I love how these little girls think they can tell us what to do...like they have any authority or control over our actions...heh.
And I love how the girl who had a blatantly racist tirade saying not to mix 'milk' and 's23t' is now acting like she is an angel and everyone else is so bad.
Yeah apparently acting trashy and mouthy is 'cool' for girls these days. If they could only see how gross it makes them look to most guys. The guys that DO go for them are only doing it to get some...not because they like the personality.
i think that it is very clear by now that Polish girls dont fancy black guys (unless they look like Will Smith or Denzel Washington ha ha) so jones and marley - why do you keep arguing and getting back at them over and over. if you accepted it at first, no racist comments would be added to the conversation. these are young women and maybe all the swearing and name calling doesnt make them look very good, but if you backed away right at the beginning when you were clearly told NO instead of saying how racist and narrow minded Polish people are, you wouldnt get the abuse later on. youve been adding fuel to the fire. sorry but it just makes you look so desperate cos youre still on this thread.
Aha...so it is our fault they are racists...ok. If we just ignored what they said they wouldn't have said anything racist thus WE caused the racism. Got it. Sorry.
BTW I am white so it isn't like I have some internal struggle with how I am treated in Poland due to race..I just see what my friends go through and it is disgusting. you have girls like this SAY they are not racist in the same breath they say don't mix colors. It is one thing to say you don't prefer a certain look to date...it is a whole other thing to laugh...act incredulous at the thought...and insult a race.
I fail to see how you can honestly criticize us at all when they are clearly wrong...but it doesn't surprise me.
no its not your fault but what will you achieve by still struggling? you think youre gonna change it? DEAL with it and stop feeling sorry for yourself. its kinda sad.
justysia...let me ask you this. Is racism bad in your mind? If so why did you not post telling them they were wrong for being racists but rather you posted telling me I am sad for saying so? Shouldn't you criticize the bad behavior not those standing up against it? It seems you think I am more wrong and more sad than those behaving wrongly since your efforts are directed at me and not them. Do you think if you believe strongly something is bad you should just give up because a few people on a message board think it is sad? Honestly now. If I misunderstand you I apologize but could you explain why this is? I really would like to understand what your thought process is to arrive at the conclusion that I am the sad one.
I am also not sure where you got the idea I feel sorry for myself. I am white and don't suffer the effects of these kind of people myself. I feel sorry for the people who act this way for being so ignorant and simple.
I know you are joking but it is not racist to not want to sleep with or date a person (we all have preferences that way)...none of us has said that...what IS racist is to say mixing races is bad....or saying a race is smelly or dirty...people here are mixing the points to use in their arguments.
why did you not post telling them they were wrong for being racists
there was actually just one racist comment there and the rest of it was a regular "forum fight" between guys and girls. it was none of my business, it was your arguement which you flared up by mistaking Polish girls not fancying black men with racism. its just a matter of personal choice really, question was asked and you got the answer. its almost as if you were asking for a racist comment there just to prove you were right.. i do realize that calling white people milk and black people sh*t is very racist and i would not stand up and clap my hands in agreement. i would rather say that white peeps are like milk and black peeps are like tea :). some people like plain tea, some people like adding milk to it, some people like just milk but not tea, and some people like both. simple and not offensive, and both drinks are nice :).
if you believe strongly something is bad you should just give up because a few people on a message board think it is sad
yeah and youre trying to convince them people on a message board that they are wrong, too. same situation. nobodys really that bothered about what they read on a forum anyway, i dunno why some people get so worked up about it. youre not even black, let the black people stand up for themselves if they feel like it. obviously they werent that bothered, after all - its just a message board.
Yeah coming from you greg that really bothers me...heh.
Justysia so I have to be black to stand up for right against racism against blacks? By that logic nobody should fight for anything that doesn't directly affect them.. Also if it is just a message board why are you worried about it?
You feel sorry for me but not them? And do you really feel bad for me or was it just a veiled insult (as it appears)? Kind of like calling someone pathetic but not directly...
why would i feel sorry for them, dont think they are too bothered i dont ha ha. if your beliefs are so strong why dont you do something in that direction, instead of moaning on a message board. its useless im afraid. and you trying to get to my conscience all the time is just so funny.
its just a regular thing that people who have a lot to say on the internet havent got much to do in real life. or cant be bothered to aything about what they say. im free on weekday nights after work so here i am. and yes i have a conscience, im not such a bad person after all ;)
Yeah, I see it all the time at work. I see Polish girls with Black guys out on a date. But I also see Polish dudes with Black girls. I also know a couple of Polish/African-American marriages. That's good.
