct 2009 /  #30
Johnny RI

Yes maybe he just wants to talk and be friends. I am trying not to think about it, if i just forget then maybe something will happen or we are just friends.........But i do really like him, aaaaaahhhhhhh this is making me crazy.. BUT THANKS FOR THE HELP EVERYONE :):):)

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