Love / English Husband, Polish Wife... Going out together/not together? [35]


That's the main point from all of this, I think.

Life / Taxpayers subsidise priest's Alfa Romeo in Bielsko Biała [29]

Absolutely! I'd like to see how religions survive without the subsidies.

Churches cost a lot to run. Religions need exposure and therefore churches everywhere. Religions need people to come to these churches regularly so the message can be enforced and reinforced. If they cannot afford to run these churches then what will happen to them? I think we know.

Cheers for the nudge back on track.

Life / Taxpayers subsidise priest's Alfa Romeo in Bielsko Biała [29]


I know! It's crazy. I mean, you wouldn't take advice on living in the rainforest from a desert dweller.


A dark-minded woman.

Remember though that priest used to be able to marry but the Church realised the sense in banning it so that all earthly possessions could be passed to the Church rather than to the priest's family.

Love / English Husband, Polish Wife... Going out together/not together? [35]


Sad but true by the sounds of it.

It also sounds like you've started to resent the situation and with resentment comes the long, dark road to the shitty end...unless the situation can be turned around, of course!

Re, all men cheating: Have you told her how insulting that is?! Also, what effect does she think statements like that will have on your relationship? They don't really encourage openness and honesty when she's starting from a position of mistrust. If anything, it's a potentially self-fulfilling prophecy. One day she may find herself feeling happy in her despair that all men are the same once you've been continually push away and made to feel like the sins of other men are upon you. Hanged. Sheep. Lamb.

This is a sweeping generalisation but women seem to respond well when things are written down. This is why women love to write letters to their partners. If you can do the same it also means that nothing can be 'mis-heard' and therefore misunderstood or, worse still, twisted. It's safer basically. It also means that you can reinforce the good things about her and your relationship throughout the letter. To a man, a letter seems like the situation can no longer be talked about. To a women, it's not the same.

Life / Taxpayers subsidise priest's Alfa Romeo in Bielsko Biała [29]


There's blood in the water. Congregations are shrinking. 'Donations' are shrinking.

Love / English Husband, Polish Wife... Going out together/not together? [35]

I've never found that's worked with people. Better to try and guide them so they can understand how and why they are being unreasonable. Otherwise it just turns into a heated battle.

Does she go out with her friends? If so, then perhaps you could find out from her what she gets from the experience. Then find out how she would feel if she could no longer enjoy that experience. Then when she explains how she would feel, you can tell her that's how you actually feel.

Did something bad happen in her past with a previous partner? Maybe he told her he was meeting friends when actually he was having an affair. It sounds like insecurity to me. Why else would she want to stop you from seeing your friends?

Love / English Husband, Polish Wife... Going out together/not together? [35]

No. Quite the opposite, I've found.

Sounds like there's a more serious issue at the heart of this. Dig deep and good luck.

Life / bed sheets in Poland...are them shorter ? [19]


I love this idea, though! They overlap as you overlap leading to a kind of romantic mountain duvet.