Posts by fantoosh

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Hi,

I stay in Ireland and my gf is from Poland. We have been going steady for almost a year now. Recently, we had a fight about some girl (polish again) who keeps wanting to talk with me...My girlfriend doesnt trust me that I can just talk to some other girl without getting flirtatious. She was very jealous about it and So she went and became friends with her (kind of like marking her territory, not that I mind) and they share jokes with each other and have nice fun. All this happened like 3 months, cut to the present - this other girl tried to talk with me online and I happened to mention it to my gf and she was absolutely furious. She even accused me of cheating on her, while infact we were talking about very general stuff and somethings about my gf too.

Now here's the part I dont understand - she can talk to this other girl but I cannot do it, because it makes her jealous!

Is this normal or is she being overly paranoid and jealous.

Oh, did I mention I am Indian, maybe we have too many cultural differences

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Do u read me above. i wasnt flirting...
And how do u think she found that I was talking to this 'friend' ? I told her about it. I thought that clears me from the shadow of doubt

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Thats the whole point of the arguement. I am not attracted to this 'friend'. I completely ignore her even to the point of rudeness... The only mistake I might have done was probably to find out what this (other) girl wanted from me. There was no way my gf would ever have found out that I talked to her. It just doesnt make any sense to me. Can she not see that by confessing my 'guilt', I absolve myself from it.

We have great chemistry otherwise and I dont think she's ever been unfaithful to me. But she always tells me that her friends warn her about Indian guys who are players with women. Is that a general impression about Indians or is she just creating drama ?

If there is a guy who is trying to reach your GF through phone and Internet,
Can she talk to that guy then?

She does that quite often on social networking websites. ofc she tells me about it.

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Get rid of her.

thanks Kilkline but she's a keeper.

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Moreover, British women in general didn't date them before and still don’t.

You presumptuous racist prick, who made you an authority on british women. I know many Indian men married to scots or maybe they dont count as 'british' enough for u.

I think you have a severe disability to read, apart from the fact that you are british. which is like a huge disability. I never said Indian men were players, we are the original homeboys. And quite proud of it, the Indian community has the lowest divorce rate all over the world!

I bet you cried to your mommy when you lost your job to an Indian.

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

Scots, English, Welsh, and N I. make up Britain dont they little prick?

hear hear...how about some knowledge of where u come from Mr.Low-IQ. Britain is England Wales and Scotland and NI is part of Ireland.

And they complain about losing jobs!

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Was I wrong or is it just my polish gf [26]

saved the Indian kid

thanks mister, what would the poor indians do without your love and care.

whenever you say something that offends an Indian guy his 1st line of defense is to talk about money and how great he is at work!

Its not a defence mate, its the truth. I know it can be bitter sometimes.

The only thing that anyone needs wisening upto is your bloody condescending attitude. I see that you just enjoy stereotyping people

fantoosh

19 Dec 2008

Love / Polish Girlfriend gone missing [154]

I think it is her father too, he's a real angry guy at times.

Are u sure you are talking about some Polish girl. She sounds more like Indian and her dad is trying to control whom she meets or dates. I think you are messed up dude. She clearly dumped you . I am sure its very harsh to read this but this seems to be the truth. Look mate, why would u want to be with someone who doesnt even care about informing you of her whereabouts. There is something called responsibilty, which is clearly lacking in her. Take some time off, get over her and get on with your life.

All the best!