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I'm daying a Polish Guy and I wanna know... [55]
Wow, I'm almost sorry I said anything! We live in Chicago and if you told any of the Polish people here not to teach their kids Polish they'd call you pojebany.
My boyfriend speaks both English and Polish fluently. His parents, who were born in Poland, read to him in English and talked to him in Polish. His English and Polish are perfectly fine. He is also a very good writer and often corrects MY English.
In my opinion, I think it's good that your children do not lose their heritage like I did. I am Black, Chinese, Irish and Native American. I'm all mixed up ;) Yet, I only speak English. I would be ashamed of myself if I kept my children from learning Polish. If you practice both languages with your child equally, I believe that both languages will develop fully. I do not have scientific evidence, but this is what I believe. It does not matter if knowing more than one language can help you get ahead in work. What matters is knowing and respecting where you come from.
Also, I do not mind that his mother speaks Polish to me. I understand it and encourage it. She feels more comfortable speaking Polish, so who am I to judge? I'll speak it with her. I hate when people here in America say "Speak English." I'd like them to go to Poland and have someone tell them "SPEAK POLISH"!