im a english guy who met i polish girl one night while up town in the uk, i gave her my number, she was only here for a few days visting friends i think, any way she said she has a bf back in poland, but she sent me a message saying we'll keep in touch do u think i should pursee it or not, or what do you think she meant by it, we had a dance i brought her a few drinks, how do polish girls go about things
polish girl - should I keep in touch with her?
Wyspianska
27 Aug 2008 / #2
all she meant is obviously that you are a nice boy and she doesn't mind being your friend hah
Well, it depends what you want from it. If you're happy just to be friends with her then of course pursue it but if you want more and that's not possible, you should just leave it.
yeah i guess so, she has my number so its up to her !
EraAtlantia 2 | 106
3 Sep 2008 / #5
**** her man, been there! dont wait for txts or mail, dont persue it, erase and move on, plenty more mangos in the tree....
just be chatting friends,so,what hurts?
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1522
23 Oct 2008 / #7
nathyb
I dont know basically... after reading your thread, I was confused on what to say.
What kind of moral guidance would it actually be to say 'leave it' or even 'hold it'! Its meaningless... if she intends something else, or feels undecided already.
There are Polish girls with boyfriends in Poland, who struggle to reach UK, and when they do, their attitude is not similar usually. They would prefer something else.
Maybe she is considering UK... and leaving Poland behind. I knew a friend of mine, whose girlfriend went UK and then just became someone who was 100% different from what he knew. Its all about opportunities sometimes... love comes way at last, or often doesnt arrive at all.
So anything can happen in your case... he socialised with you very easy... you have no reason to not believe that she can be with you! Infact, I think you have more reasons to believe that.
Its definately not rare at all. Specially with those who hol themselves and only their singular selves first.