Life / Polish school friends site [11]

Its not stalkerish,i lost contact with someone in the uk,i know they had a profile on that site,just wanted to see if they were still in the uk,or if they went back to poland.

I must be doing something wrong to register then,i use google translate page,and i just get that error come up at the end,can someone help me out??

Life / Polish school friends site [11]

its an old friend,i have a translation site,but when i try to sign up at the end i get the sentence above

Anyone can help me set up an account....please.

Can anyone help me,i need to make a profile but i just keep getting that same response
Strona o adresie /register wymaga specjalnych uprawnień, których nie posiadasz.

but i don't know why,is it cus i use an english email address

in english i get this

Lack of rights (403)

Website address / register requires special powers, which do not own.

Life / Polish school friends site [11]

Really need to find this person,have some news for them

Could someone help me set up an account on this site

nasza-klasa.pl

it is really important.

please.

What does this mean??

Strona o adresie /register wymaga specjalnych uprawnień, których nie posiadasz.

Life / Polish school friends site [11]

Thats the one,thanks

Is it only in polish language??i am trying to trace someone on there,they are polish,and i think i need to make a profile but can't read it

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Ana

When you said to give her support,i always have,i support her in all her courses,i used to drive her there,and pick her up cus parking was bad,when she was doing her accounting course i would help her with the english phrasing,i have tried to help in any way i can,when she is stressed i always ask whats wrong,and we go for walks quite alot.I think maybe i am just no good at this relationship stuff.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Its not really my decision,i think she wants to move on,guess i am just a stupid idiot who is struggling to let go,but i do feel happier when i am with her.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

When i first met her which was end of march last year,she always seemed to be happy.I was with her for about 4 weeks,and she told me alot about herself,that she was divorced,and that she had a daughter in poland who was coming over to live in august.We went on holiday to turkey at the end of april fr a week,and had a good time.But i noticed that she liked the male attention she got,maybe i was reading more into this than was actually there.The day before we left to come home she asked if i wanted to move in with her,now i had only known her for about 5 weeks,and in them 5 weeks i spent alot of nights staying round hers,and we got on great so i thought why not.Again we got on well,but i noticed that she seemed to get very jealous and possesive over me,and always said she was not normally like this in relationships,and not even with her ex husband who she was married to for 7 years,and was with 7 more before that.I noticed she was trying to get into my email,and she checked my mobile phone alot,caught her a few times in the middle of the night when she thought i was asleep,i had to delete all womens numbers,she didn't like me chatting to my mates,or seeing them,and didn't like me talking to my family.since then she been getting worse and worse,one minute she can be nice as pie,the next moody as hell,really shouty,and in a small while back to normal.

Saturday night she sends me texts saying she has no time for me anymore.last night i went over to pick my passport up cus she had it,and she was all kissing me cuddling me,telling me she really wanted to be with me but can't cus i am to horrible sometimes,and that she did still love me and miss me.

and this is how it goes,all the time.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Yeah she can do,and she often says she feels funny or as she calls it "stressed" but she doesn't know why.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Bubba

This is what my counsellor practices in,this and many other disorders,and relationship issues

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Doubtfullove
She generally says she doesn't realise that she is doing it.sometimes i believe her,sometimes not.She always says she doesn't know why she is like she is,and sometimes she does things to hurt me on purpose,which kinda hurts.and that she seems to push everyone she loves away from her,and she has said to me a few times,that she doesn't feel she knows how to love someone..Now i was chatting to my counsellor about this in the 2 sessions i have had (she deals with issues that affect you on that day) and she said she thinks my ex could suffer from "borderline personality disorder",she told me to look at a link on her webpage,and read up on it,now i have read alot over the last day or so,and i think she could be right,now if this is what she is suffering from,then i have no chance,nothing i do or say now is going to make a bit of difference to her.if this is the case,then i have to accept,and move on.

polishgirltx who is a spoiled brat?? Doubtfullove? because she doesn't want to read the whole thread,if so,bit unfair i would say.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Doubtfulllove

While i would agree that the language barrier can sometimes play its part,i do believe that she just wants to control me,from who i talk to,what i have on my phone,to sometimes where i could sit in the house (and no i am not joking,sometimes i wanted to sit in the lounge and she wanted me to sit in dining room,if i didn't....hell to pay)now don't get me wrong,i know i have done nothing but moan about her on here since the day i got here,but she could also be the nicest woman in the world.i mean we have had some fantastic times,but ever since we moved into that house,it just seemed to go downhill,always arguing.

