Need help: Can't get my polish girl to say "I love you"

That is fantastic :) nice to hear of something ending well (or really - beginning!)

It was a Great pleasure..
Im really happy i could help.. :))
Im glad everything went well. And i wish you a happy life together.. (o_~)
Have a wonderful time mate.. :)))

Dude,

You need to get Skype so you can chat and see her everyday for free. If she does not have a computer, then you can call her for .02 a minute.

Be careful. Short lustful romances can easily fizzle once the excitement is gone.

Where in Poland is she?

All done Poz. :)

No strings attached loving with out love admitence is not bad lol whats the matter with u hehe

Ah, the icy voice of the harbinger of doom. Nonetheless, you are more right than you could be wrong. The trouble with short-lived romances is that they're so intense at the moment that you never doubt their longevity. However, your words of caution are to be heeded not dreaded, after all, that is the true intention of a warning. BTW, she's in Bytom. She's such a sweetheart. She just sms-ed me calling me "Kochany" for the first time and she said that even the air she breathes tastes bitter without me. Wow! I've got to try real hard to say something more romantic than that.

Ja zakochuje sie w Tobie kazdego dnia coraz wiecej. Oczekuje tego dnia, kiedy nasze serca beda bily jak jedne.

(I fall in love with you more each day.i long for the day when our hearts will beat as one.)

You're a natural born lady killer. I like your quote, I'm going to sms it. He he. You should patent this man, retirement's a *****. lol.

You are my one and only Sunshine. = moje slonce ty jedyne jest
my stars at night = Moje gwiazdy w nocy,
My treasure = Moj skarbie
My angel = Moj Aniolku
My flower = Moj kwiatuszku

Just a few.. :)))

Have fun

Yes, I am an expert with Polish women. I have not met your girl friend but I imagine that this is an infatuation that you have developed since meeting her over a month ago. True love takes a long time to come, if ever indeed it comes at all! She is probably counting her eggs before making a firm decision, they are at the best of times very manipulative. You will end up making a fool of yourself, and I do not mean that in a bad way, love does this to a man, especially when you tell a woman that you love her. I would never say such a thing to a woman because they know that they can manipulate you and unfortunately that is exactly what they do. It might be genuine, it might be that you are a novelty because you are simply foreign. Take each day as it comes and be patient.

'Cor Firestorm.......you have such a way with words......sounds like you've used them all before.......:)

Lol......

It's sweet though.

You are speaking about women in general or about Polish women in particular? Are Polish women stubborn and assertive.

In fact, I found my woman assertive and I thought I saw a mean streak when she told me that she had an indomitable stubborn nature. I took it in my stride. You see, she's still a film school student and I'm an ad agency creative doing ad films for a living - something that she finds fascinating and is playfully envious about. So I let her play me a bit just to make her feel like she's got an identity that isn't eclisped by mine. For e.g., if I wanted to go to a particular club, she used to say NO so emphatically that I sometimes wondered if the situation warranted such a response. Nevertheless, being older and having seen more of life than her, I often let her have the last word. It made her feel like she was important - which I promise she is to me. Of course every time she pulled one of those little tantrums, I used to pull her close, look into her eyes and tell her I love her. I did this because I didn't want her to think that I was giving into her because I was 'scared' of her, but because I love her enough to be the bigger man and let her have a way. Was I being manipulated? Is that a typical Polish girl's trait to manipulate or do strong-willed women (irrespective of race) who are dating men who are (in comparison)successful need to display this behaviour as a sign of saying "You may be a big shot, but buddy, I call the shots!"

Firestorm, man of wisdom. You're back after dinner yo? Let's pick your brains a bit. He he.

Dude,

Be careful. As a rule, I would say that Polish women in general (not all) can be overly dramatic. I think it has served them well throughout history by bringing added attention to themselves.

