Love / should I go to Poland with him? [13]

Wow, I am glad to hear your story had a good ending. I dont beleive he ran from any thing.....I think he just wnted to start fresh. His Mother left his Father and came to America, she left him behind. ( I wonder wgat kind of person she is, but he has told me he is the "black sheep" of the family in his mothers eyes,still I could not leave a child behind) BTW, I have not met this woman yet. He says he wants me to see his country, we have viewed pictures of the harbor and it is beautiful!!! I hope to some day go, as I pln to take him to my parents countries too.

Love / should I go to Poland with him? [13]

OMG, are you serious???? I was not aware of this in Poland!

Love / should I go to Poland with him? [13]

yes, you are right......but I feel he has not lied to me.

Love / should I go to Poland with him? [13]

When he moved here he came from Gydina....but he lived in Warsaw. I realy doubt he made this up to be more interesting..... he did boxing over there as well. I mean seriously this man has battle scars all over him. He is verry modest person and does not brag about things. He also has tattos I have yet to find on-line, to find the meanning. He is big teaddy bear....but has seen a darker side.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

The reason I say money is second to the heart....I own a home, I work, I am stable....I am 30 and I worked my ass off to get were I am. He is younger than me, and just came to the states like 4 years ago. He works a lot and save his money which is good. I had to do the same things. I have every thing but a man who I love. I am not jerkin this guy around or playing games with him.....I am wondering if he is playing me. I hope he understands I care for him like no other....I have not dated some on for almost two years....I have been scared. He says he has been hurt before...I understand, so have I. Nothing compares to being in his arms....he takes my breath away with one look. I get chills when he just touhes my hand. What do I do so he knowsI am serious....no games....I am real....and my feelings are real. I am really scared he will hurt my heart, it would be too easy for him. But I am wiling to risk it.....maybe he wont. I just need him to know I am stnding still till I know he is ready to be serious.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

NO I AM NOT A STRIPPER.....I am a General Manager/ Bartender at a European Night club....I also am a court advocate and work in the private investigation feild with insurance companies and Law Firms. I also have a law degree and could work for my fathers firm if I wanted. So, it not like I need some on to finacialy supourt me....I can do it my self. I feel there is nothing wrong with a man who works and gets dirty. And as long as sme one is happy with their job, I could care less if he flips hambugers at Mc Donlads.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

What matters most to me is to show him he has my heart....I love to see him in his dirty work clothes...he hates me seeing him that way. I think he is too worried about what I think of him, and I am worried what he thinks of me. I am 30 years old....and have neer been reduced to a high school girl by any man before. Never smiled so much in my life untill I met him. I am not shy, but when he is around I blush constantly. Saying good by, when I leave his house, takes 45 minutes!!! Its just crazy. I have never felt this way. I have never been with a Polish guy, and dont even know any. So I just dont know what to do. He says " why you want me, I dont have lots of money, I work in dirt, I am nothing" I love all he does, and I make enough money to support us both, money is second to the heart

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

we did not get dirty on the first encounter...it was veryysensual and intamate. He knows I ave never slept with any one so quickly....he walked through a door and sparks flew, I melted....I wll never lie about my past history....he asks questions and I will tell him. My eyes give me away and was never good at lying....so I never took to it. Plus I cant stand some one who lies. I care enough abut this man to tell the truth even if I knew it would split us up....

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

I just want to know would being a sexual person push him away from me.....what is the deal....I have stuff at his house....we tex and talk all day...he wants a good girl, I am, well at least I thought I was....When do I know we are serious. I am getting mixed messages from this guy, and he is not so good at talking about what he feels or thinks (more than most guys) I dont want to be some thing to pass the time away till Mrs. Right comes into his life. I want to know if he sees some thing for us in the future.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

Well, so what if I am freaky.....I just want this one man....who is making me crazy! Cant he let me be his freak.....I am not like trashy.....mater of fact I run my own company (which economy has almost killed) Iam professional, modeling back ground, tall, verry honest loyal....so I am freaky too. This one looks like he is a freak.....and I guess he is hidding it or some thing. I jusy want him to know you can be a freak, but a good girl too. Guess its the German an Austrian in me.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

