DarrenM
21 Dec 2007
Love / 5 months with my polish girlfriend now she's pregnant ! [21]
JayBee
My girlfriend is pregnant (6 months) and has faced exactly the same worries/concerns. I am English so i guess she has a slight advantage in that i have been with her to every visit to the Hospital and Midwife. However, i work away a lot as i am an IT contractor and naturally her concern is i will be away when she goes into Labour.
Right now friend, her head will be all over the place. Hormones, mood swings, discomfort, restless. She wont know whether she is coming or going and besides the usual "Is my baby OK" and "How will i know how to look after him" worries you have the added worry of the language.
Sadly my Girls mother passed away this time last year and so as far as help goes and family support im all she's got.
All compound to make the whole experience a nerve wracking, roller coaster ride.
What can i say except be there for her, talk to her, allay any fears she may have. Phone the doctor, midwife, look up on the internet together, get the answers she needs and talk it through. I know it is easy to say but she has nothing to worry about.
If i can make one suggestion, we went over to Poland for a 4D scan. Man, it was amazing, i saw my sons profile before he is even born!!!!
Its costs £200 here in the UK. It cost us 200 zl in Warsaw.
Anyway, Take Good Care of her and I wish you all the Luck in the world.
Darren, Monika i Tomasz (Soon!!)
JayBee
My girlfriend is pregnant (6 months) and has faced exactly the same worries/concerns. I am English so i guess she has a slight advantage in that i have been with her to every visit to the Hospital and Midwife. However, i work away a lot as i am an IT contractor and naturally her concern is i will be away when she goes into Labour.
Right now friend, her head will be all over the place. Hormones, mood swings, discomfort, restless. She wont know whether she is coming or going and besides the usual "Is my baby OK" and "How will i know how to look after him" worries you have the added worry of the language.
Sadly my Girls mother passed away this time last year and so as far as help goes and family support im all she's got.
All compound to make the whole experience a nerve wracking, roller coaster ride.
What can i say except be there for her, talk to her, allay any fears she may have. Phone the doctor, midwife, look up on the internet together, get the answers she needs and talk it through. I know it is easy to say but she has nothing to worry about.
If i can make one suggestion, we went over to Poland for a 4D scan. Man, it was amazing, i saw my sons profile before he is even born!!!!
Its costs £200 here in the UK. It cost us 200 zl in Warsaw.
Anyway, Take Good Care of her and I wish you all the Luck in the world.
Darren, Monika i Tomasz (Soon!!)