Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

I havent started any other thread other than this. In the other thread you are refering to, I'm simply stating that its wiser to have a girl who gets mad at you and cools off the same day, rather than having a girl who'll plot some evil plan against you resulting from years of silence and dispair.

This goes both ways of course. Men who get mad may possibly be a better choice than one who keeps quiet and one day will just dissapear.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

I am not with her. I cannot be with her anymore once she has proved to me that she is cheating, or if you'd like to say, planned to cheat on me. I'm letting out some of my feelings and experience so hopefuly this won't happen to anybody else.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

My old old GF doesn't get mad.

She gets Even.

But you're better off if she just gets mad. It's only a few minutes or hours you'll need to tolerate. Maybe even 15 hours a week. But you'll get used to it. Then you build a habit and learn to live peaceful with it. Plus, if she's the violent type who'll hit you or pinch you, your body will naturally get stronger (so no need to keep paying for those YMCA fees)

Now if she wants to get even.... she'll divorce you, take your money, invite you over to appoligize just to have her repeat the same thing. Then introduce you to a child who'se not even yours to begin with. But using her lovely Polish looks, will succumb you to her powers. Then you grow old and you realize you did have biological children with her, but she gave them up for adoption years ago. And so your bio-children finally learn of you but then don't respect you because their mother kept you oblivious to this whole fact of their existance for all this time; and once your children get married and become fathers themselves, they begin to understand that you weren't all that bad. Then she loses her Eighth and final husband and when you are lying down in the hospital bed, she'll gave you a call and tell you that she'd loved you soo much for all these years but didn't know how to show it. All the wanted was to have some fun, but would have always given you the last dance. She'll tell you "You were the first man in my life. And yes, I did have 8 husbands but thats because none of them could match up to you. I was lonely and desperate. I missed you soo much.". And then, you get the final message from God: Alright my child, its enough bullsh*t you've heard. Come to me..... And then...just maybe...you'll meet that right lady in the afterlife. Just maybe! And then, when she sees your lifeless eyes below her, she finally realizes what she has done to you; but now you are gone.

(I hope non of you ever experience the above)

Trust me brother, it's better to have a girl who'll have her occasional temper tantrums rather than have a girl who'll plot your distruction. Trust me, I've had the latter version.

I hope you got my sarcassm throughout this post.

I'll leave you with this.

"Dogs who barks won't bike. Its the quiet ones you got to worry about".

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]


This is a very intersesting observation you have made. I'd like to thank you for pointing it out.

Conversely, I am not against my girlfriend having male friends. But I am against having them have male friends that are kept secretive behind my back. How would you like it if your man went on these so called "business trips", but forgets his phone at your house and you find a bunch of contacts with only initials in them.

Ex.

Melissa B.
John K.
F M.
I T
K L.
Sears headoffice
Boss
Pharmacy
Taxi
J F.
M K.
L Lesterson
Sah Ra
Jes C.

If you see such a contact listing in your husband's phone, you'll be completely fine with it? By the way, this is how my x-gf's contact is.

Also, if there is nothing to hide, why would you refrain from introducing your friends to your soulmate?

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

No she is not a w**** first of all.

She has simply gone fishing into the male sea. Funny though when I want to talk to any girls, she'll cut my ghraum off. (as Borat says)

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]


Cheating does not necessarily have to mean sleeping together. When you start to confide with other men, you develop a strong friendship and from thereon, you begin to do things together. Up to the point where you do end up sleeping with them {then you get married, then he cheats on you because obviously you cheated on somebody else to get with him; so he already knows the trust isnt there. Then you become 70 years old and live alone and complain day and night for the same actions you once did}.

Oh yes, did I mention that my x-gf constantly tells me "I'm the most loyal girl you'll ever meet; just ask any of my friends. They'll all tell you its true!"

It's very hard not to have a negative impact. She was Polish, and if it was not for some great Polish men and women of the 19th century and earlier (CHOPIN, Coppernicus, Maria Skłodowska–Curie...), then I wouldnt think much of her place.

God Bless all you great Polish artists, scientists, folks out there who made this culture so great. And shame on you people who take your culture's name in vein and try and upset its reputation.

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]


He taketh because she cheats and abuses.

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

Indeed, good to hear some words of wisdom and encouragement.

Dziekuje

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

Thats more or less how I figured her out.

There had been "phone numbers" that had texted her certain sweet messages on her phone. When I asked who it is, she simply said it was a wrong number. After some McDonald's paranorma tea which makes you just suddenly burst out the truth...well she burst out all the truth.

Are you familar with the term; God's greatest blessing is a wonderful husband/wife?

It surely seems that God had blessed both her and I. Thus, a gift from God.

But when you abuse such a gift and then cheat with it; what would God think of it?

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

God gives you a gift; What you do with it is your gift back to God.

So I dont see how she offered God a gift by cheating on me?

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

Confiding in them, possible insulting me with them. Going to movies, coffe shops, going on dates. Hopefuly she didnt go as far as sleeping with them (although she does seem to have slept next to them). She had told me initially she would consider dating 4-5 guys at once just to pick the best one out.

Honestly, from what I understand, I was such a great bf for her, that she did not realize what she had.

Yet, on top of that, she had an extremely great father herself; which pretty much leads me to believe that she has the idea that every man out there is GREAT, hence she took me for granted. Yet luck was more on her side, seeing how many men out there cheat on their partners.