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Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Why am I hypocrite? What has my sticking up for Polish females got to do with the fact I dont like 3rd world immigrants on my island?

You are a 'fugglicist'. LOL

At least southern does it with humour.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

I see. Do they have an online payments system. I would like to donate a couple of quid to help them out. May not help in the leg over stakes but a Lech or two to numb the disappointment.....

What a comedian you are. Do me favour...save your money...50p is all we need to get a leg over your girlfriend or wife...beer goggles will definitely come in handy so I'd appreciate it if you could throw in a few Lechs for free :))

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Have you contributed anything to the discussion besides that nugget of irresistible wit? Can you do anything else besides jump on the 'I love everything Polish' bandwagon? What have you to do with Poland anyway? You have a Polish girlfriend (gosh, that was difficult) and now you're kissing up to the culture? Shame on you.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

ok, now that somebody has explained it to me in a more sensible, practical way i understand where you are coming from. This may happen, it probably does, however that still does not mean a tag should be attached to Polish girls, does it??

That is unfortunate, but the generalisation is justified because it happens so often. Of course, it doesn't apply to every member of the female population of Poland, that is obvious. If you read my posts, you'll find that I have been careful to qualify my statements with 'Polish girls tend to', 'many Polish girls', 'a lot of Polish girls', etc.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

you may very well have done, still though my original point stands, what does it matter to 'YOU' personally?? i don't see how it changes or affects you life that much.

Never said it did.

so you think that if a Polish girl likes a guy, who is really nice, polite, friendly, helpful, caring etc etc but has a little bit of a self esteem issue, that makes him an invalid choice?? Or because he is percieved to be 'ugly' by others?? you think that is right??

If he's a cool, genuine, decent guy, 'ugly' or not, I'd say she made a good choice. But if he has a major esteem issue then you have to question the choice. Or if he's boring, or too big-headed (I've seen that too), or very shallow and playing the girl, etc. It's nice that everyone has a chance, but some don't deserve it.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Don't get me wrong, not all polish girls are decent, nice etc etc i just see this as a little unfair.

I'm not dropping it because of anything you've said. I really do not approve of the dating choices that many Polish girls make, and I have observed more of them than you. I just don't want to dwell on it anymore. It was funny at first 'cause it seemed that no one else was talking about it and I felt there was too much kissing up and fairy tales. Ok, the language is a bit colourful but hey, that's satire.

It went a bit far, but again there is a pattern and I do not believe the crap guy thing is a matter of opinion: the inferiority complex exists, and many Polish girls will admit that themselves. You seem to be a little bit naive to deny that there's any grain of truth to it at all...but anyway...to decent Polish girls it's a bit unfair perhaps, to the crap-guy lovers (LOL), well perhaps they'll wake up a bit..

PS Shelley _____________. hmm....fill in the blanks :)
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

what?? that is such a childish thing to say,

Yep, I know. Guilty as charged.

can't see any other reason for posting this unless there is some underlying bitter past behind it.

Look, I can see why you and others would say that. But, if you look around you there is something there. I mean, even the Polish girls on this forum aren't exactly denying it. But I think I've had my 'fun' and may drop the topic. Apologies to all the decent Polish girls out there.

PS Shelley, you are still a racist fuggly.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Guys I will give you an advice grom my experience

You have a point there. Good observation. About 8 years ago many Polish girls used to talk like the Ukrainians you are describing. I remember being in a club with an American friend of mine. We were at the bar and a hot girl said to him "You are very handsome" and then kissed him and said "I want chicken McNuggets". That would not happen now.

I just don't see why somebody would suddenly think, 'ow don't Poish girs go out with such losers, i think i'm going to post about it' how does it come to that, what process goes through an individuals head??

Because it's peculiar and funny that people notice the same thing. And the topic clearly more edgy and interesting than 'Polish girls are the most beautiful in the world'. Ok, it's negative, which is unfortunate..but isn't the slogan of this forum "Poland: the good and the bad"?

