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onis 1 | 15  
3 Mar 2007 /  #1
hi I'm a filipino n dating a polish girl 3 dates with her and she told me she had fun went to nice restaurant gave her chocolates and flowers at valentines day. she told me she love going out with me. im looking forward for 4th date just curious any polish girls here dated an asian guy. and how's your dates go. she told me Im sweet but I don't really know if she really like me. well shes also a nurse and she work 2 jobs so shes really busy. I really love her. I told her not to worry ill make a way to see her just do what u have to do. any advise love to here from polish girls in this site who dated asian guys. anybody. I also wrote some poetry for her and she told me she likes it. looking forward for reply
Rzeka - | 10  
3 Mar 2007 /  #2
hi I'm a filipino

just curious...

hey there... so you're a filipino huh? where are u from exactly? :)
OP onis 1 | 15  
3 Mar 2007 /  #3
well i was born in manila. but im a US citezen i owe everything t my grampa hes the one who brought us here living riht now in lasvegas woking as a nurse. look like we have same occupation are you also a nurse? i dont think your the girl im dating hahaha well might be. anyways you got any experience like i do well as I told you im dating this girl and i dont know if she got feelings for me. i really love her and love to make our relationship be more than just a friend. she told me she love going out wih me. what do you think? anyways are u in US or in poland
Rzeka - | 10  
3 Mar 2007 /  #4
what do you think? anyways are u in US or in poland

yes i am a nurse too. i just passed NCLEX..and am currently working on my other requirements. and nope, i am not the girl you are dating.. hehehe.. we are on the same boat though.. er, not quite. (i like a polish guy, that is). i have never been to poland but i would like to visit the place someday. :) i am currently trying to learn the language. whew!!

3 dates is looking good for you!:) being a girl, i wouldn't go out again with a guy if i didn't see any potential there. so, there's hope.... :) but love? i don't know.... for me, that takes time.. :) anyway, just take it easy and enjoy!

...i would like to know how that works out for you... ill keep an eye on this one.. :)
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
3 Mar 2007 /  #5
any advise love to here from polish girls in this site who dated asian guys. anybody.

It just so happens I dated a Filipino guy and I've had a couple of male friends who were Filipino. I agree with Rzeka that three dates is a good sign because it usually only takes one date to tell if you really like someone.

My advice is that you should just be yourself and you'll attract a woman who is right for you. But if you really want this woman, I'm concerned that she said you're sweet. In my own experience I found that Filipino men are definitely very sweet but I always felt like they were just friends instead of boyfriends because of that. I would have liked more sexuality. Is it considered inappropriate in your culture to express your sexual feelings toward women? Men of other races don't hold back. Just make sure your poems and also your conversation with her are more sexually charged. Avoid sweet poems. That's just my opinion.
OP onis 1 | 15  
3 Mar 2007 /  #6
so 3 dates is good sign. ok probly I'm not on the sexual side. but I could if I want too. just afraid to do it with her because of her religion I'm sweet and she told me that. just afraid to do something and loose her forever I really do love her. well my poems are all love poems and she did read most of it she told its nice and she love reading it. so do you think she only liked me as a friend. or it could be more than just a friend. looking forward for another date with her. hopping once again she'll say yes. any other polish women here please need some advice on this one. I will post a poem I made recently. let me know how you guys feel reading it.

this poem I made recently she haven't read this yet. let me know what you guys feel after you read it.

By Alexander Duque

The first time I saw u I already knew, that this heart of mine belongs to you. To see you smile in your glossy lips and sparkling eyes all I could say is damn you're fine. When I close my eyes say goodnight, your gorgeous face, is what I see. And through the night without you here at my side, I watch the the stars light twinkles in darkest night. A falling star just pass by, wishing you where here near beside. Praying at night before I go to bed thanking god an angel from above was sent. Dreaming of you through all this years and now your here, your presence take away all of my fears. Now that we seldom see, thinking about setting you free. Missing you through the day, hopping you have spare time today. Just to see a glimps of you, my day fulfilled and feel brand new, hopping you got some time to dine you and I, could drink some wine. Thinking about you this pass few days. My love in you will always stays. My love for you will remain and won't fade away. Hopping you feel the same way, cause ill be hurt to see you go away. Setting you free is what it should be. I will miss you and won't be able to see, but my love in you always be true. Saying this words I'm truely in love with you.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
3 Mar 2007 /  #7
so do you think she only liked me as a friend. or it could be more than just a friend.

It's hard to tell how she feels because we don't know her.

I read your poem and I think it's very good and very deep. My advice is to save it for later, for when you've gone out with her a lot longer. And for now write poems that are simpler.

