hotcarl 2 | 2 9 Nov 2009 / #1Hi.I'm staying at a Pole's house for a weekend and I wanted to give her a gift to thank her. but what should I give. She's young, and likes a drink amongst other things, but is giving a bottle of vodka a bit crude?Any other ideas. Is it the done thing to give a gift in situations like this?
gumishu 13 | 6,144 9 Nov 2009 / #2if she lives alone (not with her parents - or at least runs a separate household) then presenting her some nice bottle of some extraordinary booze is quite all right - but it should rather be some women's booze (maybe Baileys - I am not very knowledgeable in that field) - just get it nicely packed/adorned a bit and perhaps buy some modest flower/s to accompany it (a couple of gerberas should do)
MareGaea 29 | 2,752 10 Nov 2009 / #4I usually give my hosts a voucher for some department store (depends a bit on what he or she likes) or a voucher to buy a cd or dvd or something. Flowers are nice, but if you give a voucher, you give them the opportunity to get something they really like or need. And it's a longer lasting thank you, if you catch my drift.>^..^<M-G (tiens)
k98_man 10 Nov 2009 / #6I have a good friend who has Polish roots but lives in Switzerland. I'm visiting Poland for a week before I stay with her in Switzerland so I'm going to bring back some King Sobieski vodka. I can't find it for sale anywhere else in Europe, including large liqour stores that aren't so far from the Polish border.
Bart1991 - | 5 10 Nov 2009 / #7Womankind is same everywhere: buy her some good, expensive perfumes, booze and flowers are good too but its not very longstanding present.If u want her to remember u for good ten give her something special and outstanding... i advice some souvenirs from special selling stores.In town of mine 4 example prismatic statuettes and special wine glasses are very popular.
Gaa 10 Nov 2009 / #8vodka for a girl sounds strange for me. but if she likes it...i'd rather give a nice box of chocolates from your country or some Cd.flowers will quickly wither
MareGaea 29 | 2,752 10 Nov 2009 / #91jolaThe vouchers I give are usually for shopping at respected department stores :) However, when the host(s) have kids, I normally give those kids either a toy or gift-vouchers, or I let them pick something from a toyshop. The parents usually appreciate this more than when you give something to them themselves. Generally, it would be about 20 to 30 Euros, which I think seems reasonable. With toys it just depends on how much the toy costs.>^..^<M-G (is not the cheapskate you think he is)
OP hotcarl 2 | 2 11 Nov 2009 / #11HiThanks for your ideas.I should state that we're not dating, just friends, and it is definitely staying that way and not going any further.I think flowers and some kind of fancy spirit will do the trick.
McCoy 27 | 1,269 11 Nov 2009 / #12Any other ideas. Is it the done thing to give a gift in situations like this?a good book is always a great gift.
k98_man 12 Nov 2009 / #13Perhaps use your brain and what you know about her.The first gifts I gave to mine had a lot more meaning to it. She is half Swiss and born and raised in Switzerland, but I know she loves her Polish roots. She also loves history so I gave her coins from the Polish Empire around 1500. She is also interested in Indian culture and absolutely loves dogs so I gave her a hand-carved Indian dog made of stone that I got when I visited India.The next gift was a hand-carved wooden sheep I got when I was in Slovakia.They seem silly, but she loved them all a lot. I also sent her a birthday card because I was out of town for her birthday and simply having "Sto Lat" written on it made her happy. Honestly, use your brain! :P