I shoveled three wheel barrows full out of the coop Monday I have enough also in the barn . I am guessing you are willing to part from it for arround 39 dollars US
I have a friend, idiot that he is,who was taken in by this polish woman who he met on a business trip.He had only met her three times,slept with her once on the last visit, probably spent less than about 8 hours in total with her. He is married with 2 children, for a very long time. She knew that, but it didnt stop her making a play, taking the lead in keeping in contact, telling him that she loved him, and talking about moving herself and 13 year old son to england where my friend could support her til she got a job!!!! He felt so guilty, he came home and confessed to his wife, who contacted this woman. The polish woman said she loved him, until it was made quite clear to her that even if she did get him, there was no way in hell that she would get a penny of their money, and would have to start from scratch with him. She lost interest immediately. What sort of person was she to do this, knowing he was married and still pursueing him. Luckily, my friend realised that he was acting like a prick, that was obviously where his brain had been at the time, and to him it was nothing more than a one night stand,that obviously he had no intention of leaving his family for this moneygrabbing slapper, however sincere she may have seemed. at least he realised his mistake. polish women= whoring for money!!!!!
A bit harsh. The chap in question was thinking "with his other head" and the Polish girl was being resourceful.... happens all the time - look at all of those grannies that fall for Tunisian toy-boys that feature in Take a Break etc.
No, lets be honest, she was being a slapper, and totally heartless in not caring that she was destroying someones family. She also didnt have a lot of thought for her own son if she was prepared to uproot himto a different country at the age of thirteen, to live with a bloke he had never met. my friend could have been an axe murderer for all she knew, He had actually told her that there was no way he would be able to relate to her son in any way coz he loved his kids so much, but she would have still done it. Prostitution for a passport i call it.
Disagree - rightly or wrongly, the Polish girl thought that she was doing the best thing for son by providing what she considered to be a better life. It's a kind of survival instinct. I know a girl who came to the UK as a mail order bride, but she quickly ditched her hubby and now has a rather successful career in financial services.
There must have been cracks in the chap's relationship with his wife for him to stray.
Well yes, hes like most men. If a woman opens her legs quick enough and wide enough, and boosted his poor little mid life crisis ego a bit, he was unlikely to say No. At least he realised his mistake, and knows he was a pratt. survival instinct is rubbish, isnt humankind supposed to be past that neanderthal attitude, or are you just proving my point, that this particular polish woman is a cave woman. I'm sorry, but you dont hear of, for example, African women on the point of famine or worse, trying to marry themselves off to the first gullible bloke that comes along to save themselves and their families, and they would actually have a good reason to do it. I'm sorry, but I have heard to many stories about polish women that deal like this. I have even spoken to a slovakian female friend, who admits that a large number of her friends even think in this way. Relationships are supposed to be based on more than the availability of a passport and greed.
look at all of those grannies that fall for Tunisian toy-boys that feature in Take a Break etc.
lol :)
I have a friend, idiot that he is
I think you're making too much out of this. If he's your friend and the woman is gone, then move on. He'll already be feeling crap, he doesn't need it broadcast here.
And, I wouldn't imagine you should be calling all Polish women prostitutes or whores when he only slept with one and you don't even really know her intentions.
I'm sorry, but you dont hear of, for example, African women on the point of famine or worse, trying to marry themselves off to the first gullible bloke that comes along to save themselves and their families,
Come on, it happens across the world: See my earlier post about Tunisian toy-boys. I've also met many a misguided old fool who has fallen for a Thai girl and brought her back to the UK "love you long time, sucky sucky cock" LOL!!
Relationships are supposed to be based on more than the availability of a passport and greed.
I agree - however some people are happy to be exploited (in the case that you describe above, I mean bopth the chap and the Polish girl).
Well, easy to say, but as I am also a friend of the wife involved in all this, who is going through absolute hell at the moment, and wondering if she will ever be able to trust her husband again, and whether there is any point in staying with him, despite over 25 years together, that sort of points out the sort of turmoil that women who think like that can cause.
I'm trying to remember the name of the 79 year-old granny who married a 23 year-old Tunisian barman.... the tale was serialised in Take a Break a year or two ago... you just knew from the beginning that it was going to end in tears and a visa scam.
Well, easy to say, but as I am also a friend of the wife involved in all this.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but if my marriage was in trouble, the last thing that I would want would be one of my friends becoming bitter and twisted about the situation on a forum.
Don't be so judgemental, and let your friends sort out their problems between themselves.
Was the 79 year old granny still married with a couple of teenage kids ?
I think you've become too involved in this. What happened? It riled you so much you sat down at the computer and searched for a Polish web site in particular just so you could blow off steam?
1. So the fella strayed... it happened with Magda in Krakow - but it could so easily have been with Donna in accounts.
2. So Magda from Krakow realised that she was onto a meal ticket... fair play to her.
Good points.
The saying "it takes two to Tango" springs to mind...
First the married guy is just as guilty as the gold diggin girl, if he kept his di*k in his pants than he would not have gotten in the trouble he has......
With that said, though innocentlady went overboard because such women can be found in every culture and this happens in every part of the world.... There is no good excuse the women can have for her actions..... I don't care if it was to help her child or not.... You want to help your child than stop being a wh*re and get a real job....
No, dont think it would have been Donna from accounts. His job played a part in this too, working away puts people in situations that they would not normally find themselves in, so he had more opportunity to spend more time with this woman than he normally would. And she did turn up wherever he was by finding out through her boss where they would be, and making herself very available. No excuses for him, he should have kept his dick in his pants. The reason I'm so upset- well i'm the wife concerned, and yes, i do hate all Polish women at the moment, think you would too, and yes i did go looking for a site to vent some anger, but he has chosen me because he loves me, and he feels real stupid for being made to look a pratt. Good. But he thinks she is a money grabbing ***** too. And I am really looking forward to his next trip to Poland, I'll be going with him from now on, and i cant wait to meet her....
It looks like you are going to stay with your hubby and good luck to you. We all make mistakes. Its going to take some time before you trust him again and there will be tough times but.........25years and two kids counts for a lot.
The passport, money grabbing thing is just a distraction. Whats he going to say to his wife - " yeah I made a mistake, but hey, what a babe " ?
next trip to Poland, I'll be going with him
Stick around the forums and pick up some tips on how to make the most of your trip.
Hey, I kind of guessed you were the wife involved yesterday but I didn't really want to say because obviously, you are hurting. Can I just say, I wouldn't hate all Polish women in a situation like this. If the woman was from say, Bridlington, would you then hate all women from there and find a Bridlington forum? Nope. You hate this one particular woman and she just happens to be Polish. Don't lump everyone into the same catergory.
I hope you and your husband can get through this but you won't make any friends here if you come here and call all Polish women whores etc, you'll just get a negative reaction and that won't help your healing any. Otherwise though, people here can be very helpful and sympathetic.
Why do I get the feeling that innocentlady is talking about her own husband? If it were just a friend, I would call him an *sshole, but I would leave his business and troube be his...
Oh shoot, didn't read PolskaDoll's last post - I was too quick again :) Sorry about that, but anyway, I do think that innocentlady is talking about her own husband.
Hi innocentlady - I did wonder if perhaps you were the wife, and I am sorry to hear what you are going through.
I am by no means an expert, however I get the impression that this all happened fairly recently, so the feelings are still quite raw. I hope that you are your husband can worth through things.
I also echo szkotja2007, if you are going to be making frequent trips to Poland, do stick around on PF as Poland is a fascinating place to visit. I first went there on a business trip a couple of years ago, and have been back on short trips and holidays ever since, exploring the rest of the country.