Love / did i push him away [36]

lena
your experience is all to like my own.
all I can say is it's his loss and his families I look at my little boy who at a simliar age to yours' is funny and cheeky and has brought so much joy into our lives that it's his father who is missing all the joy that he has brought with him. As for letting his paternal grandparents know yes they have a right to know but I agree it's not your place to tell them, it's up to their son or yours when he is old enough to go in search of them if he pleases thats the way i'm playing it. as for falling for the guy in ? I too did the same and believe I had know idea he would turn around and run when this happened as he had seemed so grown up and family orientated it's seems to me that he changed completely when p word was mention to i bear he bad feeling no I all aspects of his life I wish him well yes we did fight I said horrible things to him after my child was born and he wouldnt see him but I put that down to stress and lack of sleep I was terrififed of bumping into him and his new girlfriend when I went into town shopping as I felt it would be a horrible situation but luckily I was not from the area where we both lived so I give up my council house and moved back to a different county to be near my own family for support so now i walk down the town and no fear of that horrible meeting which was bound to happen ran away maybe but my mother is ill so it was just the right thing for me just remember when the time comes for him to have his own legitimate child all the feelings should hit him as well as the guilt

Love / did i push him away [36]


was married to a irishman makes no difference irish english polish whatever most not all either fail their responsablities or cheat there are good ones but few and far btween

Genealogy / How to regain contact with ex-colleague who has returned to Poland? [7]

thank you sean tried the link but most of it remained in polish so got abit lost but thanks for the hint

Genealogy / How to regain contact with ex-colleague who has returned to Poland? [7]

thanks again but as its in polish no good as i only know tak and nie and good morning. i know he'd be hard to find without proper surname but was hoping maybe someone might know him from where we worked maybe or from ennis.

but again thank you all for trying

i also know he worked with a piotr mazur and antoni lambuda

Genealogy / Why would someone lie about their age? [26]


that is very possible my parents did that the baby girl before me died and they name me after her its quite common