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Hard to talk things: Sexual diseases - would Polish women be honest about that?


southern  73 | 7059  
2 Nov 2009 /  #31
you could catch certain Herpes variants just by kissing, b

We all know what usually gets kissed to contact herpes.
OP nomaderol  5 | 726  
2 Nov 2009 /  #32
so get out of the woman's privates...

i can, but, whole world are locked in that. i suppose even global economy crisis caused by women's privates.

i think that men and women should test themselves every year... it's a natural thing that you care about your own health and it shouldn't be something shameful...

agree. but, more often than every year. for somes, everyday, unfortunately.

btw, why calling privates? for me, they arent different than eyes, ears, ...
the more privacy the more problematic. seems so.
Arien  2 | 710  
2 Nov 2009 /  #33
We all know what usually gets kissed to contact herpes.

Not necessarily.

;)
Cardno85  31 | 971  
2 Nov 2009 /  #34
As if every girl is so messed up she would sleep with you while knowing she has a serious STD?

So if someone has a serious STD. Let's take AIDS as an example. If a girl was to knowingly have sex with a guy when she has AIDS and doesn't tell him. Is there precident for criminal charges being brought against her (or in the case of a guy, swap genders) on the counts of knowing passing on what is, for all fairness, a death sentence. Or would it get thrown out on the grounds of "you should have used protection".

For the record...I am not a lawyer...
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
2 Nov 2009 /  #35
M-G (something smells fishy in here)

Um, ah, hmm, no, nope, I'm not going to do it; I'm holding myself back.....

65% of single women would not tell their future partner if they had a sexual disease. is it wrong to suppose 65% already have disease?

The two parts of your sentence are not related. The 'study' notes that 2/3rds of women who happen to have a sexual disease wouldn't tell a future partner. It does not mean that 65 percent of women have a sexual disease.

another stupid thread created to take the attention away from 90% of men who don't wash their privates...

You really should start dating 'normal' men. Where are you finding your 90 percent?

remember a czech girl who threw the condom out of the window and it landed on a car.

So that's how it landed on my windshield.

wildrover:
And how do you know this young lady....
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
prove me i'm wrong...?pgtx

It's up to those who make a statement to prove its authenticity. It's not up to others to prove a negative. We'll await your reseached study.

At any rate I've installed a bidet in one of my bathrooms so that female visitors feel comfortable.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
2 Nov 2009 /  #36
this thread is so full of bs. and what does it have to do with Poland???

It seems that 70-80% of women have sexual diseases, problems, etc.

utter rubbish

An alarming 31% of all women say they would not tell a future partner if they had a sexual disease. This rises for 65% for single women

if they HAD it but don't have it anymore cos it's been treated then i really don't see a reason to brag

Vaginismus.

do you even freakin know what vaginismus is? it's a serious problem not so much physical but psychological. it's a fear of having painful sex, it happens to women who just had a baby, victims of rape etc. you're such an idiot seriously, maybe stick to goats then!

I thought yeast infections do not give men infections. It is women who have sex with different partners do not keep herself clean. This is what I know from my doctor.

you poor misinformed person, who is your doctor? yes you can infect your partner with a yeast infection, common name of this is thrush. both you and your partner should get treatment as you will end up passing it on to each other. it happens when the ph balance *down there* is disrupted by trivial things such as detergents, bad diet, cold or flu, no foreplay ha ha.... it's very very common among people who have an active sex life as well as among those who don't have sex at all. as for personal hygiene of your intimate area, too much washing is just as bad as not washing, if you wash too much that can actually upset the ph balance and as a result give you a yeast infection. you should also be aware that a yeast infection can happen in other areas of your body too, including your mouth. if it keeps coming back though then it might be signalling a more serious problem, which in the worst case can be cervical cancer.