When I was a student here many years ago, the question was "What is Poland's greatest export?" The answer "educated women". The smart ones with decent looks knew a good thing when they saw it, a western guy, someone who could take them out of their difficult life.

Just be careful that she doesn't play you like a fiddle. Take things in stride and see how she reacts when she doesn't get her way.

Good luck!!!

Damn Hmmm, I got a B in English and it reads like shakespeare! Best of luck though :)

Ok.. Everyone make me blush. LOL

Not used them yet.. :)))
I Got a lot of them from this forum.
And searching Google.

You never know when they will come in handy.. :))

Ive come across loads of guys. And some girls learning bits of polish.
8 out of 10.
Know only Swear words.. Lol

I just like to be Different. :)) ( I do know a few swear words though ) Lol

*Sigh* Firestorm, you complained about my lack of subtlety on another post, but it's people like you who make me need to spell it out.

What I mean is, once the relationship has naturally reached a certain intensity, a man naturally starts talking about marriage, kids, and then the woman often wants to say "I love you". I didn't mean that she wants her life planned out.

First.. Dont patronize me.. I dont want. Nor need you to spell Anything out to me.. I can read fine..


Second. their relationship hasnt reached any conclusion yet.
She only just told him how she really feels..

Remember not every woman needs to hear this immediately.
Some are scared of commitment.
And if you've ever had your heart broken. Like her..
You will understand her caution.

She may be hesitant, Simply to be sure he really loves her..
He asked advice. And i gave it..

1 step at a time. Love and reassurance.
So she understand he's here to stay.. ( And Not going to dissapear. after a fling )

The children discussion will happen naturally..

i think it is better first to show feelings then say 'i love you'
actions say more then words
and if you really have feelings to another person, those words will just come out, you will not think when or how to say it...

All women are clever and are extremely manipulative, it is in their nature and biology is 'doing its bit' along the way. It is a very strong natural impulse and I have seen a lot of very unhappy men in my life after what women can do to them.

oh wow, you've got issues sir.
You know a girl for a MONTH and expect her to tell you she loves you. Some will do it, some wont.

But you seem to confuse love with lust.

really??? wow...as a woman i always learn more about women's nature from men...

well, because we talk in general, i'd say that from my experience men are very manipulative.....


poor poor guys..... ;)

No its only Michals issue.

well maybe.... but everybody talks here in general so there we go....

Why is it my issue? Did I start this conversation?

you obviously have issues where women are concerned, and you frequently choose to share them with the rest of the forum.

don't share your opinion with the rest of us if you can't take the riposte

I Agree completely.
Anyone can say i love you. But showing her he means it. Are two diff things.
Actions speak much louder than words ever will..


And iv'e seen a lot of blissfully happy men Too.

Your just judging all women based upon a personal experience.
They are NOT All alike. ( Thankfully )


She has. JUST

A Lot of men.. Find it hard to express true emotions to women. Where women find it easy.
Some confuse repeating ( I Love you ) With showing her how much you love her.
And they get frustrated when she gets bored of hearing the same thing Over and Over and Over.

Tell her Yes.
But show her too.
Saying something is. Doesnt make it true..


No. But you dove in and spent your 10cents in an outburst ridiculing Not only women in general.
But relationships too.

That's what I always thought too. But you learn something new everyday...

Both sexes can be.. Of course. i would never think of denying it.
But some guys. Are more persuasive then manipulative..

Charm is another way of getting an answer. Without having to ask a question.. :))

Again..

We are Not all alike. Or this would be a very boring life..
If every woman was like my ex.
I'd be a monk now.. lol

Yes ha ha, you are right. Both sexes can be manipulative. It all depends on the person. My x was the most manipulative and convincing person in the world where he ended up taking everything away from me. This opinion is all based on one's experience in life.

I wasn't patronizing you, sweetheart. I just took umbrage at the fact that you "challenged" me twice when I only just joined this forum.

But seeing as you've shown you have feelings, I'll be nice now. :)