Posts by gouzmalargh

gouzmalargh

21 Jan 2008

Love / What do Polish Girls think about the piano and Chopin's music? [24]

Thats good. I'm no Polish boy, but still understand Poland's hidden language within Chopin's music. Quite odd, the new generations (just generalizing) (since the 50's) don't even appreciate him.

I've done a number of research and performances of his, and I've found that many of these modern "composers" are just cheap knock-offs of Chopin's music. Listen to the Marche Funerbe (not the Piano Sonata...the indep. piece), and you'll recorganize many of the melodies used in today's music.

sheetmusicarchive.net/compositions_b/funm72_2.pdf

Teach your Polish girl about Fred's music. She'll surely appreciate it.

My faves are Bach and Mozart. Chopin is amazing. It is surprising that he only wrote for piano.

He wrote more than for Piano. As a youth he wrote Piano Concerto's, which actually involve an orchestra.

He also wrote many "Songs".

gouzmalargh

21 Jan 2008

Love / Polish girlfriends family, they want me to become Catholic. [20]

Indeed in all fairness and equality, it is only factual to say that certain parents use religion/culture as a catalyst to perhaps control their own children.

I'm not a parent yet, but for those of you who are parents: do you honestly want your child to marry into whichever family THEY want or do you want them to bring certain "advantages", when they marry.

For instance, her mother wants her to marry a Doctor. But one with slavik roots and within the religion; OR ignore all that but make sure he's a rich man (but not cheap to "me")! That kind of talking sure doesn't make me think highly of such people.

But back to the question: it is important to please God before all others; HOWEVER, pleasing God as a couple should be a top supremacy as well. Perhaps the reason why my family sees no conflict with our different religions is due in large that Islam, particularly, has allowed marriages within the people of the book; and perhaps this is not common pratice on the other two books of the religions...Although one cannot be too sure of this...so reasearch (also known as plagirasm from more than one author ;} is always good while you're young and fresh.

gouzmalargh

19 Jan 2008

Love / Polish girlfriends family, they want me to become Catholic. [20]

If her family chooses not to ever accept me, then they will eventually lose her if she does end up sticking to me.

Don't Polish families realize that their tight rigit "our way or the highway" attitute just makes them lose their loved ones?

If I don't become Catholic then they will simply "disown" her and not be very welcoming of our future children.

See the problem here is that if the Polish family acts in such a way, generally future generations of inter-racial marriages will not be connected with their Polish roots; and therefore the Polish culture will be forgotten, least diminished, after a period of several generations.

If only to make them understand this................

gouzmalargh

18 Jan 2008

Love / Polish girlfriends family, they want me to become Catholic. [20]

My girlfriend has no problem with my faith, and I have no problem with her faith.

It all comes down to weather or not I should allow her choose me over her family. Most guys wouldn't even ask this, but I just would like some feedback...

In case you don't know where I'm going with this:
Poland = racist skinhead country of the new era...

Now you know what I'm talking about?
It's not just her family, but the bigger Polish picture here.
Just check

gouzmalargh

18 Jan 2008

Love / Polish girlfriends family, they want me to become Catholic. [20]

Im muslim, persian, educated(able)..heh, and my girlfriend's mother is rather unwilling to sacrifice her blinkers on her eye lids and welcome a non-polish non-catholic gentleman into her family life. Yet its not limited to only her mother, her larger polish "family" is indeed unaccepting as well.

Girlfriend says "the hell with them", but come on...
1) it's evil of me to encourage her to dismiss her families wishes and roots.
2) Its quite difficult to have a relationship, and children with someone who's family won't accept you.
3) You can never leave your childhood customs and traditions behind.

And also, for those of you who might guess it, I am muslim. And to those who are Muslim or not...and belief that a Muslim man has the right to convert his wife to Islam: well sorry to burst your bubbles, but a true Muslim knows that it is unacceptable and unfaithful to force your wife to belief to convert by force. If she wants to, then that's good.

If not, then as a Muslim man, you are not allowed to force her into conversion. In fact, you must allow her to pray, go to church (or whichever), have her christmas tree, have her study groups....and so on.

The only thing you can abolish in your home, even if she is not Muslim, is alcohol! (and possibly porc...) but you better do your own research.

So back to the question: Well there is no question. Just dicuss this with me. Why are Polish mother-in-laws extremely cruel and what can be done about "Madame Butterfly"?