One you have some kinds of warts and you have to see your doctors. He will treated it and you have virus in your body like Herpes, HIV and so.

warts are not a sign of hpv, hiv or any std's. they are caused by a virus that some people carry without symptoms (ie no warts), it is still not quite clear what causes it but it gets transmitted from skin to skin. most of those warts are totally harmless and a single treatment or a course of them gets rid of the problem, so make sure your partner gets treated too. it's a bit like with cold sores, some people get them and some people don't, and they are also caused by a virus.

wmeon should not have sex while she have yeast infections. It will get worst

well as they say, if it hurts (and during a yeast infection it will) then don't do it...

and as for this:

we'd like to know if they have a problem in advance before any touch.

we would all like to know things like that, not just you men! if people choose not to admit they have an std before having sex with someone new then that is pretty horrible, especially that most things can be treated these days and there is no need being ashamed of it and going around and spreading it. treating sex as a taboo is one thing, infecting someone becuase you choose to not tell them about your problem is something else. if not sure, don't touch, simple! especially if they're skanky white girls, your and your countrymen's first choice nomaderol.

i have so had enough of this rubbish you post
Arien  2 | 710  
2 Nov 2009 /  #37
If a girl was to knowingly have sex with a guy when she has AIDS and doesn't tell him. Is there precident for criminal charges being brought against her?

If proven guilty, yes.

(or in the case of a guy, swap genders) on the counts of knowing passing on what is, for all fairness, a death sentence. Or would it get thrown out on the grounds of "you should have used protection".

No, if you know you have it, and you're withholding such information to sexpartners, then it's a serious crime.
Cardno85  31 | 971  
2 Nov 2009 /  #38
No, if you know you have it, and you're withholding such information to sexpartners, then it's a serious crime.

I thought that would be the case, but I wasn't sure, cheers.
wildrover  98 | 4430  
2 Nov 2009 /  #39
Is there precident for criminal charges

Yes..in the UK , people have gone to jail for deliberatly infecting people , knowing they had aids...
pgtx  29 | 3094  
2 Nov 2009 /  #40
You really should start dating 'normal' men. Where are you finding your 90 percent?

i decided to assume that... just like men assume things about women and post here...
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
2 Nov 2009 /  #41
decided to assume that...

Next time you are in a restaurant, bar, theatre or wherever why don't you ask the men around you if they wash their genitals. Take your own survey.

just like men assume things about women and post here...

Now you are beginning to understand what men have been going through these past decades with all the male-bashing. As to assumptions, you might remember that I frequently post links to my comments.
pgtx  29 | 3094  
3 Nov 2009 /  #42
Next time you are in a restaurant, bar, theatre or wherever why don't you ask the men around you if they wash their genitals. Take your own survey.

great idea... thanks...

Now you are beginning to understand what men have been going through these past decades with all the male-bashing.

ah, be careful because you're poking my soft side...
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
3 Nov 2009 /  #43
Now you are beginning to understand what men have been going through these past decades with all the male-bashing

boo bloody hoo. cry me a river zimmy.

Next time you are in a restaurant, bar, theatre or wherever why don't you ask the men around you if they wash their genitals.

why don't you and this thread author go around asking women if they have std's. i'm sure the results you get will be just as accurate and honest.
Sokrates  8 | 3335  
3 Nov 2009 /  #44
Next time you are in a restaurant, bar, theatre or wherever why don't you ask the men around you if they wash their genitals. Take your own survey.

Zimmy you're unbelievably creepy, any moment you're going to start abducting PF females skin them and make a dress out of them Silence of the Lambs style, whats with you and all the ...

Now you are beginning to understand what men have been going through these past decades with all the male-bashing. As to assumptions, you might remember that I frequently post links to my comments.

faggy arguments? Seriously you sound like a male feminist, except that males who're feminist are basically closet fags just like 200% of women feminist are lesbians.

On a more serious but no less offensive note, you sound like your mother touched you when you were 10 "women this" "females that", its only a question of time before you go strangling them because they werent nice.
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
3 Nov 2009 /  #45
boo bloody hoo. cry me a river zimmy.

Heh,heh,heh, just as I thought (actually knew). Guess the same response bounces back to your complaints.

great idea... thanks...

Don't mention it.

why don't you and this thread author go around asking women if they have std's.

Don't have to; I'm not the one who made up the 90 percent figure.

Whoa; I just heard a high pitched 'yelp' coming from one of my bathrooms; guess the bidet is squirting too much water again; really should get that thing fixed properly. Hope my guest is ok.
OP nomaderol  5 | 726  
3 Nov 2009 /  #46
what does it have to do with Poland???

read last sentence of first post.

do you even freakin know what vaginismus is? it's a serious problem not so much physical but psychological... (swears snapped...)

i consider myself as an expert in this field. knowing that 90% of cases have socialogical background (community pressures of closed societies, false educations, religions, cultural emposements, traditions, etc etc) and i as a socialist love am interested in such women more. if *this* silent still stays silent also this week, i can think other things.

