melodia
29 Oct 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]
Please guys, do not mix or confuse being a fanatical/bigot misleaded brainwashed muslim and being muslim. And we are not "drinking and having sex before marriage" kinda muslims (i'm Turkish but i preferred to be agnostic but that doesn't mean im oppos. to islam or any other religion, google what agnostic means pls) the educated generation of Turkey is still not a good majority but we are working on it as there is still people "thinking" with their blinkers(what they use on horses to not see anywhere but road they have to go) but you have to learn something before you comment on it.
Yeah. There are some families who pushes their son/daughters to marry someone wit same "culture" as they "have" if u geth what i mean. For instance, my parents approve a husband for me no matter which country he is coming from as long as he cares about me and makes me happy etc etc.
yeah! and as for a woman marrying with a polish or other guy, they say he have it to be cutten off, hey are we living in stone ages? come on! these things are so over!
Pakistani.. and Turkish... It would be more meaningful if you compared hot and sunny weather man! at least there are some same things between these 2 rather than the comparison you made;) I would have to spend nights to explain you the differences of lives and point of views we have if you compare Turks and Pakis..
These things depends on countries, religions and and how people understand religions and how educated they are (not just school i saw many stupid with university graduation diplom.)
Cheers
Please guys, do not mix or confuse being a fanatical/bigot misleaded brainwashed muslim and being muslim. And we are not "drinking and having sex before marriage" kinda muslims (i'm Turkish but i preferred to be agnostic but that doesn't mean im oppos. to islam or any other religion, google what agnostic means pls) the educated generation of Turkey is still not a good majority but we are working on it as there is still people "thinking" with their blinkers(what they use on horses to not see anywhere but road they have to go) but you have to learn something before you comment on it.
Morella
We didnt have such problems as the guy mentioned.But many turkish families r like his family.
We didnt have such problems as the guy mentioned.But many turkish families r like his family.
Yeah. There are some families who pushes their son/daughters to marry someone wit same "culture" as they "have" if u geth what i mean. For instance, my parents approve a husband for me no matter which country he is coming from as long as he cares about me and makes me happy etc etc.
yeah! and as for a woman marrying with a polish or other guy, they say he have it to be cutten off, hey are we living in stone ages? come on! these things are so over!
ShelleyS Edited by: ShelleyS Dec 29, 08, 07:45 #15
morella:
The mentality is difficult for a foreigner to understand
I live in the UK - we have had Pakistani immigrants here for a very long time - I understand the mentality very well, even for a "foreigner" :-D
morella:
The mentality is difficult for a foreigner to understand
I live in the UK - we have had Pakistani immigrants here for a very long time - I understand the mentality very well, even for a "foreigner" :-D
Pakistani.. and Turkish... It would be more meaningful if you compared hot and sunny weather man! at least there are some same things between these 2 rather than the comparison you made;) I would have to spend nights to explain you the differences of lives and point of views we have if you compare Turks and Pakis..
These things depends on countries, religions and and how people understand religions and how educated they are (not just school i saw many stupid with university graduation diplom.)
Cheers