Love / My Perfect Love Story so I thought [73]

To kasqures...

"being a Muslim Pakistani and falling for a Christian Polski from England " - Actually I am the Christian Polska from England, (polish girl) and married muslim Pakistani guy.

"as we all know, romance for women is all in their heads. It's just a matter of whether they buy what you're selling" - and I married him with nothing else but love, not for romance. Romance was never in my mind.....

"She does not love you, she NEVER will." - You are wrong, I loved him and sacrifised a lot for him.... pity he did not do the same for me....

"She has a REAL (and I mean, the actual person she wants) man in mind and that is not you." - nope, I had only him on my mind, was always sincere with him, even though he broke my heart many times.

"The best remedy is to move on and have a better life without her; one without heartache or heartbreaks as silly as this one." - Yeah, lifes goes on, maybe I will be happier without him.

Not always Christian Polska (polish girl) is that "swelly" as you guys think... This time Asian guy broke white girl's heart not other way round. Surprised... huh?

Love / My Perfect Love Story so I thought [73]

hmm..... my love story was also "perfect".... myself polish, he asian-pakistani. My family accepted him. He never told his family about me, although I asked him to do so several times. He said no matter what they say he would never leave me, he was the one to marry me not his family! He also said that when he married me he would tell them and they would accept me. Half an year after we married (nikkah-his family do not know about it) we applied for COA and were approved. Then he told his family good news. Then they told him to come back and that there was always culture problem in mixed relationships and that breake up was always there. He did not know what decision to make! Then he decided to follow his family will although he assured me many times in the past he would always stay with me. I trusted on him more than on any one else. He married me without telling his family and still assured he would make them accept me. And at the end he leaves me for his family will. Polish-Asian love stories in most cases end up, never last. It is true- the culture problem is always there, bo it is better to mix with people from your own culture...... same values, same thinking, same mentality.