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English Husband, Polish Wife... Going out together/not together? [35]
Essentially i know its not culture, but something else.
Sad but true by the sounds of it.
It also sounds like you've started to resent the situation and with resentment comes the long, dark road to the shitty end...unless the situation can be turned around, of course!
Re, all men cheating: Have you told her how insulting that is?! Also, what effect does she think statements like that will have on your relationship? They don't really encourage openness and honesty when she's starting from a position of mistrust. If anything, it's a potentially self-fulfilling prophecy. One day she may find herself feeling happy in her despair that all men are the same once you've been continually push away and made to feel like the sins of other men are upon you. Hanged. Sheep. Lamb.
This is a sweeping generalisation but women seem to respond well when things are written down. This is why women love to write letters to their partners. If you can do the same it also means that nothing can be 'mis-heard' and therefore misunderstood or, worse still, twisted. It's safer basically. It also means that you can reinforce the good things about her and your relationship throughout the letter. To a man, a letter seems like the situation can no longer be talked about. To a women, it's not the same.
