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Joined: 8 Dec 2007 / Male ♂
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From: Warrington, UK.
Speaks Polish?: Tiny Bit.. Learning.
Interests: Gym, Video games, Music, Meeting new people

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Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

Hey guys,

I currently have abit of a relationship with a Polish girl, Emilia is her name. She's a really nice girl, but sometimes she just blanks me totally. Others she jumps to say the first word and greet me.

We're both still 15, so very young. But when I'm with her, it feels amazing to see her smile. I know I don't love her, but I do like her.

She's been living here in the UK for about 2 years, and in the past few years I've got to know her alot and started speaking to her daily. Going sit with her at lunch times and making a effort to see her.

But the problem lies is to how I behave around her. Even though I'm only 15, I'm well manner to UK standards.

Is something as simple as putting away her chair for her or getting something she forgotten going to far? Does she find me trying to learn polski offensive? Is opening doors for her etc degrading for her?

It's a strange relationship, I don't know if she has plans to stay in the UK all her life, but I know she's going to college (which is another 3 years here). It'd be great if I could take our relationship to abit of a more serious level, but atm there's alot of pot holes in the road.

She rarely wears make up.. and when she does it's in small amounts, though she still has a beautiful face, clear skin, and an amazing smile.

Yesterday was the first time she had directly walked by and not even looked at me, but she did stick around and I sat with her abit while she talked to her polski friends in polska, which of much I can't understand apart from the odd word. She didn't say much though, she does tell me the important stuff of what their chatting about in an english translation.

The only thing I can think of her being like that was because I gave a friend of hers my mobile number, not in a flirty kind of way, but as a friend. I don't know if she knew about this but yeah, thats the only thing I can think of.

Sorry for blabbing on.. But I feel like I've offended her or something. Anyone got any ideas?
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

Thanks for that... Usaully I get, "Curttiss Ladd... Why ya like a polish person?!?.."

Too many chavs. Being in highschool kinda makes it harder aswell, But I don't want to leave highschool and then never talk to her again. She lives nearby, but I think theres some stuff with her family. As her brother had knew I rang her and stuff even though she didnt answer.

Gets me abit depressed, but usaully comes out better than expected.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

Hehe, You guys seem cool.

I don't really want to look to far into the future, as we aren't even that serious yet. I don't know how it'll end up.

Even though it's abit far, I'd live in poland if I had to to be with her. From what she's told me it's very nice. She used to live just 50 metres from the sea, in a small town that I can't remember the name of. Now she lives in a small terrist house next to a railway. I feel really sorry for her and stuff, but I'm not willing to have a relationship based on money. I'm more well off than most people, fancy cars and expensive furniture, but she matters more to me than just something material.

I think what you said rafik was easily understandable. A different way of saying what I think you mean would be "Straight to the point".
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

Good advice, I'm going to try that.

Only thing I know at the moment is Cześć laska, which she taught me herself. :)

Thing is, not many of her polish friends are very good at english so, funny times. Her little brother is always like.. "You fancy my sister!!" it's funny, but does get annoying when there flying around when I'm with her.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I'm not trying to make plans in the future, But it's going to come around the corner at some stage.

I respect her and if she tells me she doesn't like something I with her then I stop it.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish girls 'too pretty' for British schools [150]

So I'm not the only person who thinks polish girls are hot.. :)

I'm not really in for the whole "I like polish girls/I like slovakian girls/I like russian girls" because thats just narrow minded. I wouldn't go out specifically looking for a type of girls. I like what I like..

And yeah, polish girls compares to english girls at the same age.. they are alot better. Most english girls are fat slags who wear bottles and bottles of fake tan.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

WHAT? Sorry Sana, but if I was your boyfriend, I'd be very embarrassed about not paying for a first date. If he had asked you out to dinner after that, then it wouldn't be questionable for him not to pay.

I even carry the bags for my mum when she has shopping to be taken from the car into the house etc. I'd probly go through the door first though, and hold it open for the lady I'm with.

and I think you mispelt "culture" as coultre :) I know it's rude to correct people's english, but if no one ever says anything, you never learn.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

Many people in england look down on having to learn polish because polish people are coming to the UK. They think that polish people shouldn't be allowed into the UK without being able to speak english.

Personally make an effort for my bird.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I was never very good at english, I wouldn't have said anything is it was minor words just muddled up slightly.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

... any other language.

