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My Polish girlfriend checks my mobile phone all the time


ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
19 Nov 2009 /  #61
so what if you trust .. and then find out that your trust was misplaced? but by that point you love someone and have small children and a life with them?

You end up like my friend who was 3 months pregnant and her partner of 10 (nearly 11 years and already have an 8 year old daughter) was shaggin some Polish dog at work...My friend kicked him out (new years day this year), had the baby and he's a prick! But all's well that ends well, he cries every time he comes to see the children, that he's made a big mistake and that this girl is off her head and my friend, despite the fact she has two kids, is back with her first love..arrrr dont you just love a happy ending :D

She found him out when he started buying new clothes and acting differently, she went on the family computer only to see in the history that he'd been looking at hotels and a Polish / English translator...BTW, this girl was already married (all of 7 months)..Some poor South African guy who will probably get deported...

To the OP, I always say "evil thinkers evil doers" so she was checking your phone out because she probably knows what she's capable of!
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Nov 2009 /  #62
wah wah wah, here's the defender of all righteousness! the original poster never appeared again so we're just having a discussion - as you do on a forum - and it is related to this subject. i expressed my views, and i see you're expressing yours and even ganging up on one of the new posters just because you don't agree with her. nice job!

Your so sexy when your b*tchy :) i love it, sometimes i want to write stuff just to see you wind up :)

As for offending and attacking new posters, i don't think so, a lot of the sentences etc etc had smileys on them or were general points and questions, nothing to do with being offensive.

It seems your aloud to slag people of left, right and chelsea but when its me, different rules.............. double standards ay, lol.

BUT sometimes it's best to come clean about the mistrust and ask for proof. and if you're suspicious because your other half all of the sudden doesn't let go of their phone or it's on silent or off at all times when that wasn't the case before, there is clearly something going on.

i agreed with that above, you won't get a disagreement on that from me, there is nothing wrong with asking for honesty honestly, hahaha.

if you are doing nothing wrong and your partner still doesn't believe you then you need to sit them down and talk to them, tell them how much you care and that you would never betray them but that they need to trust you.

For me its not if somebody is up to something, its the fact that they feel the need to check things, its just not right if you ask me and there is simply no reason to do it.

unfortunately if your partner doesn't trust you with your phone, emails etc. it may signal that they are fooling around themselves!

that is a good point, sometimes the finger pointer is hiding something themselves, call it misdirection if you like :)

P.S.

just to confirm that i love the ****** ******** in you :P
Harry  
20 Nov 2009 /  #63
Just text yourself the following message "Stop reading all the messages on my phone". Then the next day text "If you carry on checking my phone I will shag your sister". Follow that up with "You're fat, ugly and terrible in bed".
natasia  3 | 368  
20 Nov 2009 /  #64
or just text
darling you are so hot can't wait to suck yr c**k again today was amazing i love you so much and i was thinking can we honeymoon in the seychelles rather than hawaii?

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
20 Nov 2009 /  #65
Just text yourself the following message "Stop reading all the messages on my phone". Then the next day text "If you carry on checking my phone I will shag your sister". Follow that up with "You're fat, ugly and terrible in bed".

hahahaha they are rather amusing i must say, although to be honest if your partner cannot recognise your number then your probably best of without her/him :) Mind you they could be so concentrated on the text that they totally forget about the number!!
southern  73 | 7059  
20 Nov 2009 /  #66
I remember one girl who told me that prerequisite to continue our relationship was that she would be able to check my mobile phone whenever she wished.Of course her claim was not accepted.

I mostly prefer czech girls who are discreet and never check mobiles.The curiosity killed the cat.
santander  1 | 68  
24 Nov 2009 /  #67
Now come on Southern we all know that this is a " little pork pie". We must be honest with ourselves and accept the truth. I can give you councelling if you wish, free of charge, of course.
southern  73 | 7059  
26 Nov 2009 /  #68
I can give you councelling if you wish

No,thanks.
polsky  2 | 84  
29 Nov 2009 /  #69
polish girls are control freaks.

you should DUMP HER instantly when she tries to steal from your own privacy!
southern  73 | 7059  
29 Nov 2009 /  #70
Polish girls are NOT control freaks.Damn,many times they have no idea.Or they pretend so.Who knows?

Do you let them control you?

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