(swears snapped... ) white girls, your and your countrymen's first choice nomaderol.

as far as i know, turks too are white, just with sun brown more as it is a sunny country. also, there are different colored turks all over the world from hungary to china; from dark to red hairs, blondes, blue eyes, browns, etc etc due to movements in history. Me? wheat like. sun burnt white. this was off-topic education.

most things can be treated these days and there is no need being ashamed of it

true, no need to ashamed of it. but, we know that most of people don't speak when it is a sexual problem. btw, most of treats in this field are not 100% treats, not total solution as most of statistical data, truths are kept hidden even from doctors. and, even science in this field is telling lies to people claiming that they have cures. just as example. vaginismus. no total cleaning treatment, but, if you read documents, literatures, scientists claim they know the solution. but, many different cures show that they are telling lies just like patients doing.

people have gone to jail for deliberatly infecting people , knowing they had aids...

what if you had AIDS and if you knew that your remaining life is 1 year... would you sleep with women without telling them? easy to talk without living it. but, if i were, i think i'd sleep with some who ...
wildrover  98 | 4430  
3 Nov 2009 /  #47
you're poking my soft side...

wearing a condom i hope......?
Tymoteusz  2 | 346  
3 Nov 2009 /  #48
Wow Socky!

You run the risk of an anal prolapse relapse if you don't calm down!

ZIMMY challenges the orthodoxy. Objective reasoned thought makes the orthodoxy MAADD!
southern  73 | 7059  
3 Nov 2009 /  #49
Nomaderol if you keep virgin you really run no danger from STDs.
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
3 Nov 2009 /  #50
Zimmy you're unbelievably creepy, any moment you're going to start abducting PF females skin them and make a dress out of them Silence of the Lambs style,

I prefer wool.

Seriously you sound like a male feminist

It's been obvious that in matters of gender you have little knowledge. You are still living in the 50's. You don't comprehend gender definitions, terms and what really goes on in a dynamic society as it pertains to the sexes.

males who're feminist are basically closet fags just like 200% of women feminist are lesbians.

Not bad, not much argument from me there except to state that only abut 1/3rd of the feminist leadership is lesbian. The rest are mere misandrists.

you sound like your mother touched you when you were 10 "women this" "females that", its only a question of time before you go strangling them because they werent nice.

Now your're over the top but I forgive you as you are knowledgeable in other venues. I've got a suggestion; why don't you go and purchase the book; "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrell. It's aging now but the basic premises are still valid and simple enough for even you to understand.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
3 Nov 2009 /  #51
Don't have to; I'm not the one who made up the 90 percent figure.

boo hoo again

Hope my guest is ok.

he must be jealous of your online friends on the Polish forums if he goes round breaking your bidet all the time. you're a bad host.

i consider myself as an expert in this field.

you don't sound like one at all, coming here with a load of rubbish and no proof to back it up apart from assumptions and a few fancy words. your bad English makes you look even less credible as well.

turks

oh what a surprise, a turk who is an expert on std's. is it because you're a gyneacologist or you just had them all. you had vaginismus too?

just as example. vaginismus. no total cleaning treatment, but, if you read documents, literatures, scientists claim they know the solution. but, many different cures show that they are telling lies just like patients doing.

let me say again, this problem has not so much to do with physiology, a woman needs counselling, support. all cases are individual and different things work for different people. now with std's, there are treatments that are proven to work for everybody.

(swears snapped... )

WTF?

what if you had AIDS and if you knew that your remaining life is 1 year... would you sleep with women without telling them? easy to talk without living it. but, if i were, i think i'd sleep with some who ...

who what? who have aids too, or ones you don't like and want to punish or something. only a sick twisted person would even CONSIDER sleeping with and infecting people just because they have nothing to lose anymore.
Tymoteusz  2 | 346  
3 Nov 2009 /  #52
Thought I would help with this word most of you never heard in Uni.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry

More?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_Manifesto
Sokrates  8 | 3335  
3 Nov 2009 /  #53
It's been obvious that in matters of gender you have little knowledge.

No wai! Everyone has 2 balls right? Its normal to have 2 balls?

You are still living in the 50's. You don't comprehend gender definitions, terms and what really goes on in a dynamic society as it pertains to the sexes.

No idea Zimmy, i never had problems with girls, dating girls, getting girls, talking to girls.

