UK, Ireland / How can I receive child support from a Polish man living in UK? [33]

Thank you for the quick respond.
I know that my case is unusual and difficult to seek the examples.
However, your respond was helpful:)
I was also doubting that if Polish court would chase my daughter's father to UK for child support. One good thing is I am independent and earn good enough to feed both of me and my child. There are so many women and kids who suffer from financial problem.

Once, I was thinking I don't need any money from this guy, but then I changed my mind that no matter how much I earn, he has responsibilities for his child, and money is one of them, surely.

I will keep searching what I can do for the best.
Thank you again.

UK, Ireland / How can I receive child support from a Polish man living in UK? [33]

Hello.
Thank you all for the replies.
I am so sorry that I didn't write anything for such a long time.
I've read through all the comments and picked up some useful information.
There were some opinions which I couldn't appriciate however I thank you for sharing your time and giving me the suggestions.

I wouldn't write all the details about my situation but I know the guy is the father of my child( I wouldn't mind of taking a test for it, cos I am 120% sure and moreover, the child looks exactly like her father) and I have mentioned about the child support few times face to face, even asked to sign up for document saying that he will pay certain amount monthly. He did not agree to sign. Also about my income issue, I have no financial problems but I still believe he has to pay as long as he is the father, it doesn't matter how much I earn. I am here legally as I answer someone's reply.

To 1jola, seems like you live in the world I don't live in, but it's ok. I see your opinion and I guess you may be a good friend with the father of my child, maybe you can advise him to pay:)

Thank you again

UK, Ireland / How can I receive child support from a Polish man living in UK? [33]

ZIMMY
Yeah, I understand your point of you, but saying my blah my blah is the most unpleasnt trait of us(women) -as you wrote-, it's strange for me saying our when I actually doing everthing according to this child alone. I mean EVERYTHING. I can tell some of people might say then I should not ask for any money,cavilers. The thing I don't get is that, as long as I understood from all the conversations with him, he knows it's his(he is saying "my daughter" all the time) so I don't believe that he doubts if she is his. Moreover he wants to take all the parts as a father EXCEPT paying. He would love to keep her pictures in his wallet (probably to show people how poor he is by blaming me that I wouldn't let him have her as he wants to. The pictures in his wallet work for some airheads, you know?)

It's hard to believe people like that exist, at least for me...until I met him. However if you don't have those " Positive energy thieves" around you, you are lucky.

It was my mistake totally that I chose the guy, but I am pleased receiving such a beautiful gift (my,yes my daughter) instead, ironically.

Don't take it as all the comments you don't agree are posted by male-bashing feminists.
There are men or women who have no choice but being bashed due to thier perspectives. I still believe in relationships. Boy, I am too young to give up on it!

Have a nice day:)

UK, Ireland / How can I receive child support from a Polish man living in UK? [33]

Hello,thank you for the new posts.
Yes, he is the father and it's proved officially.
He has already signed on documents both in Poland and my country.
So please stop asking if he is the father.

I am amazed how many people can say such a thing.
I know there are some girls who try to get money out of men by saying he is a father, but I know he is and moreover he admitted and that's the fact in my case.