And believe it or not...I like Polish girls. I don't approve of a lot their choices, but there are positive sides too. It's just not as fun to discuss them.
Alx123   
26 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

i read your post, think your wrong about what you have written

Well then explain yourself. Why is it wrong? What are your observations? Polish girls don't tend to go out with crap guys? (I just couldn't resist using that phrase again LOL)

Or do you think sticking up for Polish girls is going to get you laid somehow? (I have news for you...well, hmm... better not)

PS Shelley, you are a racist redneck fuggly...if your nasty racist posts about 'darkies' etc are allowed to stay and the mods delete this comment of mine, then something is seriously wrong with this world.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Im sure even the best looking, smart women have lowered their usual standards in strange surroundings.

No I don't think they would.

Even you said yourself, you rarly get laid!

Never said that. I just said I get it more than some, less than others. I was being honest. I don't go for every piece of meat on the market.

Why go out when its at home ;0)

A resident desperate guy. Even better!
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

The worst Ive said is that they drop their standards a bit when they come to the UK, its new territory, who can blame them...

'A bit'? haha Who are you kissing up to now?
Btw, a person either has standards or they don't.

Alex seems like another bitter middle aged man

Wrong

He probably hasnt managed to get any in all the years he's been in Poland either!

wrong again

Ive been spending a bit of time reading both your posts

Well, I can think of better things for you to do with your time, e.g. go out and get laid, they're plenty of desperate men out there...
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

well in my terms crap guy:
Lazy, boring, irresponsible, does drugs, thinks he is too good, big mouth, no achievements, no minimun desire to improve...etc etfc

That sounds about right. Agree 100%.

Good Man Lodz! Nice to here a Polish man doing what comes quite natural, sticking up for Polish women.

In all the years Ive been here Ive only ever seen a couple of Polish men complain about Polish women and not really in a way which was derogatory towards them either. Maybe other nationalities could learn a thing or two.

Do you PMS every few days or what? I just take anything you say seriously woman. In one post you're sticking up for Polish women, in the next you're putting them down big time. Be consistent...
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

I have discussed that enough. I actually borrowed that phrase from another poster - I found it delightfully succint.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / How to gain the attention of a Polish man? [71]

Lennoxthecat

An English girl in England is a good catch for a Polish guy, I imagine. So unless there's something wrong with you, you shouldn't have any problems.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

We are talking about men in general. Some Polish guys are cool, some are very ordinary. But that's in Poland. Outside Poland, southern, Luke and others, including even Shelley, would say that far too many of them go for 'crap guys' from all kinds of places.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

again one of this threads hehe
Maybe you should admire that polish girls can see beyond the facade that guys with fast cars, good paying jobs or so-called intelectual ability, put in display to atrack chicks.

And thats a good thing right? or would you like your girl to be after your fast car or just wad of cash?

I never said it was a bad thing that they are not into succesful guys (in materialstic terms). I have always said that it can be a good thing. But I do not believe that they 'see beyond' anything. I wasn't saying that they should only go for successful, wealthy guys. Hell no. There are plenty of cool guys who aren't flashy. I'm just trying to figure out why many of them make the strange choices that they make, like dating guys that their less-attractive western counterparts wouldn't touch.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

First of all, all God's creatures are equally special.

Secondly... love is most intense of with people of different balances. Otherwise, Jesus have no love for us.

This is where our communication ends.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

I was also picked up by my first polish gf.She told me she liked extremely the fact that I looked very shy and that my hands were shaking while talking to her.

I've had similar experiences. A girl I once had a thing with told me that she didn't like me at first because she thought I was too sure of myself, but later she realised that I had 'insecurities' and wasn't such a confident person....that was when she started to become attracted to me.

After reading that comment of yours I stopped two girls in Krakow today and did like you did, pretended to be shy. I even told one girl that my Polish was worse than usual because I'm very shy around pretty girls. Well...you seem to be right. They were both very friendly - got one number (from the hotter one), the other told me she had a boyfriend but was friendly nevertheless.

A man can have many edges. Perhaps beyond just ordinarily accepted good looks, there are other factors like responsible, caring and affectionate.

