Posts by mrnice

mrnice

5 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

hi,

I live in West Wales in the UK and a few weeks ago I met a really really really nice polish girl that works in the local lidl's supermarket. I have never actually involuntarily said wow when I saw a girl before but I did when I saw her (after maintaining 5 seconds or so of eye contact). This must have made a good impression because every time I go

there now she always has lots of big smiles for me (but saying that she seems the smiley type anyway), which makes me want her more. I keep going there to get stuff I dont really need just so I can see her but I haven't asked her out or anything yet. Apart from having little chance to do so as far as privacy is concerned, I think I should do my homework first because I know very little about polish girls/culture and I would never want to offend her or blow my chances before I even start, so that's why I joined this forum.

Just to clarify, I want her for being her. I'm not looking for a quick fling as its really not my style. I want a regular girlfriend and not some one night stand.

I know shes Catholic and she recently went back to Poland to get confirmed or something (I overheard he telling someone at the tills) so it shows she has good values.

I have been reading through the forums here and I'm still utterly confused as to how polish people are. It seems that like here in the UK, everyone in Poland is different and there is no "standard people", and I dont want to see polish people as many UK people negatively stereotype them - which I wont go into as even though I dont know for sure, I'm pretty confident theyre completely wrong.

I'm rabbling off the subject here sorry. What I would like is some polish girls to tell me what they think most polish girls might generally like.

Are there any big no no's I should know about?

Are polish girls hot headed? Is there a chance she might rip my head off for asking her out (not literally of course)?

Is there anything all polish girls like to talk about?

Any replies would be greatly appreciated.

PS: if anyone thinks they might know her by any complete and utter far out chance, I'm your new best friend:)

mrnice

5 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

It seems Liddl made good business by hiring polish girls.

They certainly did, at least as far as I am concerned:)

mrnice

5 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

just be yourself, be nice and treat her right, don't try to show off or impress her with money, don't act like a doormat. Polish girls are not very different from UK girls and they appreciate attention and affection, as long as you're being honest and sincere, i don't see why you should fail. try make conversation next time, ask her if the day's been busy etc. and don't ask her out straight away, you will make her uncomfortable, especialy that she is at work and she has to be nice to her costumers. when she gets comfortable around you, ask her what time she finishes work and would she like to meet up somewhere. it's really that simple. no special skills needed.
from a Polish girl ;)

Thanks Justysia.

I do already talk to her, but nowhere further than smalltalk so far, but I know she does remember me and she asks recurring questions. I agree it would definatley be not nice to put her on the spot by asking her out in front of loads of other people. I'd deserve to be thrown back for that, so I wouldnt do it anyway. I'm certainly not the sort to be throwing money around. I live a frugal life. Happiness is my real money:) I have got a house and that but its not the sort of thing I'd tell her, at least not until I knew she loved me for who I was. Saying that I dont think shes a gold digger. It seems she works hard for her money and I can see that, and I respect it too.

Can you teach me some polish chat up lines?

mrnice

5 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

Of course we're not hot headed usually... only when it's that time of the month

Thanks beckski. I'm glad to hear polish girls are chilled out. I just hope that I ask her at the right time of the month:)

mrnice

6 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

You can also bring some hundreds of pounds with you and put her in the basket.

Thanks but I don't have to pay for women. Please accept my heart felt pity if you need to.

Slap her with a wet fish.

Seriously? That's why I asked for advice from Polish Girls:)

mrnice

6 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

No seriously you take a huge slimy tuna straight from a freezer, walk up behind her and *SLAP*, an old polish custom, very romantic.

Lol is that how you polish guys score? No wonder so many polish girls are over here:) I would try your charming customary tradition but:

1. They only have small frozen tuna steaks in Lidl's.
2. Whole tuna fish are bigger than men. I couldn't pick one up and swing it around.
3. I really really really like and respect the girl so I wouldn't want to bash her with a fish.

