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Joined: 15 Feb 2009 / Male ♂
Last Post: 15 Feb 2009
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Speaks Polish?: no,a little bit

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santosh   
20 Feb 2009
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

Hahaha ...The picture is really funny-polish wifey plan of action-
Explanation-

Piwo-Beer
Wodka-vodka
Szminka-lipstick

If husband comes home after a beer-Beat him with a small wooden stick
If he comes home after Vodka-use bigger wooden stick
If he comes home with lipstick-use the gun!
santosh   
18 Feb 2009
UK, Ireland / Polish female bringing a chinese husband to the UK -advice needed :) [19]

Facts are facts and viewpoints are viewpoints...i suspect that Kambhilla is on the hunt for facts and is being fed viewpoints many of which are negative (probably justified).

Facts1. Your husband will get Dependent EEA status which gives him access to jobs,its unlikely your husbands visa application will be refused unless your marriage is a sham.

Fact 2. He may find a Mc JOB(its likely he will as there are many minimum wage jobs no one wants but its increasingly difficult and it may be a while before he gets it)

Fact 3. You will need to be resident here for a period ( I dont know if its 6 months or 1 year) before thinking of claiming under the benefit system.

Fact 4. He pays exactly same tution fees as you if he joins Uni

If you and he intend to come and work Mc Jobs then the quality of life will be poor(flats with 11 people living in it,poor location of housing etc) and expenses high(food,gas,insurance,travel etc) You may end up saving some money but whats the longterm outlook..bleak

I suggest he and you get as much education/degrees as possible in china/poland where its (probably)better, cheaper and by the time the economy improves in a few years move here if you still have an inclination for it as a productive "working" member of society.

If you have a 1000 pounds to spare on a gamble and a tendency to take a chance you make still end up with bare necessities,but it could all go horribly wrong and you may lose that 1000 pounds too.
santosh   
17 Feb 2009
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

should i stick with him to make him seek help for his anger and violent outbursts?

Better alone and alive ....than be with him and dead...
regarding hitting...one time is an oversight..two times is a mistake..three times is a habit...
This relationship wont work.

do Polish men like submissive women?

correction...all men like submissive women...haha
it also depends on how you define submissive...
getting him a cup of tea,cooking healthy meals for the kids etc etc..may be submission in many women's eyes...but in other women's eyes its duty towards family which they enjoy and are proud of...

it really depends on what your definition of submission is...

Actually, scratch that. everyones right, i have no self esteem, im stupid and dont want to be lonely. i cant and wont find a good guy here. thats why im with him. i know there is someone in the USA, but im in stupid UK. im with him for the wrong reasons, but im just weak. no-one is going to help me become stronger. but forget the abuse, he is a decent guy.

I think I understand you...when in an abusive relationship its easy to 1. feel sympathy to the partner 2. have low self esteem 3. feel that once you let go you wont be able to enjoy the special bond that you had with anyone else 4. Feel that you are better off with an abusive man who loves than be alone

I think only time will heal you...if you have kids or are married ...god help you...if you 2 arent that stage yet....there is hope...its unchartered personal territory that you will traverse ...heres hoping you a good journey...
santosh   
17 Feb 2009
Real Estate / Foreigners: Please don't buy Polish Land! [823]

PS Whoever wants to stay in Poland and live here I wecome but bloody capitalists that push prices up 2 words for you: **** off.

I understand your point of view ola...i agree that the prices may go up so high that it becomes unaffordable to the normal working poilsh public...believe me this is not isolated to poland...i have seen it happen to many other countries where the hardworking people are outpurchased by wealthier cooperations or commercial alliances....But most people on this forum i dont think are capitalists...they are either funny offensive tolerant racist etc etc...u have more to fear if some of them come to buy land and settle ola... :-)
santosh   
16 Feb 2009
Love / Polish women are known for their beauty, but men are so ugly (most of).. [250]

Yeah but not showering and dressing in camo pants with matching smelly jacket isn't going to attract the ladies now is it?

Exactly...showering and dressing and solarium and gym 4 times a week seems to be good in attracting the ladies ......but the ladies dont get attracted to anyone who does all of the above ......and they do get attracted to some people who do none of the above so whats the whole fuss about anyway...
santosh   
15 Feb 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

How many westerners live in your country ?

This prick doesnt realize that most of the bombings-read hiroshima...read imperialism/colonialism is western...agreed recent bombings are eastern...so why dont you stop using this forum to air your ire against guys like lovewithpolish from a xenophobic perspective...why not use it to tell him to stop being a wimp and phone up his parents and tell them that I love this girl and i love u mom and dad and i cane imagine life without either you ppl or my polish gf.....
santosh   
15 Feb 2009
Love / British Asian with Polish Stunner!!! [22]

best of luck godfather...don't be forced into a negative mindset by other peoples negative experiences...if ur are to be conned beaten or ripped off better if its for a noble cause(to be with a woman whom u love)...btw i guess without your wife life would be difficult in poland esp with the language difficulties et al...i hope along with teaching english to poles ur learning polish from them too...good luck
santosh   
15 Feb 2009
Love / Polish women are known for their beauty, but men are so ugly (most of).. [250]

I would prefer if the thread read "are polish women better at keeping men happier than vice versa"
polish women are beautiful...polish men are handsome..so what...if they are or are not...??
ps-maybe polish guys arent made up,manicured,fashion educated,etc etc...thats becase they are MEN and not gayboys made to order to satisfy a subsection of the gay-feminist alliance that rules mediaworld hollywood and fashinworld and decides who is good looking or not...

go to the gym eat healthy read books think high live humbly...and stay happy....