Great post. Well said.
But you forgot to add...
" Stop spying on her. "
She can probably feel your dissaproving glare everytime the curtain twitches.
No wonder the guys never come in. They probably find it creepy.
Your supposed to be her friend. Not her Dad/Mom
She's probably too scared to say hi.
Incase you interrogate her about her new found Social life..
Cut her some slack.