MORE ADVICE FROM POLISH GIRLS PLEASE:) you take me seriously:)

mrnice

6 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

Lol now I'm convinced that's why there's loads of polish girls here. I haven't really tried that approach myself but I'm pretty sure it would score me a well deserved slap.

mrnice

8 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

It's not that I'm afraid of asking her out or of her saying no. I think we could easily be friends anyway because we seem to respond well to one another. I'm still waiting for an opportunity to ask her when there's no one else around, at least that way I'm not putting her on the spot in front of other people, because I don't think that's fair and I really don't want to put her out in that way.

What could I write on a banknote in polish? something nice and complimentary towards her? At least if she looks mortified I can always say it was written on there already, before I die of embarrassment-itis. If I get a reply here before 8pm UK time I will go and pass it to her tonight...

mrnice

15 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

She has a boyfriend already:(

mrnice

15 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

I went to loads of trouble to find that out. I searched everywhere on internet to find any information on her and I was surprised that I managed to find it. I found a girl on a polish website who lives in the same place as her in Wales that said she knew her and that she wasn't single. She was quite rude after that. She made me feel like I offended her somehow and I didn't try to. Why do people have to be like that?

Thats life! Might I suggest... you should follow her home one day after work and see where she goes. Perhaps she meets up with her boyfriend on the way. After she sees him off, go talk to the lad, maybe he'll strike you up a deal. He can cheat with some other girl for a few pounds, and you can catch her on the rebound.
Sounds reasonable!

I don't think you've thought this through. I think I'd have more luck bashing him over the head with a big frozen tuna fish.

aawww... maybe she will dump him for you...
;)

Thanks but I'm not going to try anymore. One of the reasons I liked her so much was because she is so smiley and happy. It must be because shes happy with her life. I'm not the kind of person that would even think about spoiling that for her. Now perhaps I should find someone else. I feel unhappy now. I hope it doesn't last long.

mrnice

15 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

Because you're black or jewish or muslim or asian or because you behaved like a creepy stalker instead of just chatting her up.

As matter of fact I am neither black, jewish, muslim or asian (for what it matters?) and I wasn't chatting that girl up I'm not interested in her. I just asked her about the girl I liked. Perhaps you didn't understand properly?

mrnice

15 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

Well I'm not bitter about it or licking my wounds. It didn't surprise me at all that she had a boyfriend, and even if, I can still be friends with her. On the plus side I'll probably find it easier to talk to her now.

Moving on is the best way I agree, so Mr Nice is looking for another nice smiley happy girl that hasn't got a boyfriend. It's a lot to ask but she is out there somewhere...........(maybe she can message me if she's on here)

mrnice

17 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

Hey maybe you guys were unlucky. I'm sure its just a few that are like that. Its the same here in Wales. Some girls are nice. Others aren't. I think it all depends on what type of girl you go for. If I were to take a guess, were your polish ex girlfriends the high maintainance type?

mrnice

17 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

I am totally serious. I wouldn't go as far as calling it cyberstalking. I like her, I cared enough to find her and I asked if the girl was single. She's not, I moved on. Do you have some kind of problem with that?

mrnice

17 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

instead of simply go to her (she is just a girl, for God's sake!) you asked somebody else,
why?? why??????

Many roads lead up the mountain. They all go to the same place.

my balls keep getting offended at metrosexual behaviour like that all the time

dude why do you act like some kind of alpha male, as you post on threads titled "Advice from Polish Girls". Where I come from the men don't really talk of such things as this. You would be considered a total wusss for even replying to this, but I won't hold it against you dude. You were nice enough to write and give me you opinion, and your comical tuna fish dating traditions make me laugh, I respect that.

mrnice

18 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

She doesn't even know me, and vice versa, so I'm not burned at all, and the girl wasn't her friend as such, she just knew of her, so I still have the opportunity to ask her should I want to. Thanks for trying to paint me as some kind of freak though. You're great:)

quote=miranda:
Some of the Alpha male behavior is really repulsive and usually a turn off for women;)

it can be quite sexy actually but only if they don't take it too far. it's nice when a man takes control, too many wusses around these days...

I take back mocking the tuna fish and Sokrates tap on the shoulder approach. Looks like someone likes it.

mrnice

18 Apr 2009

Love / Advice from Polish Girls please :) [54]

i can't be the only one lol

I'm glad you have a sense of humor:) even though you do need a good spanking.