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petervs   
24 Jul 2007
Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

Polish girls are brutal, after a 4 year relationship me and my polish girl decided to go to South Africa. I left after a 4 week stay with her in Poland and she would follow after 3 months. I left all was good between us, even got a engagement ring. After a month she just decided SA was not for her, so I was willing to go back and settle in Poland, but nooooo. Sold her mobile number without telling me, blocked me from her e-mail.

I lived in Netherlands the past 4 years of our relationship and a lot of people warned me about polish women. By this then, Guys of the world, be warned!! Even after a long relationship, polish girls don't give a **** about you, only how they can use and manipulate you.

Peter van Schaik
petervs   
24 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

We were together 4 years, she lived in Poznan and me in holland. We visited eachother regularly and spent hollidays together. Holland in the begining of this year still made things difficult for polish people to work there, so we decided to go to my home country South Africa. I had spent a lot of time with her family and friends and figured that we can go live in SA for 6 months so she can be with my family and friends. She can see how it is and if she did not like it, we'll go back to europe.

So I left after spending 4 weeks with her and everything was great between us. I decided to get a engagement ring and was going to give it to her when she comes to SA a couple of months after me.

So I left Poland to South Africa and all went good for about a month, then she just decided it was not for her. I told her I would come back to Poland, still no.

I want to go to Poland and confront her, but it is a lot of money to probably just get rejected.
Polish women can be so stubborn, any ideas what I can do to win her back?
I definitly am willing to relocate and live in Poznan, but first need to know she'll give me a chance.

Girls of Poland, please help

Polish girls, please help me with suggestions on how to win my girl back...
We were together 4 years, she lived in Poznan and me in holland. We visited eachother regularly and spent hollidays together. Holland in the begining of this year still made things difficult for polish people to work there, so we decided to go to my home country South Africa. I had spent a lot of time with her family and friends in Poland and figured that we can go live in SA for 6 months so she can be with my family and friends. She can see how it is and if she did not like it, we'll go back to europe.

So I left in May after spending 4 weeks with her and everything was great between us. I decided to get a engagement ring and was going to give it to her when she comes to SA a couple of months after me.

So I left Poland to South Africa and all went good for about a month, then she just decided it was not for her. I told her I would come back to Poland, still no. She did not want me to.

I want to go to Poland and confront her, but it is a lot of money to probably just get rejected.
Polish women can be so stubborn, any ideas what I can do to win her back?
I definitly am willing to relocate and live in Poznan, but first need to know she'll give me a chance.\
What to do?......
petervs   
25 Jul 2007
Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

Then why did so many people in Holland warn me about "polis girls"? I could have returned to SA a lot earlier, but stayed for her.

Unfortunately they seem to have build up quite a reputation in Holland, don't know in England
petervs   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

Thanks, I am allready looking for work in Poznan, and want to go. Life here in SA is not what I had hoped. I miss her like hell. I left Poland thinking she would come, she said she would and that she loved me, now this... Have to get her back, or at least see her one last time, so I can get closure.

But indeed, going to Poland just for closure is expensive, I should hope for the best, and see.
petervs   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

I hope so too...
I would not have gotten a ring if I was not serious. We spoke about it and she was fine with the idea of getting engaged, she just wanted it before I go to SA, but come on, that is a man's honour to know where he wants to get engaged, and I have my place by the sea in SA.
petervs   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

I told her that I got the ring when she started becoming difficult to come to SA. In other words when I was allready here.

I stayed with her in Poznan 4 weeks before I left for SA, I bought the ring in that time, without her knowing I did. Wanted to surprise her when she came.
petervs   
25 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

To clarify, we spoke about getting engaged earlier this year. I then went and bought the ring secretly, without her knowing, just before I left Europe. I was planning on asking her when she arrived here in South Africa, which would have been middle next month. Recently she started getting difficult and not wanting to come here anymore, so then I told her that I got the ring and that I am willing to go back to Poland and be with her.

Sorry, see your reply was directed at Goldie

Pic of us in happier times on my profile
petervs   
26 Jul 2007
Love / How do I get my Polish girlfriend back?? [26]

Cool one Goonie, But I would not have bought a ring if I was not sure of this "fish" , this one I can see myself growing old, ugly and fat with.

Got a ticket.
Wish me luck