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Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Is it me or are most polish girls Demanding and insecure????? I just ended a 10 month relationship because she was driving me crazy. I sacrificed so much for her but she wanted more. We had a house together, i found her a job, brought her expensive things and most of all ,gave her my heart. I realize she was materialistic and saw the change in her when i took us to Katowice to see her family.

Its like this... Polish girls are all treated like princesses by there mothers and expect to be treated that way forever. Polish girls with low education and no ambition are lazy, they expect you or someone else to do things for them. If she is beautiful, she knows it and will discreetly seek the approval from others.. Theres no limits on Attention Seeking. And the worst is, how my girl came from a poor background and couldn't appreciate the little things in life??

I know most of them are trying to make a break in their life and will latch on to you if you show them a little attention... but beware gentlemen, because some of them out there go the wrong way about doing so and it can break your spirit!!!

No offense to Polish girls ,just warning the males out there not to be fooled into good looks.
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Hi osiol,

Yeah i did! The hurtful thing is she walked away without a care in the world and left me as if i never exsisted

I respect your point there, I'm not singling out polish girls, Has this happen to you before? Is there something you know about her that i didnt?
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen!

Bro, are you saying some girls like to be treated bad for your respect??? confusing dude.. funny thou
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Give them what they want, but always leave them wanting more.
It's no good being spoilt. Some will take it for granted.

I understand.But I left her!! because maybe i wasn't giving enough and thats the harsh reality of this, i just cant comprehend why??

The hardest thing ever. letting her go!!!
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

if she's how you say than you can probably do better. just stay positive.

Cheers Jnowiski.. Im cool about it,I just hope she's ok where ever she is. I have to be honest, the worst thing was other people telling me to get rid of her..and i never wanted to but i knew in my heart she wasnt for me or i for her.

Bless her heart!
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

It seems that you were handy to have around in a time of need.

I was there for her mentally and physically, near or far. But you're right theres always two sides to a story. Im happy now because my past is not my future :-)
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

What lessons will you take from this experience.

I am aware of the vast differences among cultures and separate realities now. Maybe i didnt see how her differences compared to mine were any different ,when now i think they were. I believe its a fact that it literally cant be any other way.

I probably expected to see things my way and never saw things through her eyes. I dont blame her for my mistakes and im not branding polish girls.. To be honest i think there wonderful not to forget irresistible :-)
Kiwi_boy   
13 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Theres no such thing as occupying the heart. Thats meaningless. So how do you get a girl to stay,what is it.....Locked??
Kiwi_boy   
14 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

It is pointless to buy presents for polish girls

Thanks "southern" You made a lot of sense, I really understand what you're saying. I think i did exactly that, i took away her independence. But she always wanted me to help her and do things for her always!!

But i never intended to lock her down just make her happy :-)

The worst thing for you will be feeling she has used you.You will get over her put it down to one of life's experiences and remember the good times.

Thanks for sharing your experience with me Jambo. In some respect i do feel i was used but i have a soft nature and i couldlnt say no to her. This has toughen me up a bit and i've learn t not put my eggs into one basket.

The positives are i am happy to have taught her how to do things on her own. And i know she'll remember me for alot of things and i remember her. Let the good times roll!!
Kiwi_boy   
23 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

I agree Firestorm with some of the the things you said about Polish girls ..but i have to fully agree with Jambo When is enough ,enough?? My girl was materialistic...heres an example,

A week ago she emailed me asking for the Sony digital camera she left behind..and who brought it for her?? There was no "Hi how are you" Just about the F**kin camera. To some extent i now realize why it didnt work out because, and again its exactly what Jambo said, I was used to kickstart her way of living in the UK until she felt confident in moving on with herself. There are positives in what i did for her. but nothings more real than giving a girl your heart and telling her you LOVE HER everyday and then getting burnt by her!!!!!!

Over these last few weeks.. ive been thinking about it more and now i see how all the pieces really add up. Its unfortunate that some other guy will go through what i went through because thats the harsh reality of POLISH GIRLS in my experience :)
Kiwi_boy   
31 Aug 2007
Love / What do men want with Polish Girls huh??? [72]

Its too damn common males are posting requests for polish girls!! Its like they're at the top of the food chain but come at the cheapest price on the market??

As that how we look at them fullas?? Easy meat with the intellect of babies,? easy to persuade? easy to dominate? easy to fall in love? ...Well you're all wrong, so give them a F__kin break!

Its so stereotypical that Polish girls are easy..... The fact is, they are not!!! So lets not bother with all the heartbreaks and the disappointment's coz we look the weaker and they are the stronger.. and that defines who they are! (strong and proud women of Polska)
Kiwi_boy   
23 Sep 2007
Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]

polish are inbreeds!!!! of course they will sleep together!!

they have no restriction's in there upbringing and sex at a young age is mutual!!!!
Kiwi_boy   
9 Feb 2008
Polonia / Going to New Zealand ? [6]

Hi Angela16 :)

New Zealand is a beautiful country and the 2nd most peaceful country in the world!!! If NZ was on the Europe continent you will have the whole of UK, Europe etc wanting to live there, similar to how everyone wants to live in Spain... a place in the sun i guess.

I totally recommend it but you will have to look into the immigration side of things, i hear it could be complicated??

Good Luck :)