And I hit back hard: they never did anything to bully me again. So, I would say, just grow over it and accept who you are. Nothing more, nothing less.
that reminds me of the movie "Anger management" where a youg man played by Adam Sandler had to confront his "opressors" from the past in order to move on in life.
To MG - I didn't have to read him, but his name was mentioned in discussing race and population control in my studies. Yes, I have seen your MySpace and I listen to those tunes. I am not sure what I think about them yet.