I mean now i am in the doghouse cus i never went over to see her saturday night,but we never planned to meet saturday,now she says she has no time for me,and its all because i never done what she wanted me to.Just seems like punishment,so ShelleyS and marek looks like she will be out of my life,and all contact gone.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

shewolf

You might have got a bit confused,i never said i would take her out saturday,i said sunday,i already knew i was busy,so thats why i said sunday to her.She suspected i was going out with friends which is why she decided she could not do sunday,even though friday,and sat morning she said sunday was ok.she said when i rang her at 5pm that i wanted to go over saturday night,i said no tomorrow night.I am not playing with her feelings,i was very specific in what i said to her.she has turned it rund,to make me feel bad,its what she always does.I still really want to be with her,and i told her,i spoke to her on the phone today,and it seems its all about sex,from her,not me.we slept together on friday night,and now she thinks i went off saturday night and slept with someone else,which is not true,and now she says i don't care about her anymore.

marek

I am seeing a counsellor not a shrink,and its for reasons not connected with my ex.

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Logan,words of wisdom i see.

Update

I spoke to her about 3 times yesterday,and we were getting on fine,really good,i asked her friday night when i stayed with her if she wanted to go out tonight (sunday) just for a meal,and maybe catch a film at the cinema,she said would be nice,i asked her yesterday morning (saturday) and she said yes.but she said why not tonight,i said i would be sorting my stuff out,she said i think you have plans.I rang her about 4.30pm yesterday and we just chatted about nothing really,and the subject got on to going out again,she said she was going out with her friend woman she is staying with,but she would be back early pm about 7,as the woman,thats proof u no fair,play with my feelings,stop" had to work last night.she then said that said i would be going over last night,i said no i said sunday evening not sat.she said i could go over,i told her i was going to sort my stuff out and get an early night as i was tired from moving.After i put the phone down,she sent me a text about 10 minutes later,saying she spoke with her friend,and as she was going to work,she had time for seeing me.i said again i was staying in.i wasn't though,she text me to say she thought i was going out,and didn't believe me,but it didn't matter.All was quiet,till 8.20pm,and she rang my mobile,but i didn't hear it,she sent me a text saying "i knew that you no at home that i think in this case is no worth do anything in future,bye take care" i never answered,then another one "now i'm really sure you go out,can't believe you no answer thats proof u no fair,play with my feelings,stop" then another one about 15 minutes later saying "i've got some secret but u no talk to me,then maybe u discover in future,bye forever,u choose today u own life,not believe u sleep or similar" i replied about 11.30pm cus i was watching a band play i said "secret hmmm what could be?" but no reply,and this is what i get if i go out,and she isn't even my g/f,but she is still trying to control me.And thats the story so far.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

cjjc

I know what you mean i love mine to pieces but i just can't work her out,if she wants to argue,and i don't argue back,it goes on and on,but if i do its over quite quickly (sometimes) other times it might go on and on.

Update
When i was leaving my counsellor yesterday (who said she text me so i would have her number again) my ex sent me a text asking if i was going over the house to do some packing,and i rang and she said she was there to.I wasn't going to go over but as i needed more time tonight as i am off out with friends i thought why not,i get there and she just arrives back from moving some more stuff.We talked for a bit as we packed,and she said after about 30 minutes she had a surprise for me,i asked what and she said i could stay with her in the place she was staying,which is a firend of hers.wh o met a few weeks back,only thing i saw there which said my ex was staying there was a duvet,pillows and a few work things,and a load of stuff that we had packed from the old house we shared,i asked her where her stuff was (bed,kitchen table,etc) and she said some other friends were looking after it,now i get the feeling she has another place and she took me there to put me off,cus she don't want me knowing where she is living,which is cool.and i mean that.We both slept in the same bed,cuddling all night i think,or certainly most of it,she told me she doesn't want anyone else but me (which i find strange as we are not together,and she says she still loves me and misses me,but can't accept my angry side,fair enough i think.But again if i am soooo the one she wants,why are we apart,i feel as though there could be something else keeping us apart,other than what she says,i asked if i could text/ring her from time to time,and she said that was ok.i am now just going to see what happens,she also said she would come to see my counsellor with me as she does work for couples...........its all a bit odd to me.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

shewolf

yes she can bea vengeful one,she deleted some numbers from my phone including hers,and a guy i know from the same city that she don't like cus he is going through the same stuff with his polish g/f which my ex knows.

