Being single is definately the easy option for me to take as it avoids the pitfalls of rejection etc. This is not the option I want but at the same time I don't want to fall for the first girl that shows any sign of interest either.
You are putting too much thought into this, Ken. Who's to say the "first girl" that shows any sign of interest in you is not the "right girl." Be open to all relationships, but take go into them slowly.....no need to rush anything if it's meant to be.....I truly wish you luck! Hang in there, and she will come along.....patience, my dear, patience! :)
think it's interesting that you selected the image of Moe, the consumate outsider and lonely heart, as your icon. Is that simply an expression of how you're feeling right now, or how you feel about yourself in general?
Very insightful observation, Rakky.