ezs
1 Feb 2009
Love / Dilemma, Flight School or beautiful polish women????? [19]
Well this is my first post so here it goes...
I am a law student in my last year, 22 and I am a black British. i also live in England Mnachester. I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and she is stunning and makes me happy, she is also 4yrs older than me and need i say shes polish.
Dilemma - I first wanted to train to be a lawyer, hence being at law school, however, after plenty of work placements i had a change of heart. i could not envisage being stuck in an office 9-5.
so i am considering embarking on a flight course and train to become a commercial pilot.
The problem is that i will have to train for 18 months in Oxford, 6 of which will be in Arizona America.
As you can see, it would mean leaving her, something that i really, really do not want to do because i am so happy with her to the extent that i might be falling in love with her.
The relationship is quite tentative if that makes sense, reasons being - Age (4yrs older), clearly issues with color, which she does not see as a problem, but a cannot deny the fact that her friends or others may see as a problem back in Poland.
Assistat, advice in any way would be great.
cheers, Ez
Well this is my first post so here it goes...
I am a law student in my last year, 22 and I am a black British. i also live in England Mnachester. I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and she is stunning and makes me happy, she is also 4yrs older than me and need i say shes polish.
Dilemma - I first wanted to train to be a lawyer, hence being at law school, however, after plenty of work placements i had a change of heart. i could not envisage being stuck in an office 9-5.
so i am considering embarking on a flight course and train to become a commercial pilot.
The problem is that i will have to train for 18 months in Oxford, 6 of which will be in Arizona America.
As you can see, it would mean leaving her, something that i really, really do not want to do because i am so happy with her to the extent that i might be falling in love with her.
The relationship is quite tentative if that makes sense, reasons being - Age (4yrs older), clearly issues with color, which she does not see as a problem, but a cannot deny the fact that her friends or others may see as a problem back in Poland.
Assistat, advice in any way would be great.
cheers, Ez