For example, the lines "My love in you will always stays. My love for you will remain and won't fade away. Hopping you feel the same way, cause ill be hurt to see you go away."

Words like that might be too soon in the relationship. How about poems that focus on her beauty and on the things you like about her instead? But as I said, it's impossible for us to give advice because we don't know her.
OP onis 1 | 15  
3 Mar 2007 /  #8
thanks I will write something different about qualities I love I guess its too soon to tell but I really love this girl. we talk before she went to bed coz she work night shift. me to I work nights but we work at different hospitals. I told her next date will be much beter than the last 1 and till then keep in touch. she told me she will. is keeping in touch meant something. she also told me hopping to see you soon. wat do you guys think.
3 Mar 2007 /  #9
Dude, you have her attention!,
she is impressed by you......but do'nt go to cazy with the I love you jazz, best leave that till later, after you really know that she's deeply into you.

flirt with her more, tell her beautiful things but do'nt pressure her into making her like you the way you love her,,,give her time she will tell you she's into you! let me know how it goes down,,,,:)
OP onis 1 | 15  
4 Mar 2007 /  #10
yup same thing what my friend at work told me she work at hospital I'm working she works there for 2 days but we got different schedule. she work mon tue. I work weekend. so I never seen her at work only once. she told my co worker hope I have patience or I guess what she meant is hope I could wait. well maybe I'm tryin to rush things. but I will try to be patient I really love her and I don't want to loose her. any other advise.

I did ask her out again n once again she said yes. went out for dinner we had a good time she told me once again she had fun. I made a necklace before n its a stone prassiolite. I did ask her if have feelings for me n she said yes n if she love to wear my necklace n she accepted it. so shes my GF now n I'm looking forward for future. now another ? love to hear from interacial couple how it works I need an advice. so I could make this relationship work. I really love her n I don't want to loose her advice please
moire 4 | 40  
6 Mar 2007 /  #11
from a girl's point of view, i'd like a guy use more body language than poem. i'd think he is not mature enough.
OP onis 1 | 15  
6 Mar 2007 /  #12
but ur a guy ur not a girl that she told me she feels the same wat I feel. I won't be worried. to be close to her kissing her. I will still write poetry coz she love reading it. now I won't be worried about what she feels coz I already know. now I'm looking forward for this relationship I don't want to mess this up I love her n hopping for future. any advice from polish girls that have this kind of relationship. needed help.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
6 Mar 2007 /  #13
so shes my GF now n I'm looking forward for future.


any advice from polish girls that have this kind of relationship. needed help.

She obviously likes you the way you are so I don't think you need to worry about changing anything.
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
6 Mar 2007 /  #14
I love her n hopping for future

after 4 dates, mate, you gotta pop the chill pills.

most girls i know would have run if some guy is writing poetry like you do, your very lucky.
OP onis 1 | 15  
14 Mar 2007 /  #15
sorry guys I guess its over she gave the pendant back. but she told me she still would like to go out with me so I don't know if she really meant that. I guess u know the word next. I do like her really. but I guess I need to move on. what do you guys think there's still a possibility.
14 Mar 2007 /  #16
Here is a big and useful advice for u. If u like her, go for it! Polish girls are sweet and really easy-going. But they tend to be really2 serious in relationship and u knw wht can happen if it doesnt work. So, good luck buddy! Im Malaysian anyway and I used to have a Polish girlfriend...

Dude! Wht do u mean? U broke up after only 1 month? Thats pathetic! Listen ok! Polish girls they are very complicated specially they one that comes to work in UK. Just go out with her, try to do the same thing during ur 1st till 3rd date. U'll never know...
Big Rob - | 70  
14 Mar 2007 /  #17
Polish women that have only ever known poland do tend to take things very seriously, very quickly. It's not so much of a relationship, as a roller coaster ride, with out a safety harnessand & you're there shouting where is the f*?!*?g brake on this thing! Is there something wrong with slowly, slowly?

