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Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]
u r welcome , just saying what thinking. anyway, at those days everything turns upside down. People are looking for any benefits to get from other people, being violent to each other. i been brought up with respecting other people, no matter who they are or where they are from. my ex husband was foreigner with different background, culture and religion. i believe with everything we can cope when its love and respect. when its gone, nothing going to work. when someone is violent to Us, means doesnt respect Us or need a prof.help. if u can`t help or don`t want, just get rid of it...
i do remember one holiday,when lived in Poland went seaside with a few couples .one evening was a witness of not nice situation, when man was abusive and violent with his gf, i couldnt stand without doing anything so bravely stand by her and had a words with her mad partner.he was so agressive and asked me if i could talk to him on the side, not in front of her.(not sure y i done that and wasn`t scared of him or the situation and problkem was more important to me), we spoke about 2hrs, he calmed down in seconds and listened his story about their relationship.he blamed her that she is pushing him to behave like that (wasn`t agree with it), he said he is going to proof, so he did. all of us spent togehter most of days coz was holiday, he didn`t pick up her fight and tried be very quiet as he promised me to be. she tried to provoke him to have a fight, but he didn`t .After coupke of days she got furious ending up with tears. we all asked her what`s wrong, she said her bf doesn`t love her anymore coz he stopped be violent with her. i was so shocked, that ppl might think that way. its a true, we all are different and looking for something different, but never we should be abusive for others, especially for ppl we love.