It is not about looks - not for me. I accept that some girls will not find me good-looking while others will. It's about the whole package, including humour, lack of neediness, independence, uniqueness, ambition, coolness, etc. Of course a low value guy is going to be 'caring' and 'affectionate' with a high value girl.

As for your statements on 'love', there is a difference between love and attachment/dependency. A low value guy in a relationship with a higher value girl is obviously going to be attached - his self-esteem depends on it - without the girl he's gonna feel like a loser/nobody again. IMO, 'true love' can only exist between two people of equal self-worth.
Alx123   
25 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

but partly I have to agree with you cause here in UK you can see many polish girls with some crap guys from africa or asia still why should we care about it...

Ha ha..'crap guys'. Delightfully diplomatic. But it's not like those girls can't do better. That's the weird thing. Do they not see that? Or do they fail to recognise differences? Or do they feel more comfortable that way? Anyway, perhaps it's pointless trying to figure out women..they can't even figure themselves out it seems.
Alx123   
24 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

I must have missed it, so its you who's the midget then?

Hmm...that would explain my successes then.

Funnily enough, as I write in a pub in Krakow, I just witnessed a foreign guy getting picked up by a particularly bold Polish girl. A soft, unsure looking guy. She seemed to have a nose for such a guy and it looked as though she was enjoying being in control of the situation. Hmm....I think a survey needs to be carried out in Poland...a questionnaire designed to get to the truth...that would be interesting :)

And on an unrelated topic...why do hot girls visit the toilet more often than less attractive girls? There're two girls sitting nearby...the hotter one is off every five minutes.
Alx123   
24 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Correction, Polish-American (and proud!)

a cute one too ;)

Not only I'll call a truce, but I am going to write something sweet and nice like sugar and spice ... about Polish girls))

just beat you to it :)

hehe yeh maybe he looks like John Merrick?

According to the theory of bad selection, that would get him a lot of girls.
Alx123   
24 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

No they won't.

If I get a satisfactory explanation straight from the horse's mouth, I officially declare that I will not post on the subject anymore :)

Nope, can't say I have. It'd be completely pointless, to go out with a guy, merely because I feel sorry for him.

Appreciate the contribution, but I would say that being American and therefore influenced by American culture you probably don't belong to the category of girls we are talking about.
Alx123   
24 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Ok, I think the language of these threads is getting a bit harsh :) and this dead horse has been flogged...but...

Can you Polish girls just give us an explanation...straight from the horse's mouth...dispel our confusion and these threads will stop:

What is going on in your minds?....why do so many Polish girls go out with ordinary (I'm talking about the whole package here) or below ordinary guys when they can clearly do much better and have opportunities to do better? Do you prefer such guys? Do you believe better quality guys are out of your reach or can't be trusted? Are you doing 'charity work' as Luke says....into 'mercy dates' (credit Beckski..LOL)? Do you even see differences?

I am asking these questions out of curiosity, not bitterness. I am genuinely curious and I am entitled to be so. I don't even think it's always such a bad thing, you can even argue that it's a good thing for balance and harmony. I'd just like to comprehend it. So, do any of the theories ring true?

I am not in doubt about the observations because if so many guys notice the same thing, there must be something to it. Choose to believe that you don't belong to this category of girls, fine. But coming from the same culture you must have a clue of what's going on.

Thanking you in advance :)
Alx123   
24 Aug 2009
Love / Are Polish girls charity workers? [132]

Charity workers implies that girls recognise those who are 'needy' and 'destitute'. I don't think that's what going on in their heads when they're in a mis-match relationship. I've looked those girls in the eye, and I do not believe they are awake. Or are they?
Alx123   
23 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

You could say the exact same thing about guys. To me, it's worse to be so desperate that you would stick it in anything than a woman waiting for a decent guy. If a woman isn't attractive a good looking guy is like a prize so why would she turn one down? It makes the guy look more pathetic than the woman.

Again, you are missing the point. I repeat: not all guys are that desperate, but in every club there are a least a few of them. The example was meant to illustrate how easy it is for any girl to get laid, so if even an unattractive girl can get laid with a good-looking guy, then it's a bit shameful that a good looking girl ends up going for an unappealing guy.

