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hi everyone just wanna ask a few questions about polish girls


spell of bliss  
16 Jul 2006 /  #1
i recognize how pretty a common polish girl can be and once liked one. so just curious, wat are common things that polish girls like or dislike? and does religion play a major part in life? would i need to be catholic for acceptance? also, would it be ok if she marries someone who's not white? anything else i ought to know? and do a lot of them immigrate to the u.s., especially in new england, massachusetts nowadays? just wanting to know so that if i meet another nice polish girl, i'll be sorta knowing wat i'm doing.

(btw i'm also just curious, the polish american girls i've seen don't share the attractiveness the avergae polish girl in poland seem to have. is it just me or there's a reason for this? sry if this is offensive or rude)
Reni  
16 Jul 2006 /  #2
Let me try to answer some questions:

"wat are common things that polish girls like or dislike?"
Like all other girls, they don't like lies, disrespectulness; they like honest men who can take care of their family and who love their women. I know it sounds like a slogan, but it's true.

"does religion play a major part in life?"
I think religion should play an important part in life. It doesn't mean religion constrains someone's life in any way - it should pave people's life in general (so that you should at least recognize good from wrong). I think Polish people (women in this case) have the religion inside of them - and they will not appreciate someone who mocks or insults their belief or who just does not care. If you don't care about religion it's like you don't care about your life after death (have you thought about what's going to happen to you after death)?

"would it be ok if she marries someone who's not white?"
I personally don't think it's a major problem - people who love each other the color of the skin is not important. Of course, the society is not perfect and 100% tolerant so you should be ready for some not-always-pleasant comments from other people (at least at the beginning of your marriage), but they will come into terms with it as soon as they realize you are a good couple.
guess  
16 Jul 2006 /  #3
spell of bliss

btw i'm also just curious, the polish american girls i've seen don't share the attractiveness the avergae polish girl in poland seem to have. is it just me or there's a reason for this?

In general people from Europe (especially women) care more about their look and overall fitness than an "average" American girl [by "American" I mean girls who live in the US, including those of different ethnities and cultures].
nnuclear77  
8 Aug 2006 /  #4
Hi Reni,
I am married to a Polish women. There are alot of things she confuses me on. I have read alot about Polish women and she seems to be quit different. Maybe it don't help that she has been in America since she was 13. I really like what I read about the traditional Polish girl. I am trying to learn more if I can. Do you have any advice and maybe my wife is what we americans call americanized.. She was married for 18 years to a man who was abusive. So maybe that is what bothers her. If you have any advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!!

Scott
Wujek_Dobra_Rada  
8 Aug 2006 /  #5
Well - there are no Polish women with "traditional values" who are less than 65 years old nowdays.

PS. It would be really great if you`d stop spamming.
Shelley  
10 Aug 2006 /  #6
Well - there are no Polish women with "traditional values" who are less than 65 years old nowdays.

that's quite a sweeping statement
JustinDT  
10 Aug 2006 /  #7
Women are women. While it's good to learn cultural differences, of course, a woman is a woman anywhere. You have to learn the individual, not sweeping generalizations of her gender role in her home country.
krysia  23 | 3058  
17 Aug 2006 /  #8
A lot depends on the society, where you grow up, who you hang out with and what you believe in.

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