Get over it....How many black people does a Polish person encounter in their life time? Not a whole hell of a lot, Poland is mostly white people and how can they become educated about racial tolerance if they have no experience with another race? It's really no surprise, black people are a minority in Central/Eastern Europe.
In my pinion, black guy doesn't seem very attractive. I'm not racist... I just don't want to mix milk and sh1t cause that gives you milksh1t.. look at it... it sicks my tummy!
Granted, Flavor Flave is a prat, but i wouldn't tar all black guys with the same brush. And likening 'black and white' to 'milk and sh1t' is, to say the least, unacceptable in the modern world.
Some words mentioned here like "milk and sh*t" in particular did strike me incredibly! I have to admit that I'm sometimes embarassed by the behaviour of Some Poles. Really ashamed, to be honest. Generally, when you look at it, Polish society seems to be full of intolerance, not only towards other colour nations, but also towards gays, other religions, atheists, too fat ones, too thin ones, too clever, too stupid, etc. And it's really hard to admit it the more so bacause I'm Polish! and I have to struggle with all that stuff myself living in Poland. I sometimes have to listen to anti-gay, racisit or stereotypical talks while, e.g. listening to some people calling the radio and expressing their views on some controversial topics) or on the bus, on the train, etc. The only thing that comforts me in that situation is that people around me i.e. my family and friends are not like it, they are well-mannered, well-educated (which doesn't have to be a condition of not being a racist at all!) and sensitive to the others' feelings. Such people do exist in Poland as well:))It's hard to guess if this is the majority in Polish society though. Btw I wonder if there has been a kind of survey on the level of racism or intolerance in Polish society comparing to other nations...?
And now I'm talking to all those guys who can't tolerate diffrences, please have a look at yourselves, and tell me what this fight is all about? The colour??? You're fighting about the colour?? Think about it. Embarassing and funny at the same time. Imagine you were born black, than what? If you were born gay, then what would you do...?what would be your opinion like?
Btw I wonder if there has been a kind of survey on the level of racism or intolerance in Polish society comparing to other nations...?
there is - its been surreptitiously conducted on this forum for the past 18 months and the findings so far coincide with you views - they are largely an intolorant bunch
Just to let the "brothers" on the forum... dont be scared to approach Polish women.. generally ive had lots of luck with Polish women....Im on my third and Right now ive been in a relationship with one for almost 2 years...
The only thing ive found is that they dont like "ghetto" behaviors and things like that but as long as your clean cut and take care of yourself youll have no problems picking up.
im NYC BTW....
Ive met tons of girls from Poland that came over here and to be honest ive never met one that was racist....
Just have your game together and dont be afraid to approach and ull be fine.
Aha...so it is our fault they are racists...ok. If we just ignored what they said they wouldn't have said anything racist thus WE caused the racism. Got it. Sorry.
Hey dumbass, just because a girl DOESNT LIKE OR DATE BLACK GUYS doesnt mean she is racist. She just doesn't like black guys. Enough of this bs.
Ignorant pricks think they are entitled to everything. Some people want nothing to do with black guys and thats the END of it. Leave them alone and stick with the ones that dont mind.
Hey dumbass, just because a girl DOESNT LIKE OR DATE BLACK GUYS doesnt mean she is racist. She just doesn't like black guys. Enough of this bs.
Ignorant pricks think they are entitled to everything. Some people want nothing to do with black guys and thats the END of it. Leave them alone and stick with the ones that dont mind.
Yes, well said my friend. I don't understand that mentality one bit. "I'm black, so every Polish girl will love me." Meets some Polish girls, who are dissinterested. "THEY'RE BEING RACIST!"
Ever think that it might just be your personality, creep? Anyways, I've noticed that a lot of the good Polish girls close to the family don't venture out to "experience" other men. They stick to Poles, and help the nation grow, homogenously. Pretty soon, all other countries in Europe will be so interbred that there will be no knowing where you are from. Not necesseraly a bad thing in terms of tolerance, but culture, language, heritage, all will be lost.
