Love / Do Poles ignore domestic abuse? [54]

I think she understands that. The abuse in these cases is both physical and mental.
Life on its own with a baby to look after is hard. Yes she has to go, but she needs support.
It is easy to pass judgement. The right decision is to go, but a plan, is vital.
So give her the space, to make the hard choices.

Love / Do Poles ignore domestic abuse? [54]

As a child i was always told to never raised your hand to a women. In the real life that
i see as an adult, yes it does happened a lot. I have seen it and, hate it.
It is a " control thing" by your partner, the more you suffer, the more he enjoys it.
The other guys in the house?, there worth, nothing.
You have to plan your escape, contact local services and have money etc to leave.
It is not going to be easy, but as a dad myself, you have to go. You have a hard road
to travel, but i wish you and your baby the best. Time will solve the rest. This is not a
" polish thing". It is just about being with " Bad Bastard". Life sorts these people out.
I wish ye the best.........

UK, Ireland / Polish people in an english army [85]

late reply. Yes sas training is first rate. As for the " term" special forces, armies all
over the world have been using special forces, since the concept of war started.
to get back to the question?. What kind of life does she want?. Been in any kind
of relationship, is like been with the whole military, pains, laughs and all,real day to
day living, not easy. So she has to understand the future, with that life, or walk away.
How many relationships last in that world, not many. Look at the stats...

UK, Ireland / Polish people in an english army [85]

no hassel in the castle..pardon the pun. having a wee bit of army life. i
still say his best bet is a playstation, as for the sas been good?.
yes they are, but they have a lot of competition. Who is the best?? anyone guess.....

UK, Ireland / Polish people in an english army [85]

no threat intended, as a tourist he ie welcome anytime. A military life takes conviction,
to join another nations army? strange. anyway maybe buy him a playstation..
a lot better than the real thing... . And yes poles do make good fighters....as i have just
read. Maybe 1 is best hanging from there own tree??? ...

UK, Ireland / Polish people in an english army [85]

just like to wish your boyfriend " the best of luck in the " BA". a little advice i would
give him, if he does. Stay away from ireland, if he makes it.
the best of luck..Afganistan...etc. Maybe time to think again?????