Need help in relationship with a Polish man

sometimes i think im a drain on my fiancee.....
We live in Poland.. she is polish im british im trying to learn some polish but i needed to open bank account.. get a mobile phone.. register at town hall etc.....

I quite oftern feel embarsed i have to ask for her help just to go to the shop and buy ham!

BUT.. i talked to her about it any she knows that i NEED her help at times.. we both love each other but mainly we TALK bout problems we may have... maybe you should try it especialy if you are married!!

It appears that he’s not a bad boyfriend, but since you feel drained and still love him, than you are just unsatisfied and not ready for the real deal. I think it’s common for girls to get no satisfaction especially if their boyfriend lacks confidence. Also you sound like a young princess whose not ready to make a transition. You need to discuss with him about things that will make both of you satisfied. If you want him to be more confident in speaking English, but feel to drained to help, then arrange for him to take ESL lessons. He may gain confidence if he does well in his class. You might consider in taking some English lessons yourself; struggling to make translations for your boyfriend if you can’t communicate or write in English well can make you feel drained too.



Sounds like you two need to go on a second honey moon, or just do lots of spicy stuff together, like taking dance lessons. Find ways to get to know each other all over again...

I ned help with my Polish guy. he always complains or criticise me and I love him but cant stand him at times. we live together.how do I make him happy?.