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having an affair with a Polish man (but he has a wife and a child) [266]
Now thats a positive thing, but enforcing such a thing is difficult....since he is in England and she is in Poland, they cant put an attachment on his earnings
Yep, they can. They can revoke his passport and other ID documents. Enforcing is much easier, since PL is in the EU. It's enough, if his wife knows his address and his place of work there.
most men that go and work away for long periods take their wives with them - if they love them -
It has nothing to do with if they love their wives and kids or not.
Unfortunately, most of them don't bring their families over, because they do not make enough money there to support them. I am not talking about IT ppl or the guys like Mobile is dating now. Kids need to go to school, to be taken care of all the time and that's quite expensive. Some folks are there temporary to repair home budget.
I think he is not bringing them to UK because he plans to go back to Poland. He is not divorced because there is nothing wrong with his marriage. His wife may know that perhaps he has somebody for now but know him well enough to be sure that he will be back. He is concerned about his daughter because he loves her and most likely his wife too. Of course it is possible that he is sooooooo smitten by the English "lady'" since he didn't have a woman for a while...She cannot judge the situation for she doesn't know polish reality. Many families have to live like his... long years of separation, affairs etc...
Yes, this is what I was talking about referring to these one thousand stories I heard about such relationships :) Polish reality is much, much different, but these women still live in a fantasy world.