I got home yesterday back to the house,and half her stuff has gone,then strangely at 12.20am last night i got a text from her saying "good night martin" i find this weird as she deleted all knowledge of her from my phone,then she sends me a text,which means now i have her number again,so i don't know if this means i am still in her thoughts,does this mean i can still text/talk to her,and i know she has a new flat,managed to find that out,but i have not heard anything from her since,so i am really confused now.

Have to go have another appointment with me counsellor.
update soon.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Well another update

I haven't been online for a while,we were getting on just great,until last night another big arguement,to cut a long story short,she handed in her notice on the house 2 and a half weeks back,and tried to rent another basically she don't earn enough to get one through estate agents,and we have to be out the house by this saturday.i have somewhere to go,but she doesn't, i think she might have to stay with some friends of a friend of hers.her daughter is in poland till 23rd this month,and i think she will have to find somewhere by then,i have been trying to help all week,but last night she started putting me down again,cus i am moving back with my mum,she now keeps calling me mummys boy,in a horrible tone.I really am only trying to help,i started to see a new counsellor yesterday and she is happy to see me and my ex together,she agreed,then we had an arguement and last night she just kept on at me,saying i had taken her car keys,which i hadn't,kept trying to get into my bedroom,and i woke up this morning and she has taken my mobile phone,and my work trainers,and my good shoes (the only 2 pairs of shoes i own) so this morning i had to go to work in my slippers,i was not going into her room this morning to get shouted at again.no idea what mood she will be in when i get home (at mums at the moment) i really want to try and work this out with her,but she seems to want to destroy it,when we go out she always holds my hand,and cuddles me,and she sometimes sleeps in my room,so i have no idea what the hell is going on,she keeps saying if i want to be with her then i have to change,i can be moody,and angry,and shout alot,but i am also very supportive,and caring,now i feel all is lost.

thank you for your continued support,and messages,will keep checking back
trevor my mum likes her,my sister likes her,she never seems to want to go out with my friends,i think she has some friends here but not sure how good of friends they are.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

What you think she could have been cheating on me and thats why she is accusing me of the same??

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

She has been checking me since last year,she used to ring my work to make sure i had actually turned up,accused me of staring at other women all the time,mate you only know a fraction of the story,yes i tried to set her up this time,and that is the only time in the whole relationship i have tried to set her up,yet she used to do it to me all the time,as for half of what was on the phone bill,it was 5 numbers,on a 5 page bill,not quite half i think.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

When did i say i have a place to go,i visit my mums but i can't stay,only for one or two nights,my ex is using this fact to say that i have been seeing other girls,if she had called my mothers house she would know i was there,and no where else.this relationship won't stay friendly cus she decided she would open my post,and found something out that she didn't like,i explained it to her after,she used to go through my mobile phone when i was asleep,i caught her,and she didn't like it if i sat in a different room than her,she has tried to control me for the last 14 months,and when i stand up for myself she always said "i am sure we won't be together soon" so i would do WHAT SHE WANTED ME TO,if i move out she does not earn enough to cover my half of the rent,so i am still leagally obliged to pay it,so why should i find somewhere else to live,and still have to pay for that house.if she doesn't pay her share,i am legally required to cover it,and same for her,if i move i still have to pay for the next 2 months,about £850,while i am there i am still being polite,and not trying to argue,yet all she does is throw **** back in my face,i spend as little time as i can there,go back to my mums after work,and go back home at about 8-9pm,just to make it a bit easier for my ex.I am not trying to make her life difficult,just trying to help still.

Love / Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better? [134]

My ex was exactly the same,and she had some weird things she said to......like colgate toothpaste is not good for you,i said i been using it for 35 years and i still have all my teeth,she replied,yes but thats your teeth.lol

there are so many i can't begin to tell you.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Wroclaw

How am i making her life a misery,she can leave anytime she likes,she has been saying for the last 3 weeks she is moving out,yet she still hasn't gone??saying she is looking for another place,last week she never put her share of the rent into my account,and she never even informed me,so i get a charge for a failed direct debit,she never even told the lanlady what was going on,i did,if it is so bad for her then why does she not leave,the lease on the house is up soon,if she cancels the agreement she will get all the deposit back £1000,plenty to move out i think.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Thats ok miranda,everyone has there own opinion.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

I tried to lay down some ground rules,and she just kicks back harder.

Update
We are both still living in the house,lanlady has said as long as we both pay our share of the rent,we don't have to leave,and even if we don't pay it would take 2 months to get us out.

