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27 Mar 2009
Love / Questions about Polish women [17]
I am an american man dating a polish women who happens to be in the USA illegally (Visa recently expired). The girl who is 10 years younger than me (in her mid 20's) she and I were friends first and started dating (She had a crush on me). She says she really likes me for me and is not looking for a greencard. I do know for a fact that she has outright turned down other men who were specficially looking to date her becuase she is dating me. So here are a few questions. I have:
1. She can complain alot / can be negative. - Common or no?
2. Talks about family, but says how bad things are, not loving, mean, but then calls mom and sends money home on a regular basis to help out?
3. Wants to leave the country, but committed to renting a room and helping a friend. She is very unhappy with situation, but doesnt want to leave for a EU nation. Says she promised a friend to stay. Loyalty a strong traight?
4. Sending money home to supposedly help for food and clothes -Sounds fishy -Common or no?
5. Common in the culture for money NOT to be the most important? She said she would sign a prenuptual and give up all rights if she married someone. Said she would only marry for love. Common or no?
6. Educated with a masters degree in EU law. I hear college is limited for the few in Poland. Is this true?
We dont want to see her leave and look for options. She seems to have a lot of very good charecteristic that would make a good wife. Have not dated her long enough, but am considering it as an option in a few months.
I have no interest in ending up as a divorcee with a because of a polish gold digger looking for a greencard. Not to be pesimistic, just realistic.
I am an american man dating a polish women who happens to be in the USA illegally (Visa recently expired). The girl who is 10 years younger than me (in her mid 20's) she and I were friends first and started dating (She had a crush on me). She says she really likes me for me and is not looking for a greencard. I do know for a fact that she has outright turned down other men who were specficially looking to date her becuase she is dating me. So here are a few questions. I have:
1. She can complain alot / can be negative. - Common or no?
2. Talks about family, but says how bad things are, not loving, mean, but then calls mom and sends money home on a regular basis to help out?
3. Wants to leave the country, but committed to renting a room and helping a friend. She is very unhappy with situation, but doesnt want to leave for a EU nation. Says she promised a friend to stay. Loyalty a strong traight?
4. Sending money home to supposedly help for food and clothes -Sounds fishy -Common or no?
5. Common in the culture for money NOT to be the most important? She said she would sign a prenuptual and give up all rights if she married someone. Said she would only marry for love. Common or no?
6. Educated with a masters degree in EU law. I hear college is limited for the few in Poland. Is this true?
We dont want to see her leave and look for options. She seems to have a lot of very good charecteristic that would make a good wife. Have not dated her long enough, but am considering it as an option in a few months.
I have no interest in ending up as a divorcee with a because of a polish gold digger looking for a greencard. Not to be pesimistic, just realistic.