Love / How Many Dates Before Sex in Poland? [86]

Well, i met my girl on a thursday night, thought she was lovely....Tried for a kiss and she told me to Fu!k off!!! I got her number off her friend, called her next day and asked her out and she was really happy about it, went out on the saturday, fell into bed that night drunk, woke up at 3am and had a pretty crap bit of sex and woke up the next morning with no regrets....

We are together 2 years now, and technically we slept together(well, it was so crap maybe it wasnt sex lol!!) on the first night, but i would never say she was a slut, and any guys who know her have told me very straight that she is very decent .....

I know lots of guys whos girlfriends were first night fuks, and they are happily married or engaged now.....
Its the same ******** question like 'how many sexual partners is too much for your future partner to have had in past'
I knew a guy who left his girl because she told him she had been with 12 guys sexually, she is 29 years old, most of those guys would have been small relationships that went nowhere or were not good decisions...

Lovely girl, really lovely, and he left her for nothing really... what a fool

The point is simple, you cant judge soneone one such things as first night or past, and DONT EVER listen to others advice about someone u have met, its your choice and you life.... I hope these stupid questions can stop now, once and for all....GROW UP GUYS

Language / words overused in Polish language [40]

without a doubt it has to be ''kurwa''
Such a dreszarsz word, and yet its all you hear out of polish guys mouths in Dublin, kurwa this, kurwa that.........
But then again, all the dublin ''chavs'' in their lacost sports clothes love to say ''fuck sake'' non stop so..... !!!

Language / FUTURE OF VOCATIVE IN POLISH? [14]

hang the native speaker teachers !!!! 60 zloty for a one hour class is what they get paid to teach in warsaw, i know, i had the job for a while..... if only someone wud pay me to talk shite in ireland, im great at it!!!

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

corny in what way? im only askin because critiscism is the best advice!!
cheers

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

i do listen, i mean shes been here 5 years now, she has a sister living her who just had a child with a foreigner and will more than likely stay, she has parents in poland and another sibbling in the usa married and settled...

Honestly, it is my biggest worry..... I notice that lots of polish couples live apart in different countries and im not into that sort of thing myself.....

And the whole idea of her becoming friends with a polish guy, and then more happening... well i could end up making friends with a irish girl and something else happening but really its not something i worry about...

I could be lucky, maybe she is genuine, maybe she will stay here, sure why hasnt she gone home after 4-5 years here? She was single for a year up til we met, has really no reason to stay here only me and here sister........

Ah ya bastard, you've made me paranoid now!!!LOL!!!!!

Sure if she decides to go home then theres divorce to take care of that.

Love / Is my marriage proposal with a Polish girl idea good? Girls, what u think! [49]

they worry me too, they seem desperate, maybe its the old biological clock ticking as she is mad about babies !!!
Its definitely not money, as im as poor as pies at the mo, just back in work a while after being a victim of the recession, and she stood by me and supported me through all the crap the last few months...

Sure, i had a polish gf for 4 years before..met her in poland when i worked there, came to ireland together for a year, went to poland for 2 and half together, i came home to finish the masters, after a while she started missing mommy and daddy and as u said, the usual happened, she went home and stayed, tried the long distance thing but crashed and burned....

Well TJ, if your predictions are right then i owe u a drink for the warning!!!
I just hope you are wrong..!!!!