Yeah, but polish being the major of the immagrants, polish is usaully the language in the spot light when it comes to brits refusing to learn other languages.

There's nothing better than knowing two languages in my opinion, it's better than knowing a load of statistics.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I've never heard of so many people dating foreign partners ever...

When I first liked Emilia I thought I was one in a billion, her being polish never made me feel embarrassed. But it was always there because socially people my age can't seem to understand that it really doesn't matter.

I don't know how my parents/family would react, but I'm sure they would support me. I'd be proud to be with her.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

Yeah, I started learning french and german in year 7 at school, dropping french at the end of year 9. I've had nearly 5 years of german lessons and I hardly understand it..

There's a primary my mum works in that does french lessons, but even there, they only start at year 6.

Personally I feel more benefit from what tiny amount of polish I've learn recently to the whole 5 years of learning german. I've only once ever talked to a german person, on the train that goes around disney land in paris, other than that, I'm 1000% more likely to meet a polish person.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

German seems more logical, it's in the same order as english (except past tense). But I'm more likely to go to france and buy beer than I am to go to germany.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Language / Why do people want to study Polish? [90]

They renumbered the years at the end of my schooldays,

Year 7 is the start of highschool, Year 11 is GCSE year (final year of high school).
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I asked her awhile ago.. like a month ago. She was like "What..." and turned to friend of ours and she asked her if she had being ignoring me... So yeah, the friend says no because it's the only way she could get out of it alive.

Don't think it was an honist answer from her, but there's nothing I could do.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I'm always talking to "the friend" on MSN as she's english. She thinks I'm insane to like her so much.

All they say is "tell her you like her.." and so on, but when I'm with her it's like I can't just come out and say "I like you.." it just seems like I'm being to direct. She's knows I like her though.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I feel like I could ask her if she knows...

If I was going to say it in polski, then I'd probly be more concerned with sounding like a pillock because I can't pronounce it than feeling awkward.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I don't want to impress her by the fact that I can speak afew polish words, I just want her to know that I care for her.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

For example you could ask her ''Do you like Doda?''
She may answer:No.I think she is a *****.
Or yes.I like her.
And then start a conversation about Doda,her look,her music,etc.

I know how to talk to her mate :).

I don't know why I should show that I don't care for her when I do though, playing games isn't my kind of thing.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

You guys are hilarious...

It's a good idea though, Your right in saying that making a girl want you is better than being all kissy kissy, and doing everything at the first hurdle.

Just don't want to offend her.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I'm fine with being myself. The friend I talk to she doesn't talk to that much. She speaks more with the polish girls than the english ones, but she is one of the few close english friends she has.

I don't really want to tell her I love her Dean, Thats just as bad as asking someone to marry you on a first date...
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

You know, the average teenage mind is so horny and all..

Don't think I'm ready for sex with any girl yet. But no glove, no love.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

You learn who your true friends are quickly. Most of my true friends don't say anything about her. There's my mates that make a joke now and then, have a laugh with them and theres no offense meant by what they say. But then there's people who try and make fun out of it, their the retards, and more likely than not there chavs.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

Well, I'm trying to make an effort, even if she doesn't know about it. I doubt girls want lazy sleep all day never exercise type of guys anyways, so.

I'm not a spiceboy, But I try to make an effort.

I don't really want sex with her yet, yeah she's really hot. But I want another 3-4 years atleast. Want to be able to trust her and know she's the one before we get to penetration.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

as for the rest, you both have long way to go, and time to enjoy each other,, school
is so important and I believe you will go far :)) I dont have a son, but I can say
if I did, I would really love one just like you.. your one smart young man.. I am sure
your mother is extremely proud. :)

Thank you. I'm not sure that she knows about me giving my number to her friend, but she younger than me, by 2-3 years. I don't go around flirting with every girl in a fight to get some action.

Wrong choice of words, I should have said that I want to wait afew more years till the intimacy gets strong. I don't have any plans on wanting to get in bed with her, but I know I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

I'm not in for breaking hearts, but a story always has two sides.

I play games (Video games, with my friends from school online), but not when it comes to someones feelings/beliefs/emotions.
Curtis   
8 Dec 2007
Love / Things not to do with a Polish girl? [97]

well if her friend is really her friend,, chances are she knows.. if her friend isnt her
real friend, then chances are she dont.

Then she knows... It was probably the only thing they talked about all night.