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lovewithpolish   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

i love a polish girl alot. We meet three years ago and she also love me alot. I meet all her family members but she never saw my family. The reason is very simple. I'm a modern muslim but not my mom and dad.

Now some of my relatives asking me to find a girl (from my country) and settle down but nobody knows that i'm in love with a polish girl. I am afraid to tell anyone cuz i know then something serious will happen to family. Because our society, relative will never accept that.

I told my mom yesterday that, i don't want to involve in any relation at this moment because i'm busy with study and career

Now what can i do? i can't leave my girl friend and at the same time my family.

at the same time my gf is asking everyday that she wanna meet my family which i know i can't. I told her that, i don't have good relation with family members.

I want to ask specially those who are from different culture and in same situation like me?

is there anyone in this forum?
lovewithpolish   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I'm not Turkish...

I am from Bangladesh.

Religion is not the problem but culture.

SHELLY: I can understand why you hate Muslim or Pakistani

I have no hate towards any religion. For me all religion is equal.

I am muslim but at the same time i celebrated christmas with my girlfriend family this year in Poland.

The problem is in our culture it's extreamly rare (1 out of 10,000) marry foreigner.
but i love my gf alot.
I will not leave my girl friend but what if spend rest of the life with her but my family will never know about her.

I want to go back too my country so, i can have better future there. My father is a well known MP and industilist who want me to take over his industry when he retire but if i am with my GF i've to stay in Europe forever..

You guyz don't know how our culture and tradtion is..

I love my country but hate how some people prejudice against us living in western
country

Please i need honest advise from someone who is in same situation like me...
lovewithpolish   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

she is not wasting time with me.

i am still with her because i love her.

family is important for me but love with her is deep. that's the problem

i don't someone to give me negetive suggestion.

i had enough already.