In any case, you might be surprised to know that slightly unattractive girls can be more difficult to pick up than attractive girls. There are many reasons for this. Mostly, I think they get more attention from desperate guys who don't have the courage to go for hotter girls and they are aware of this and it makes them feel low.

ha ha there is a certain group of men who find it incredibly unwise of women to say no to them. it's like 'how dare not want ME!'. i can only imagine the tantrum they would throw if an average looking girl said thanks but no thanks...

You can imagine the damage it does to the ego when an average-looking girl from Poland (where girls are supposed to be 'easy' and where most men are very ordinary looking) turns down a handsome, educated foreign guy....then for the foreigner to see the same girl later with a very ordinary-looking guy...that's a night destroyer for many guys, and the bad feeling can last well into the next day :) I won't deny I haven't been there before...and it's one reason why I started approaching much hotter girls than I used to (sorry, average girls :))
Alx123   
23 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

Well if that's the case you should blame the guy for being desperate enough to hook up with anyone. Why not make a thread about easy guys and how pathetic it is?

I didn't say all guys would do that. I certainly wouldn't. I was trying to make the point that it is very easy for girls to score so they should be more selective and wait for a decent guy instead of going for the first loser that tries to pick them up.
Alx123   
23 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

They get resentful and jealous. Instead of complaining about all the easy guys (you can't have easy girls without easy guys, you know) they complain about easy gals.

Well, all guys are easy really given the opportunity. But some have higher standards than others. Girls get called 'easy' because it's much easier for them to get laid. Even a dog can easily get laid with a reasonably attractive guy in a night club without trying.

As I explained above, I don't always agree with the term 'easy', because it implies we are the ones chasing the 'reluctant' prey. I like to think if a girl sleeps with me, it's a mutual thing - e.g. her looks turned me on, my charm turned her on.

Men moan about women being easy when they can't get laid. That's when they notice how easy it is for other guys but not for them ;)

Point taken - in many cases western guys moan about Polish girls because they expect them to put out easily, and when they don't and instead give it out to some tool instead (I mean a guy who is v low on western girls' dating preferences) , it's a blow to the ego. It's amazing the ego damage that some of these simple Polish village girls can unwittingly do - it's quite funny thinking about it.
Alx123   
23 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]

pathetic little men always moan about girls being easy but no way in hell would they say no to a willing, attractive female

Justysia, I don't think any guys moan about girls being easy. We like easy. We 'moan' when the girls are being easy with other guys ;), especially if, as in the case with many Polish girls, those other guys are often totally undeserving.

To be honest, if a girl sleeps with me very early on, and there was chemistry between us and she was totally in control and didn't have any hang-ups about it, I never feel that she is 'easy'. It just feels natural, a mutual pursuit of pleasure. But when a girl comes out with stuff like "I am not an easy girl", "I don't want you to think I'm easy", etc. then she screws up the dynamic and puts me in the position of 'the pursuer' and her 'the prey'. In that context, she becomes 'easy', whether it takes 2, 3 or 5 dates, it doesn't matter - she'll still be 'easy' even after a few months. I'd much rather be the first situtation obviously.
Alx123   
22 Aug 2009
Love / Polish men vs German men: Who is hotter? [513]

Many of those girls have one permanent boyfriend, who is usually in love with them, and they call him their 'boyfriend'. Meanwhile other guys may come and go, some stay longer than others, but they like the security of having this one a**-kisser who they can rely on to be waiting at home for them. I've seen it and I've heard the stories. These 'official boyfriends' might get suspicious from time to time, but they naively remain faithful and will never leave as they are too afraid of losing the girl. And girls who play this game know this full well.

Guys can play the same game of course, but I believe the mathematics works in the girls' favour, somehow.
Alx123   
22 Aug 2009
Love / Polish men vs German men: Who is hotter? [513]

If girls have more than one boyfriend,how can guys have only one girlfriend?It is simple mathematics.

Well, I believe that not every Polish girl has more than one boyfriend, many do, but many of those girls are abroad and shag foreign guys, and some polish guys are left out of the equation (don't have girlfriends).