BUT I'll tell U one thing- I'm pretty attractive& outgoing and had lots of dates with foreigns and I find them being too pushy far too disturbing:/ Is it the case that they are simply craving too strongly for being in a relationship?to find a girl they can go out with?
Weronika, by pushy are you implying that the foreign men that you have dated are too aggressive? Too bossy? Too jealous? Or is it that they're not giving you your space? A little more elaboration and clarification on that would help me answer that.
However, (assuming that you date decent looking men) with the high volume of equally attractive women in Poland, I find it hard for any decent looking man to have trouble finding a relationship with an attractive woman without being pushy. Maybe you're just a very friendly woman who guys feel comfortable around?
But my take on it is this: Maybe you're not used to foreign men's mentalities. As an american, by nature, good looks don't scare me or deter me from approaching you. It certainly doesn't deter me from telling you what's on my mind. Again, maybe you're not used to men being aggressive?