I would like to hear how he feels too. We want sex every time we see each other....but we dont. He say I am freaky...I want to know why thats a bad thing.....OH and I told him I have been with a girl before, and he flliped out.....said thats not good. Even tough it was a long time ago. I am honest and would never lie to him.....but gezzes! We have not been "oral" yet.....I want to, but seems like he has no interest in it. I am a verry sexual personby nature, and being wit this oe turns me into an animal.....I have never had a guy complain I was too feaky. So whats the deal here. Thisguy is way too sexy, and he should have girls falling at his knees.....but he is just not a player.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

See I have a wild streak in me....but goodto my men. He was wild but is tame now....we had sex too soon...now we are trying to just take it easy...but I wnt him all the time and he wants me too. I look at him and he is ready. But we dont wnt it to be a sex thing. I plan on he next time we have sex I will make it specal or some thing. He is just so hard to read....I am usualy good at readin men, but not him.

Love / What do you think....is he serious? [37]

Well, the reason I ask is he is so hard to read.... not sure what is going on. I have asked if were official the other nght and he said " I guess" , but he always tells me he is ready to settle down. I just dont get him some times. I would just like to know where we are headed.....and I can never get a straight answer out of him....We tex all day long, he comes to see me at work some times... We cant stand to be away from each other, ( this is not a sex thing either, we both feel it happened too soon, and this mans arms are like a cradle to me) we cant look at each other with out smiling or laughing... What can I do to find out what going on here.

Love / Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish. [49]

Lol. I have gotten such a kick from all the post every one has written. To tell you the truth......I am not sure there is anything I would not do for Marcin...Even though we work at diffrent times, (he works all day and some time through the night, I work late afternoon and all night) He tex me all night, or tries to call me. I cant stand to be apart from him. I see every thing in his eyes, truth, future, and purity.....this is SO scary for me!!! I try and tell my self he must have a flaw some where, but I just have not found one yet.....not sure if I will. Its too amazing to be true. BTW He told is Mother about us tonight........ which means this is "serious" in his eyes. I can only assume he has plans for "our" future. I did not get to see him tonight....even though I begged for him to stop in and give me a good night kiss, tihs was un-fair on my part, he worked over 14 hours today and visited his Mother. I was desperate for his touch......I apologized to him, but he would not accept it. He just told me " in time, we will never be apart" Its takes my breath away to hear these things from him....MARCIN (IN ST.LOUIS) If you read this.....Know that my heart is yours.... how breathless you make me feel.

Love / Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish. [49]

All he can say is WOW.....I sent him the tex and he loves it. Thank you so much

Love / Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish. [49]

LOL. thats too funny. I think we have already done that a few times.....an it is FREAKIN AMAZING. So I could ot be happier with Macin. Opps I said his name. lol.

Love / Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish. [49]

Thats a good idea...I am a good cook. My family owns a great reuraunt. thought of making a dinner and having having hi come to it, but we could have the whole place to our selves. Or takng him to the top of the nicest Hotel here is Down Town St louis, and have dinner on the roof top. I truley am crazy for this man....Ifeel like I have no one to share all my thoughts with. My friends think I am crazy!!! I dont care what any one thinks....I want this man in my life.

Love / Just met the man of my dreams. I'm an American girl, he's Polish. [49]

I just hope hope this is the real thing. I have never felt this way before. I was married at one time and since then I have not be wanting a relationship. Then this guy walks into my life and WHAM....he is kinda shy....I am not, but when I am around this man I turn into a shy high school girl. I hope I can pick up on some of the language....But we dont have a large population of Polish here. He is thoughtfull, when he is online talking to his friends back in Poland, he has me talk to them to, and translates for us both. Its too cute. I have a hard time durrig the day not being able to see him, and he comes into the club I work at....so we constatly on the phone and texing or sending e-mails. Can any one tell me who to say some thing sweet in Polish? I would love to tex him while he is work and put a smile on his face. Thanks Every one.