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How to gain the attention of a Polish man?


Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #1
I have rather fallen for a Polish man and am wondering what should i do - i am an English girl and speak no Polish - I have learnt a few words so next time i see him which will be this weekend i can make some kind of an impression.

I embaressed myself last time i saw him so much so he will never forget me, however when i see him next it will be in his work enviroment and we will be alone - shall i say nothing and leave well alone or should i flirt i have no idea? Any advice would really be appreciated Dziękuję

Also any help with some compliments to throw him would be nice...
PlasticPole 7 | 2,649  
25 Aug 2009 /  #2
Start spending all your time with him that way he will know you like him.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #3
it really is not that simple i only know him because he is doing a job for me..
mvefa 5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #4
compliment him,,and if that does not work, just flash him :P hahaha
Alx123 - | 180  
25 Aug 2009 /  #5
Lennoxthecat

An English girl in England is a good catch for a Polish guy, I imagine. So unless there's something wrong with you, you shouldn't have any problems.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #6
that could be easy as he is doing a tattoo for me lol!
PlasticPole 7 | 2,649  
25 Aug 2009 /  #7
You should have an easy time flirting during that.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #8
plus i dont even know if he is taken..What if i make him uncomfortable - he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!
mvefa 5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #9
well if he has been "taken" at least once, then no hopes for you girl :P
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #10
Sorry how do you mean ... how can i find out without being obvious
mvefa 5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #11
Well that's easy, just ask him like what his hobbies are, and when he mentions it, ask if he does that with his girlfriend, then bingo, you know if he has a relationship or not.

Secondly you can go like "oh i have 2 tickets for a concert/movie/hamster race/etc, but my friend cancelled, i dont know who i should take with me...goal!! it is cute when a girl does that!
PlasticPole 7 | 2,649  
25 Aug 2009 /  #12
plus i dont even know if he is taken..What if i make him uncomfortable - he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!

If he is really good looking and has a great personality you can pretty much assume he's got at least one girlfriend somewhere...
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #13
mvefa
Sorry how do you mean ... how can i find out without being obvious

ignore my double post new to this!

Really? He thinks im a good artist, im blonde have big boobs that should get my foot in the door no? I loose all confidence around a man i like ...and like i said i totally embarassed myself and i really do not know if my looks can get me out of that one, he may even not like blondes...last session my male friend was with me too, so at least this time we will be alone so we have to talk!!!
LukeXX 4 | 75  
25 Aug 2009 /  #14
Really? He thinks im a good artist, im blonde have big boobs that should get my foot in the door no? I loose all confidence around a man i like

You are fake!!!
This is not the way an English girl would talk.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #15
what about one with low self-esteem! I assure you i am English born and bred!
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
25 Aug 2009 /  #16
Slap him with a naked boob.
mvefa 5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #17
hahaha indeed you will then get his attention, or maybe not...if he does not react to it, then he must gay haha...
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #18
Lol - i could do that! Basically i have only ever gone out with english guys, and for some reason have got it into my head that it's a whole different ball game when it comes to this. My brother is in a realtionship with a Japanese girl and they are set to marry soon and he has had to change so much - and i dont mind that - i would welcome that, but feel in the dark!

Totally getting ahead of myself

I have a picture on FB with me and him after my first session and it is so hard not to look at it all the time!
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
25 Aug 2009 /  #19
My brother is in a realtionship with a Japanese girl

For sure there is a bigger difference between English and Japanese culture than between English and Polish.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #20
yes there is a massive difference
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
25 Aug 2009 /  #21
But it's impossible to say anything if one doesn't know anything about his personality. When it comes to English-Polish interactions, I think it depends (much) more on personality than native culture.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
25 Aug 2009 /  #22
Basically i have only ever gone out with english guys

We are absolutely no different than Brits, there are no special requirements, if he's some twisted serial killer keeping pickled babies in his closet thats because he's fvcked up not because he's Polish, treat him like you'd treat a Brit.
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #23
well i really do not know much accept that i am very attracted to him and that he obviously is interested in the same things as i am (illustrating, tattooing) he has a sense of humour, maybe a little shy,i could be reading that wrong..

you are right i just need to be normal with him, any tips though would he find me using any polish words OTT or would that be flattering?

I would love to tell him how hot he was in Polish!
moonlight 6 | 103  
25 Aug 2009 /  #24
he is doing a tattoo for me

he seems impressed that i drew and designed my whole back piece!

So you have something in common and a topic of converstation.

without being obvious

I would just ask. You are going to chat while he is doing your tattoo, so I think it would be a normal to ask certain questions which will let you know if he is taken or not.

last session my male friend was with me too

He may have assumed he was your boyfriend.

he may even not like blondes

dont think you should worry about that.

Totally getting ahead of myself

relax, have fun and be yourself....nothing to lose :) go for it!!!
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
25 Aug 2009 /  #25
well i really do not know much accept that i am very attracted to him and that he obviously is interested in the same things as i am (illustrating, tattooing) he has a sense of humour, maybe a little shy,i could be reading that wrong..

Just talk to him when you see him again, and then in the end, you ask if he wants to go out and have a beer after work or something like that. Don't make it too advanced, and try to relax.
PlasticPole 7 | 2,649  
25 Aug 2009 /  #26
Telling him he's hot would be seen as a compliment and who doesn't want to be complimented? You should try that.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
25 Aug 2009 /  #27
"Hi you're hot"
"Yeah i am wanna fvck?"

I dunno its either sockpuppet accounts or unadjusted loners posting here. How much trouble can asking someone on a date be ffs, worst he can do is say no.

"Want to grab a coffe after work?"
"No you're unzipped and your boner is sticking out"
"K... "

That simple.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
25 Aug 2009 /  #28
-"Hi you're hot"
-"Yeah i am, wanna fvck?"

Always works. :)
OP Lennoxthecat 1 | 23  
25 Aug 2009 /  #29
so should i say that in polish...
PlasticPole 7 | 2,649  
25 Aug 2009 /  #30
I'm sure one of the nice guys posting here can help you with that, Lennoxthecat.

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