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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

Why did you post this topic ?

i dont know why i posted this topic but in mt opinion you have no right to say he will not leave his wife for me... why do you think that? i am very nice and we like each other a lot so how the hell can u say that

wrowclaw that was to you.... and i also think most people on this forum would do exactly the same as me just dont want to admit it
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

yes i agree and no he wont say im getting divorced dont phone to his daughter. he will obviusly explain.. i am thinking of myself and why shouldnt i? he is also thinking of himself and if they were happily married and rock solid then this wouldnt be happening would it? i think what we have together is worth the risk on both parts
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

If you two are rock solid then don't you think he should at least tell his wife

i didnt say we are rock solid. i said he and wife arent rock solid.. as i said beforelife is for living and im not gonna live to regret what might have been... i am going with my heart.. and i dont think now is the right time to tell anyone its too soon

But you aren't ready to marry him, are you? I feel a little sorry for the guy as he might think your relationship is stronger than his marriage but in fact you may just look for a short-term relationship

i dont know yet its too soon to tell but yes i like him a lot

At least he's a good shag though.......

someone who actually thinks like me!!!
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

OK, I understand. But can you tell me how you are going to find out if he is the one you'd like to marry? In order to get to know him well you'd have to spend with

yes he is married but lives about five mins away from me and his wife in poland, we see each other about four or five times a week different situations.. we have very different backgrounds and thats what i need to find out before i ask him to seriously leave his wife to be with me
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

At least for the sake of your conscience I don't encourage you to "ask him to leave his wife

i wouldnt do that not yet anyway. he also doesnt trust me fully yet he always says when we talk about it what if i change my mind and then he is alone!!
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

write no more on this subject. But please stay with the forum so we can get your thoughts on other topics. This thread has gone a long way and I'm glad to see there

o.k sweet theres no way i am gonna say my thoughts on other forums this was definetly enough!!
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

i didnt ask what you think! why do you keep on this forunm then is your life that boring darling

You are 29 - is that your first real relationship that "feels good"?

no but why stop if it feels good and none of us want to end it would you stop?
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26 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

Next you'll be telling us you're the victim How the evil, nasty, dulcet toned, handsome, chisel jawed Polish Casanova came

your very funny, only time will tell

So - as a test - tell him you won't see him sooner than in a month. IF your feelings are still strong, I guess there's nothing we could help you with. But maybe during this month or so you'll realize what you do to him and his family and the "feel-good" feeling will turn to somebody else.

o.k i will try that i have stopped for two weeks and still felt the same
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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

you know what i think your right im gonna say that to him today and see how it goes or probably doesnt go.. thankyou

As far as my first hand experience goes, I filed for divorce against my cheaing wife. She thought things were greener on the other side. The catch is that her boy never planned on leaving his wife. In fact when I spoke to his wife, she thought their relationship was as good as it got and never thought it could happen to her. 4 broken hearts, 2 families now divorcing, and 2 kids that will now have to grow up splitting time between parents.

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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

Mobile, I am sorry, but I have to admit that hate women like you.

dont be srry u can hate me as much as u like!!No i do pay anythig i wouldnt do that. yes he can speak perfect english he i a teacher at local school (maths and pe this is where i met him). no i dont know what he is gonna tell his wife to explain himself. he is more concerned about telling his teenage daughter. its easy to say meet someone else but hard to do now we have feelings for each other

Maati she is gona get what she deserves... I am certain

and what do i deserve? i am not a bad person i just got into a bad situation

seldom polish men settle with a foreign women

well i dont know where you have been i know loads
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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

It's almost obvious here that this woman is being used. The most probably it's about survival to that Polish guy. He's having fun as well, if the woman is as attractive as his wife or Polish chicks. If not, he prostitutes himself for help, money, support. He will not divorce his wife, regerdless of what he's saying...

what is the point of me even saying anything you seem to know it all and u have never even met any of us
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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

I don't agree with this, Maati. She's using him as much as he's using her (great sex). I think it's time to put an end to the Mobile bashing.

thankyou, but i really dont mind i can see why they hate me!!! i spoke to him earlier today and he isnt some young stupid child who is using me i can assure you all of this.. he didnt want to fall for me or hurt anyone but this has happened. do u really think i should finish with him? he says he cant consentrate, get me out of his head he even asked if i would tell him what time i would be in the supermarket just so he could see me.. does this sound like a man who is just using me for sex? we dont have sex everytime we mee alot of the time we just talk

am a teacher myself. Fortunately, I teach in a private school in Warsaw plus I do other things apart from teaching.
Some of my friends are teachers and teachers assistants in the UK. Obviously, it is a better job than cleaning but still, nothing special financialy.

he isnt just a teacher and as u asked i told you

I wish both of you good luck. You'll need it...

you talk like this never has happened before, yes i hope he does send money to support his family what kind of man would he be if he didnt. we have only known each other 9 weeks its not gonna suddenly all stop

When he was talking about divorce didn't you pressure him for some asurance

no its too soon i want him t make tha decision not me
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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

Hey Kuk, it takes 2 to tango---he's a grown man and if he had any sense of integrity, it wouldn't matter how lonely he got.

i think we are wasting our time everyone seems to have made there mind up. he isnt lonely he has many friends

told you he can be even university professor with 5 degrees from Harvard University.
It does not matter, as long as he's a Polish citizen working in your country...
What he's telling you, it's typical, kind of romantic, women always fell for that...and Polish guys can be very, very romantic, but it does not mean anything. Did you hear about Slavic romantic soul?

everybody is different maybe we are meant to be
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27 Jan 2007
Love / having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]

yes but its not all about sex we do really like each other if it was just sex then i wouldnt bother

as for Polish guys not getting in to relationships with other women other than Polish women this is rubbish, what about the Polish women in relationships with other men.....just like yourself!

i couldnt have put it better myself