In your world women are out to infect me with aids, take off my penis with a razor blade surgically implanted in their *****, beat me up afterwards and call the police accusing me of rape, forced abortion and attempted murder.

I know there's issues with feminism but good lord man, you're over the border and deep in the weirdo country.

I've got a suggestion; why don't you go and purchase the book; "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrell. It's aging now but the basic premises are still valid and simple enough for even you to understand.

You know Zimmy i desperately try to avoid dickwaving over the net but there's no way around it, i never had any problems whatsoever, i've dated lots and lots and lots of girls and got quite a few of them in the sack and somehow i never had any crazy issues with them.

Conclusion? If for some reason you attract fvcked up specimens of the female species maybe the problem lies with you? I know the problem is bigger in US or UK and i know there's some really fvcked up situations in life but the way you present it i run a 50% chance of having my dick bitten off every time i get a blowjob.
OP nomaderol  5 | 726  
3 Nov 2009 /  #54
Nomaderol if you keep virgin you really run no danger from STDs.

in my book, there is no virgin. what if your mother is std and if you drink her milk? you drunk? yes?

this (vaginismus) problem has not so much to do with physiology, a woman needs counselling, support. all cases are individual and different things work for different people.

if reasons of all individuals were different, we could talk about full chaos. we are averaging and most of reasons lie in history of human being; cultures, religions, etc. think "shame shame" being said to females for tousands of years. deviations from the average/mean such as bad personal sex past experiences are not many.

who what?

who are many, uncountable. they should pray that i am not aids. nope, i have no personal hate. no worry.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
3 Nov 2009 /  #55
in my book, there is no virgin. what if your mother is std and if you drink her milk? you drunk? yes?

so is drinking your mothers milk equal to having sex? what is wrong with you?

if reasons of all individuals were different, we could talk about full chaos. we are averaging and most of reasons lie in history of human being; cultures, religions, etc. think "shame shame" being said to females for tousands of years. deviations from the average/mean such as bad personal sex past experiences are not many.

i was talking about psychological problems, how difficult is that to understand? there are medical cures to many diseases, not just the sexually transmitted ones, we have the same organisms and the same meds work on the same problems in different people. but when it comes to mental issues people should be treated as individual cases.

who are many, uncountable. they should pray that i am not aids.

i really don't like the sound of that sentence and i am very glad i will never get to interact with you in person because you deeply disturb me.

Whoever dares to argue with zimmy obviously has a serious issue with themselves. At least in zimmy's sad, paranoid little world.
jonni  16 | 2475  
3 Nov 2009 /  #56
what if your mother is std and if you drink her milk? you drunk? yes?

STDs are not generally transmitted through breastfeeding.

"If you have either chlamydia or gonorrhea, you can keep breastfeeding. If you have syphilis or herpes, you can keep breastfeeding as long as the sores are covered. Pump or hand express your milk from that breast until the sore clears."
Krystal  5 | 94  
3 Nov 2009 /  #57
To JustysiaS

Thank you for your points. I appreciated it very much.

Best solutions for all of you to do is take bath toegether with your partners that way you can see any diseases. Don't take bath alone.
OP nomaderol  5 | 726  
3 Nov 2009 /  #58
JustusiaS, lets focus here only as i think viewers probably are more interested in this below as it is one of well kept secrets among the females and i guess 10-20% (world average) of polish women too have this same vaginismus problem:

your claim is most (i'll use my default, 90% for most) of vaginismus cases because of psychological and mental problems? true. agree. but, most of these mental problems have been transferred to today throughout the history. cases due to personal bad past experiences cant be so high percentage, maybe, only 1%, even much less. anyway, if you also look at treatments/excersizes even after mental treatments, you see some tools are recommended. but, tools dont have as many variations as number of individual cases. i mean mental problem solver doctors doing something wrong, i guess. no?
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
3 Nov 2009 /  #59
Best solutions for all of you to do is take bath toegether with your partners that way you can see any diseases. Don't take bath alone.

rotfl! if you take a bath together you can see all the std's having a swim in the tub or something? ha ha sorry this is too funny. a bath together is supposed to be romantic! "darling, lets have a bath, i need to check if you have any std's" ahh priceless....
Krystal  5 | 94  
3 Nov 2009 /  #60
Well, JustysiaS

Well, check out his body before taking bath together.

I kinda looked up warts, I found more informations which have been updated.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wart

It is kinda scary and I don't wanna to get it.

I thought all of you should see it.

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