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I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it! [132]
Maybe you don't mind, most women would, being told "if you got pregnant I'd push you down some stairs because I don't want to be a dad" is pretty damn disrespectful.
When put in context, we were messing around so I didn't find it disrespectful at all.
In another context, maybe I would have taken it more seriously.
I know he's not going to push me down some stairs, it's just his weird way of speaking.
To the poster of this thread, listen, do what you feel is right for you. I used to say
I would never kill my baby and such and such. But when I was faced with the situation
for real, it was the hardest thing for me. The cons of having the baby outweighed the pros by far and so I made my decision. It wasn't easy but all I can say is think it through and do what is indeed best for you, for the present and for the future.