My ex says she doesn't want me in the house,and she also said she has no feelings towards me cus she thinks i cheated on her,when we were together,and that i was meeting other women after we split.truth is i have never cheated on her,or on any other of me old g/f's.now she just keeps throwing it back in my face,and she says she don't care??if she didn't it wouldn't be an issue,i think.All last week she was asking to see my mobile phone bill when it came through.i said ok,then i realised i'd done something stupid,we were split up mind,nearly 2 weeks she said if there were any womens numbers,there would be no chance of us getting back together (so remember she asked when we were split up,meaning i have nothing to prove) on the 18th june,she sent me some nasty texts,and i was hurt,so i rang some massage parlours in the city we live in,i thought,i knew the numbers would show on the bill,and i would open the bill,and leave it lying around,see if she saw them.now i rang the numbers from my mums house,and she was in the room when i done it,and she said it was a stupid idea.I knew that i would get my phone bill the week after,now it took longer than usual for my bill to arrive (about a week,normally 3 days)when it arrived i noticed it had already been opened,and someone had tried to stick it back down with glue.she had steamed it open,and i think she had rang the numbers,we had been getting on well last weekend,spent alot of time together,then since monday this week,she is just being horrible to me,and she has virtually told me she opened it,so now she don't trust me,the thing is i done this when we were already split up.maybe a lesson there for others in a similar position,although this does not give someone the right to go through your things,i explained to her why i done it,but she just keeps throwing it back in my face.

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Thanx for the support people,and LCzachor no need for appologies mate,sometimes the truth is whats needed.

Update

Me and the ex are still ex's,i now sleep in the room her daughter was in,we still talk,and it doesn't seem to be as bad as i thought,we agree we can come and go as we please.She said her daughter is not to keen on me now,but i can accept that it must be hard for her to hear us 2 argue.So thats the situation as for now,i am going to keep looking for a way out,and find somewhere to go.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]


I am not with her,we split up on monday,not really heard much from her either,my stuff is still in the house though,i have to find me a place,my mum said she doesn't mind me staying the odd nights but does not want me to move back permanently,my now ex has moved my stuff out of the bedroom we shared,and has moved it into her daughters room,and her daughter now sleeps with her.Its going to be difficult for a while,at the moment i have absolutley no spare money to be able to go anywhere else,i have asked friends and no luck there,so i will just stay there a few nights,and the odd 1 or 2 at my mums,Yes i would admit i have been very dumb,and nieve,and yes i have played right into her hands,but at least i never married her,or got a house with her,or had children,and hopefully soon this chapter of my life will be over,but its not that easy to just meet someone else.i only wish it was.


Sounds like a plan,where you work,and where in uk.......lol

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Hey all

Last night about 9.44pm she sent me a text saying "what i should do that you never come back?"Now i know that i was only there to make up the numbers,i said that to her all along she just needed someone to help her get a house,i still belive this,i also think there could be another man involved,and now i feel i should tell you the rest of the story,when i first me her she was a prostitue,and i am not making that up,she really was,she done massage,with "extras" she gave all that up when she met me (or so she says)she has always told me she has got savings,and always seems to have alot of money,even though she only earns £600 a month,the rent on the house is £700.I believe she resents me because she had to take a crap paying job,and now earns hardly anything,she claims ilegal benefits to top up her weekly earnings.something she told me last week,i had no idea,if she gets caught i am in the **** to.i know her plan was for me to pay most of the house,her excuse was she didn't earn as much as me,but i stood my ground and told her we do it 50/50,and i think this was the final thing for her,so she had to try and get me out,but that means she will have to pay all of it,so that don't make sense.I feel like such an idiot,for letting this spiteful woman do this to me,i should have seen this coming,but i couldn't,i am such an ass.

I know you lot think i am just a stupid idiot,and the thing is,you are all right,please don't think i made up the prostitute part,to make her sound bad,it really is true.

sorry,but i am just a bit shellshocked at the moment

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

Well i guess i am just going to have to wait and see what happens now,going to give it a couple more days

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

I don't like the pain and misery,just trying to make sense of all what has happened over the last 3 months since we started renting this dam house,surely she must have liked me at some point,to even start renting the place,maybe i was just there to help her get it.i don't know.

Love / My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]

What makes you think she doesn't like me,she is always the one chasing me,if we have arguements,and i walk out the house,she is always the one who is texting me,and ringing me,i never reply,she is like that for 2 days after.