If she said that she would like to still go out with you... Keep trying? Somethings are worth a bit of effort.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
14 Mar 2007 /  #18
I'm sorry to hear this. It seemed like she really liked you. Why did she give the pendant back? Did she say she wants to go out with you as just a friend from now on?
OP onis 1 | 15  
15 Mar 2007 /  #19
yup that is what she said she still like to go out with me as a friend I guess just happened so fast and maybe I could slow it down a little when she said I go out with you as a friend do you guys think theres sttill a possibility or its done I really like this girl. I don't know if she ever go out with me again darn this is hard. any feed back on this. she also told me she might became a traveling nurse so she don't know yet she don't want to hurt my feelings incase. and she might move to altanta. so I gues this is it right what do u guys think.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
15 Mar 2007 /  #20
Now it makes sense. She's just not ready for a relationship. That's what it seems like to me. She hasn't decided what she really wants to do with her life and she can't make any commitments. My advice is to just remain a friend and not expect anything more than that. There's nothing you could have done to change things.
OP onis 1 | 15  
15 Mar 2007 /  #21
i guess ill try to ask her out again hopping she said yes i really like her and i dont want to loose her even though she only want to be friends. I had fun goin out with her i guess just to emointional about the situation. I dont know if she meant to go out with me. but i like to ask her out again but i dont want to be a pest begging her to go out with me. What do you guys think if your a girl on this situation would you still go out with me if i ask you out. i dont expect for anything if she decide to go to atlanta then its fine just dont want to loose this friendship we started. any answer to this question.
15 Mar 2007 /  #22
Look Onis, just like what Big Rob said. Polish girls who just 'got out' from Poland..they are very easily to get confused and dont know what do they really want. I had a relationship with a Polish girl here in Manchester, UK before and I had the best 4 months of my life. But things didnt work out between us! She broke up with me and be with another guy only after 3 days we broke up. But now, we still go out for coffee, movie even she joined the same gym that Im going. But I never think something else..something more! Coz from the advice that I got from some old fellas at the bar, when a girl has made up her mind, it is bloody hard to change it! And trust me, try to fight ur feeling as well. Be strong...maybe she wants to be with u but try to give her some space to miss u a bit.
15 Mar 2007 /  #23
keep doing what you're doing m8.Drive her away.didn't you know desperation is not an attractive thing?Be a man and deal with it and stop being such a wuss.My advice is she doesn't want a relationship with you just friends.You should"next" her.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
15 Mar 2007 /  #24
I'm confused. Did she say she wants to keep going out with you or did she say she just wants to be friends and that's it? At first it sounded like she wanted to keep going out with you but she couldn't make any promises for the future. But now it sounds like she said she just wants to be friends and that's it.

My opinion is, she went out with you, became your girlfriend and then broke up with you. And now she's asking you to leave her alone. Are you sure you want to keep pursuing her? Maybe you should just let her be the one to reach out to you instead. And if she doesn't, you'll have your answer.
OP onis 1 | 15  
16 Mar 2007 /  #25
good on ill do that shewolf ill probly ask her out once or twice if she doesn't respond then I guess I know the answer. I don't know her day off but sometimes shes cancelled at work monday or tuesday ill ask her out for a movie on that day. lets see if she respond and say yes if not I got my answer. and my line next please. so hope she say yes.
fathibest 2 | 25  
16 Mar 2007 /  #26
Best of luck onis :) but remember, if she says no doesnt mean it will be forever
16 Mar 2007 /  #27
WEIRD! I'm Polish, I just got into nursing school and my boyfriend is 1/2 Asian (1/2 Korean and 1/2 Irish)!! We've been together for about 6 months now and I have never been happier. The only advice I have for you is to have fun with her.. take her dancing or something. I'm not one for the mushy gooshy poetry but I'm glad she liked it.

& don't tell her you love her after 3 dates.. she's going to get freaked out.
OP onis 1 | 15  
17 Mar 2007 /  #28
thanks for the advice well she did freak out. I guess its to soon to say the word just to emotional about the situation. I really like this girl and we had fun times going out. just hope she'll go out with me again. now that I never had any measage from her I miss her a lot.
17 Mar 2007 /  #29
High Onis.I sort of can relate to this (and ask any advice if anyone has any) i met a polish girl who works at a hotel i went to so after a few visits i finaly asked 4 here mob no since then we have txted when i am not at hotel,next time i was there we met up when she finished,1.30am till 3am we walked till she went to a secluded spot as she said they shouldnt have relations with guests,so we talked and eventually left each other (no kisses),well it was a few weeks after i left i invited up my way and she seemed keen then sudenley got txt saying she had boyfriend and she put no more kisses on txts,so i said i really like here & thought she felt same she said im right she does like me but only chance we had to talk was during our walk but whenever i need friend shes here 4 me,anyway few months later i go back and meet with her again and find boyfriend has left,does she like me as friend only or does she like me but me not being there all the time put here off --i dont know any ideas
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
17 Mar 2007 /  #30
onis and mike3,
when a woman says you're sweet and that you're a good friend, it's not a good sign. Sorry to say that but it's true. I just think these women are hurting you and you deserve to find someone who knows without a doubt that you're the one. I think there's someone else out there who is better for you.

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