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jane73   
15 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

i`am shocked that polish women might be agressive. iam polish myself and never hit anyone and iam 35. it`s not a common that polish woman is abusive, must say very rare. i believe we should treat the people as we wish to be theated by others. i alwas respect ppl and expecting be respected. if someone being abusive to us, we should get rid of that person coz noone deserve to be treated that way. as well iam fed up hearing that polish women are gold diggers. thats not a true. i never look for any profit or benefit get from any man. been married and let go my ex husband with all our savings, coz was not the point to fight about it, there were just money, i was the winner coz got rid of toxic relationship. but as i said previously, we should get rid of ppl as soon we realize they are abusing us somehow.
jane73   
16 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

u r welcome , just saying what thinking. anyway, at those days everything turns upside down. People are looking for any benefits to get from other people, being violent to each other. i been brought up with respecting other people, no matter who they are or where they are from. my ex husband was foreigner with different background, culture and religion. i believe with everything we can cope when its love and respect. when its gone, nothing going to work. when someone is violent to Us, means doesnt respect Us or need a prof.help. if u can`t help or don`t want, just get rid of it...

i do remember one holiday,when lived in Poland went seaside with a few couples .one evening was a witness of not nice situation, when man was abusive and violent with his gf, i couldnt stand without doing anything so bravely stand by her and had a words with her mad partner.he was so agressive and asked me if i could talk to him on the side, not in front of her.(not sure y i done that and wasn`t scared of him or the situation and problkem was more important to me), we spoke about 2hrs, he calmed down in seconds and listened his story about their relationship.he blamed her that she is pushing him to behave like that (wasn`t agree with it), he said he is going to proof, so he did. all of us spent togehter most of days coz was holiday, he didn`t pick up her fight and tried be very quiet as he promised me to be. she tried to provoke him to have a fight, but he didn`t .After coupke of days she got furious ending up with tears. we all asked her what`s wrong, she said her bf doesn`t love her anymore coz he stopped be violent with her. i was so shocked, that ppl might think that way. its a true, we all are different and looking for something different, but never we should be abusive for others, especially for ppl we love.
jane73   
17 Aug 2009
Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

if U mean real Yoga i am agree with that. it opens other senses and calming down ... here in London very popular. if i noticed right U live in my hometown , Lodz, so would be glad if U will convince more ppl there to practice Yoga.....