MyszkoKochana
12 May 2009
Love / POLISH GUY AND BLACK GIRL! [52]
I'm mixed race and my boyfriend is Polish - born in Warsaw, raised in Canada. His parents and family are all traditionally Polish. Anyway, my concern is that we are serious and we want to get married eventually BUT he still hasn't told his parents about our relationship...
He knows his parents will accept me, but the problem is the rest of his family (older family members).
6 months ago he wanted to tell his parents everything, but I asked him not to because I got too scared (hehe :S). It would be a relief if his parents knew about us because it's tiring keeping this a secret. We don't live in the same country as his parents do so at least there's no chance of running into them. But every time his parents call, I have to stay quiet and when they ask him if he's interested in anyone he has to lie to them and say that he's dating around. I don't feel right about keeping this a secret anymore or lying to his parents. I really want them to like me and accept me. We love each other so much, I just hope they will see that.
Congratulations to you : )
Please tell me how your trip to Poland went!
Anyone else have any advice, warnings or encouraging words??
xo
I'm mixed race and my boyfriend is Polish - born in Warsaw, raised in Canada. His parents and family are all traditionally Polish. Anyway, my concern is that we are serious and we want to get married eventually BUT he still hasn't told his parents about our relationship...
He knows his parents will accept me, but the problem is the rest of his family (older family members).
6 months ago he wanted to tell his parents everything, but I asked him not to because I got too scared (hehe :S). It would be a relief if his parents knew about us because it's tiring keeping this a secret. We don't live in the same country as his parents do so at least there's no chance of running into them. But every time his parents call, I have to stay quiet and when they ask him if he's interested in anyone he has to lie to them and say that he's dating around. I don't feel right about keeping this a secret anymore or lying to his parents. I really want them to like me and accept me. We love each other so much, I just hope they will see that.
Congratulations to you : )
Please tell me how your trip to Poland went!
Anyone else have any advice, warnings or encouraging words??
xo