Help! I just don't understand him..

PolskaDoll 27 | 1591

22 Jan 2009 / #31

But I'm friends with loads of people that are guys

Me too so I don't understand why people say it's not possible. I'm not sure how possible it is with a guy you were romantically interested in but each person is different and I am sure many great male/female friendships have sprung up from failed romantic relationships.

Sokrates 8 | 3335

22 Jan 2009 / #32

Thats because there's many levels of "i want to fuck you" approach, some of them are "i want to fuck you but its too much trouble so lets be friends" and women cheat themselves that its their friendship we want :)

dcchris 8 | 432

22 Jan 2009 / #33

There's no such thing as friendship between a man and a woman

that is so untrue. although in your case maybe it is true. however in the real world it does exist among normal functioning people

Sokrates 8 | 3335

22 Jan 2009 / #34

Yes but typically the underlying reason is sex :)

PolskaDoll 27 | 1591

22 Jan 2009 / #35

Oh one track mind! :D I've been friends with one guy for 15 years, are you telling me he's still trying to get me into bed? ;)

To the OP: women and men can be friends, not all the time but it can happen. Good luck but don't spend any more time on this guy is he is just messing you around. You're worth more than that. :)

sapphire 22 | 1241

22 Jan 2009 / #36

Sokrates is a Polish man.. and lets be honest the concept of a platonic friendship between men and women is a difficult one for them to grasp. In many other cultures, these type of friendships are normal.

Is it just me who wonders if many of the love problems on here are just made up by longer term forum members looking to have a laugh?